I'm only 5 punts into this marvellous pastime, 2 good punts, 2 not as good,one I wrote off as a 'learn from'.
But on all but one occasion my request beforehand of black hold ups and high heels has been met with totally different outfits! My communications seem to get through service wise so is it just a case of the SP's feel comfortable in something else/can't be bothered to dress as requested.
I'm almost tempted to buy a pair of hold ups and hand them over with the paperwork next time, with a request to 'put them on or I'm elsewhere' if my request hasn't been met on turning up!!
Is this a common thing or am I having a beginners run?
Well i don't wear hold ups ( cant stand them- they remind me of Norah Batty ) So i prefer the traditional suspenders & stockings, so i would say i don't wear holds up but i do have S&S is that ok
I have sort of a uniform i.e. short black dress high heels stockings and suspenders for when I'm working and this is what i greet clients in When it comes for request on uniforms ect i have lots of them, however its not always possible to accommodate certain requests especially when I'm touring etc
I had my pictures done ages ago with me wearing jodphurs and riding boots as i used to do a lot of horse riding and get lots of request for me to wear that but i wouldn't wear them for appointments as they are a total bitch to get on and get off (in particular the boots need a bloody boot hook to remove them )
The old white jumper that i wore and had a few pictures taken in i get loads of request for that but i no longer have it, but i will say that to clients when they ask about me wearing it and offer them an alternative of a white shirt or a clingy white vest top etc
but i wouldnt say yeah sure i have that with me and then not have when they arrive, I might offer an alternative to that outfit and see if they like it but its up to them if they
Personally i understand from a guys point that a certain look or particular outfit can be a very strong part of a guys fantasy to the point of thats why there are booking you as an escort, same as a girl service or look or figure can be the reason that a guy might book a particular escort, so to say yeah sure i have it and then not have it when they arrive is a pretty crap thing to do ( imo) and i would expect the guy to walk if i did that
However when someone ask me to wear xxx and open the door wearing it, i politely refuse because you can be sat around waiting in xxx and xxx and they might not turn up and pvc in the summer is fucking hot at the best of times without extended wearing of it but i say as soon as you have arrived I'm happy to change into the outfit for you and you can see what else i have in case you prefer something else