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Author Topic: Not wearing what was requested........  (Read 2908 times)

Offline Marmalade

I very rarely request what a woman wears, but most of the times I have done, they've agreed, only to conveniently totally forget about it when I meet them.

It's not so much the lack of said item of clothing, that bugs me, more the dumb zero-respect attitude that goes with it. If they said "no, I don't have that, sorry" or had a genuine reason then fine, but more often than not, they don't even acknowledge/remember it.

Exactly. Whereas if I don't ask them 'hard' questions like can you wear stockings then I don't have anything to feel pissed about. Let's face it, some of them can engage, most don't. Bottom line, I'd rather shag a fit 18-21yr old that is nice to look at and has a tight fanny than an old boot who is punctilious about clothing requests.

Exactly. Whereas if I don't ask them 'hard' questions like can you wear stockings then I don't have anything to feel pissed about. Let's face it, some of them can engage, most don't. Bottom line, I'd rather shag a fit 18-21yr old that is nice to look at and has a tight fanny than an old boot who is punctilious about clothing requests.


i like to do both

Offline ParisB

I'm only 5 punts into this marvellous pastime, 2 good punts, 2 not as good,one I wrote off as a 'learn from'.

But on all but one occasion my request beforehand of black hold ups and high heels has been met with totally different outfits! My communications seem to get through service wise so is it just a case of the SP's feel comfortable in something else/can't be bothered to dress as requested.

I'm almost tempted to buy a pair of hold ups and hand them over with the paperwork next time, with a request to 'put them on or I'm elsewhere' if my request hasn't been met on turning up!!

Is this a common thing or am I having a beginners run?

Tom

Well i don't wear hold ups ( cant stand them- they remind me of Norah Batty )   So i prefer the traditional suspenders & stockings,  so i would say i don't wear holds up but i do have S&S is that ok
I have sort of a uniform  i.e. short black dress  high heels stockings and suspenders for when I'm working and  this is what i greet clients in When it comes for request on uniforms ect i have lots of them, however its not always possible to accommodate certain requests especially when I'm touring etc

I had my pictures done ages ago  with me wearing jodphurs and riding boots as i used to do a lot of horse riding and get lots of request for me to wear that  but i wouldn't wear them for appointments  as they are a total bitch to get on and get off (in particular the boots need a bloody boot hook to remove them )
The old white jumper that i wore and had a few pictures taken in i get loads of request for that but i no longer have it, but i will say that to clients when they ask about me wearing it and offer them an alternative of a white shirt or a clingy white vest top etc

   but i wouldnt say yeah sure i have that with me and then not have when they arrive, I might offer an alternative to that outfit  and see if they like it but its up to them if they
 
   Personally i understand from a guys point  that a certain look or particular outfit can be a very strong part of a guys fantasy to the point of thats why there are booking you as an escort, same as a girl service or look or figure can be the reason that a guy might book a particular escort,  so to say yeah sure i have it and then not have it when they arrive is a pretty crap thing to do ( imo) and i would expect the guy to walk if i did that 

However  when someone ask me to wear xxx and open the door wearing  it,  i politely refuse because you can be sat around waiting  in xxx and xxx and they might not turn up and pvc in the summer is fucking hot at the best of times without extended wearing of it  but i say as soon as you have arrived I'm happy to change into the outfit for you and you can see what else i have in case you prefer something else 

 


« Last Edit: January 03, 2013, 09:56:31 PM by ParisB »

Offline Marmalade

If it's a newbie escort (I like 'em hehe), it can be reassuring for her to ask her to have a certain (easy) outfit. Makes her feel she is 'doing something right' even before you get there. Which relaxes her and makes for an easier more pleasant punt.

Offline Cactus

If it's a newbie escort (I like 'em hehe), it can be reassuring for her to ask her to have a certain (easy) outfit. Makes her feel she is 'doing something right' even before you get there. Which relaxes her and makes for an easier more pleasant punt.

I'm easily pleased then as I like casual clothes on a WG.  Can't get much easier than that  :hi:

Offline mh

However  when someone ask me to wear xxx and open the door wearing  it,  i politely refuse because you can be sat around waiting  in xxx and xxx and they might not turn up and pvc in the summer is fucking hot at the best of times without extended wearing of it  but i say as soon as you have arrived I'm happy to change into the outfit for you and you can see what else i have in case you prefer something else

That would annoy me as one thing I hate is when the girl goes off to get ready after I've arrived. Eating into my play time is one issue but even if they then give the full time (a) I'm raring to go after the pre-punt preparations (travelling, finding the place, meeting the girl, handing over payment), not in the mood to sit around for 10 minutes and (b) I usually have to get back to work and an hours punt already takes almost 2 hours from time of leaving the office to time of returning. It also dispels the GFE or PSE fantasy experience that she was waiting for you to arrive and desperate to satisfy you.

If I make requests (and I often do) I would expect the girl to be ready for my booking, not mentally writing me off as a possible no-show. The best I have had was when the girl was dressed head to toe in a policewoman outfit as agreed and opened the door to me in it and in character - I was a very happy punter.

Offline Marmalade

My requests are usually quite simple and on a half hour punt I prefer her to be ready as agreed. If it involved her going to the bathroom to change once I got there it's partly the time, and partly well I'm really not that bothered dear. If she doesn't want to have the fantasy ready for my arrival it's not a deal breaker. I don't want to have to change mind sets personally. When booking, I might say, "It would be nice if you could be wearing ..." and she's free to say she might not have that to hand. The visit is for sex. Dressing up games while I wait/watch would be a different scenario as far as I'm concerned. As Jim might say, "Like watching her eat."

ParisB - in reply to your other thread on your prices - I maybe mistook Euros for Pounds - I only had a quick glance at your profile again (that can be a compliment on UKP) but my point still stands - I generally only punt with 18-21yr olds, of which there are a plentiful supply in Edinburgh for my simple punting needs, so you would not be in my radar so to speak.

Offline ParisB

That would annoy me as one thing I hate is when the girl goes off to get ready after I've arrived. Eating into my play time is one issue but even if they then give the full time (a) I'm raring to go after the pre-punt preparations (travelling, finding the place, meeting the girl, handing over payment), not in the mood to sit around for 10 minutes and (b) I usually have to get back to work and an hours punt already takes almost 2 hours from time of leaving the office to time of returning. It also dispels the GFE or PSE fantasy experience that she was waiting for you to arrive and desperate to satisfy you.

If I make requests (and I often do) I would expect the girl to be ready for my booking, not mentally writing me off as a possible no-show. The best I have had was when the girl was dressed head to toe in a policewoman outfit as agreed and opened the door to me in it and in character - I was a very happy punter.

Actually i wouldn't eat into your playtime at all,  as i take the time it take to change out of MY TIME not your time so you would still get your full 30mins /1hr ect as it my preference to do it that way   
And i do make a point of telling client that before hand if they request certain stuff i won't be wearing it when they arrive just so that they are aware of that 


Offline ParisB

My requests are usually quite simple and on a half hour punt I prefer her to be ready as agreed. If it involved her going to the bathroom to change once I got there it's partly the time, and partly well I'm really not that bothered dear. If she doesn't want to have the fantasy ready for my arrival it's not a deal breaker. I don't want to have to change mind sets personally. When booking, I might say, "It would be nice if you could be wearing ..." and she's free to say she might not have that to hand. The visit is for sex. Dressing up games while I wait/watch would be a different scenario as far as I'm concerned. As Jim might say, "Like watching her eat."

ParisB - in reply to your other thread on your prices - I maybe mistook Euros for Pounds - I only had a quick glance at your profile again (that can be a compliment on UKP) but my point still stands - I generally only punt with 18-21yr olds, of which there are a plentiful supply in Edinburgh for my simple punting needs, so you would not be in my radar so to speak.
   I never get to Edingburgh so i guess i wouldnt be a problem for me either  :lol:

Offline Marmalade

   I never get to Edingburgh so i guess i wouldnt be a problem for me either  :lol:
Tut tut ... round the world and never tae the best bit on your doorstep :rolleyes: ;)

Offline mh

Actually i wouldn't eat into your playtime at all,  as i take the time it take to change out of MY TIME not your time so you would still get your full 30mins /1hr ect as it my preference to do it that way   
And i do make a point of telling client that before hand if they request certain stuff i won't be wearing it when they arrive just so that they are aware of that

It's good that you're up-front about it. I visited a girl in a hotel once and she took 15 minutes in the bathroom to get ready, leaving me twiddling my thumbs. I got the full time, but I was still sat wasting 15 minutes and hardly enhancing the flow of the punt. I have to say my experience has been that most girls I have seen have been wearing what they agreed to wear, just a few have not.

Some are really keen to know if they have got it "right" compared to what I had asked for and was expecting. Sometimes it is clear they didn't get it but had been too embarrassed to ask for clarification. For example one girl had a load of gallery pictures with her wearing some really sexy sheer panties, so I asked her to wear the sheer panties from her photos. She had no idea what that meant so was wearing some silky ones. They were very nice! She asked me at the meeting what the heck "sheer" meant!

Offline Marmalade

Some prossies have standards. Most don't. So even if you do, it is efficient to let a guy know about the 25 minutes you take powdering your fanny and putting little white pants on instead of your bridget jones.

In a parlour, when she 'pops out while i get showered / relaxed' and checks her text messages, emails, has a fag and finishes her lunch, i always say when she comes back in, 'I take it my half hour starts from now?' If the answer is not clearly in the affirmative i just go back up to reception and either get it sorted or cancel the session.

Some prossies think that because they don't abuse the punters time that somehow he will instinctively 'know.' This of course is not only bollocks but a form of conceit - "I am so high class how would he even think I would do anything like that!"

A lot of prossies only know prossies in their own league, vaguely aware of 'streetwalkers' or whatever the current category that they look down on. Punters have experience of hundreds of prossies. They know there are few set standards, even within one agency or parlour. If you are going to do something courteous for the punter that is not in his paid time let him know. It might be one reason why your last customer rushed his shower.

We are not judging you on here (I'll leave that to Mr James haha!) so please don't all rush to say what wonderful high standards you have (yawn). Do you want me to labour you with how long I spend scrubbing myself in the shower before going to a parlour five minutes away and then having another one. No. Fuck off. It is not what anyone says they do on here, it is about how to improve your experience on the job.
« Last Edit: January 04, 2013, 02:57:03 PM by Marmalade »

Offline ParisB

It's good that you're up-front about it. I visited a girl in a hotel once and she took 15 minutes in the bathroom to get ready, leaving me twiddling my thumbs. I got the full time, but I was still sat wasting 15 minutes and hardly enhancing the flow of the punt. I have to say my experience has been that most girls I have seen have been wearing what they agreed to wear, just a few have not.

Some are really keen to know if they have got it "right" compared to what I had asked for and was expecting. Sometimes it is clear they didn't get it but had been too embarrassed to ask for clarification. For example one girl had a load of gallery pictures with her wearing some really sexy sheer panties, so I asked her to wear the sheer panties from her photos. She had no idea what that meant so was wearing some silky ones. They were very nice! She asked me at the meeting what the heck "sheer" meant!


15 mins is a piss take - I'm talking 2 -3 mins max to go and change into the requested outfit  do anything else that i need to do and return back to the room
if the guy has a shower at mine i normally say to them as soon as your out i will be back with you  i can hear them getting out of the shower from downstairs so i can go up straight away



 

In a parlour, when she 'pops out while i get showered / relaxed' and checks her text messages, emails, has a fag and finishes her lunch, i always say when she comes back in, 'I take it my half hour starts from now?' If the answer is not clearly in the affirmative i just go back up to reception and either get it sorted or cancel the session.

Bit off topic but in this scenario would you have already paid?  And would you expect to get some or all of your money back?  Alot of the parlours here ask for the money in reception once you've picked your girl.  Trying to get your money back would result in  a "sorry luv we don't do refunds"  :diablo: 

Offline Marmalade

Bit off topic but in this scenario would you have already paid?  And would you expect to get some or all of your money back?  Alot of the parlours here ask for the money in reception once you've picked your girl.  Trying to get your money back would result in  a "sorry luv we don't do refunds"  :diablo:
Nope. The time that comes to mind was Dundas Street, that are usually ok (about time anyway - quality and quantity of doable birds is another thing). She said it wasn't (she's taken nearly ten fookin minutes). I made it quite clear I wasn't having any of it and she eventualy backed down. There is no entrance fee at Dundas St. The one time they tried to charge me before going downstairs I kicked up about that too as it is not normal practice there. At London Street, they will always offer to refund your money if the bint hasn't undressed. (Or they don't know you they might perhaps just offer to waive it next time you come and they will actually keep their word.) If it changes, there is still no way I am going to accept one third of the paid time for her faffing about it's just not reasonable.

I don't use parlours in England much. The few I've been in have not endeared themselves to me, even Sandys which is up there with the best south of the border. It's like they're operating down a dark alley and everything is regulated in case someone gets caught. Glasgow used to be like that too. In London Street or Dundas St (Edinburgh) I can either arrange a quick in-out, usually with a swift phone call first, or hang about all afternoon drinking their tea and soft drinks or watching tv and a banter (well banter at Dundas St, London St girls don't banter much). But the scene is generally relaxed, polite, and any misunderstandings can be sorted out. It doesn't mean you never get a bad punt, you do, but it's just a different scene. I can imagine kicking off in an English sauna might not get a result. It's all about knowing what the score is, knowing what you can get away with, not getting treated like a fluffie.
« Last Edit: January 04, 2013, 06:55:00 PM by Marmalade »

Tony Montana

15 minutes is a rip off, that is probably £30 of your money at usual rates

have bluntly refused to wear a 'tic top eurgh  :D


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