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Offline Tom5334

I'm only 5 punts into this marvellous pastime, 2 good punts, 2 not as good,one I wrote off as a 'learn from'.

But on all but one occasion my request beforehand of black hold ups and high heels has been met with totally different outfits! My communications seem to get through service wise so is it just a case of the SP's feel comfortable in something else/can't be bothered to dress as requested.

I'm almost tempted to buy a pair of hold ups and hand them over with the paperwork next time, with a request to 'put them on or I'm elsewhere' if my request hasn't been met on turning up!!

Is this a common thing or am I having a beginners run?

Tom
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I've had them follow it to the letter and also ones that could have never heard the conversation. I usually only book at short notice though and it may be that she is using a rented flat and hasn't brought the requested outfit with her. Or she's just too lazy or doesn't understand English or couldn't care less.

If it's crucial, some ploys might be, pick a WG that has uniforms ticked, that speaks English, that has good feedback, that has the required outfit in one if her photos, has repeated your request back to you in her own words and preferably in writing. If you want to go so far as provide the kit yourself, many will obligingly wear it. They may expect to keep it.

Offline billyjo

On a personal note this wouldn't bother me but my only ever request is they wear as little as possible when I arrive.

Offline Tom5334

Must admit that I usually forget about what they are wearing when the action starts but I do have a thing for black hold ups and stripper heels and always request them, always with a "Of course" reply!
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Offline MethodMan

I don't care what they are wearing! I want them naked ASAP!   :cool:
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Offline Jimmyredcab

One thing to bear in mind is that you may have booked via the pimp or the maid in which case you are very unlikely to get the clothes that were requested. They tend to tell you what you want to hear.    :(

Offline James999


But on all but one occasion my request beforehand of black hold ups and high heels has been met with totally different outfits! My communications seem to get through service wise so is it just a case of the SP's feel comfortable in something else/can't be bothered to dress as requested.


In that situation when you arrive say "are you going to change into what we agreed" the response is likely to be bollocks such as "they are not here, or they are in the wash"

To which you reply, no problems, when shall I come back ? You are then likely to get a discount if you stay and if you don't want to you can walk.

If every punter did this they would soon learn to deliver as agreed  :hi:

Imagine if you turned up and said oh the moneys not here  :dash:

Offline James999

One thing to bear in mind is that you may have booked via the pimp or the maid in which case you are very unlikely to get the clothes that were requested. They tend to tell you what you want to hear.    :(

All the more reason to walk, as then the maid will get a bollocking, or the pimp will remind her why she is being paid 10 x minimum wage  :crazy:

Offline Jimmyredcab

In that situation when you arrive say "are you going to change into what we agreed" the response is likely to be bollocks such as "they are not here, or they are in the wash"

To which you reply, no problems, when shall I come back ? You are then likely to get a discount if you stay and if you don't want to you can walk.

If every punter did this they would soon learn to deliver as agreed  :hi:

Imagine if you turned up and said oh the moneys not here  :dash:

Good advice --------------------- in theory, the problem is that most punters will be hyped up for the punt and will accept whatever they are presented with, this is why bait and switch is so common.   :thumbsdown:

Offline Jimmyredcab

All the more reason to walk, as then the maid will get a bollocking, or the pimp will remind her why she is being paid 10 x minimum wage  :crazy:

I doubt that maids earn 10 x the minimum wage, more likely £60 a day to top up their benefits.   :hi:

Offline James999

Good advice --------------------- in theory, the problem is that most punters will be hyped up for the punt and will accept whatever they are presented with, this is why bait and switch is so common.   :thumbsdown:

True, and that is why I put the twist in about coming back, as you dsay your Cock is saying Yes and your head saying no, so the compromise is a discount, when a pro$$ie has a client there and the possibility that he walks and she has an hour in front of Jeremy Kyle you will often get the price down, after all it was her that "broke the deal"  :hi:

Offline James999

I doubt that maids earn 10 x the minimum wage, more likely £60 a day to top up their benefits.   :hi:

I meant the Pro$$ie  :hi:

Offline Cactus

In that situation when you arrive say "are you going to change into what we agreed" the response is likely to be bollocks such as "they are not here, or they are in the wash"

To which you reply, no problems, when shall I come back ? You are then likely to get a discount if you stay and if you don't want to you can walk.

If every punter did this they would soon learn to deliver as agreed  :hi:

Imagine if you turned up and said oh the moneys not here  :dash:

Good advice and congratulations on your new moderator status  :drinks:

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Fallen Angel offered me a discount as she had to cancel an appointment with one hour's notice. Still pissed me off but the gesture was better than nowt perhaps.  Scottish Hottie has negotiated 'deals' before now when she couldn't offer exactly what I requested.

Some prossies work as 'professionals'

Some prossies just 'do their honest best'

Some prossies are just lazy cunts


The first is most reliable but can be a bit impersonal or even boring unless exceptionally gifted.  The second category has wide variations in 'honest best' (what's the 'honest best' of someone who wouldn't be able to keep a job a Tesco's even in Slovenia with hungry kids to feed). The last category are just ... well, cunts!

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Good advice and congratulations on your new moderator status  :drinks:
While he's wallowing with a nice new shiny badge I'm going to appropriate one of his older more self-effacing pictures. Gone are the days when James had more 'edge' than my tangiest of marmalade spreads. I hope the shine doesn't wear off too quickly - UKP needs you hehehe!

Behold the finger of righteous shoving up of cunts!

Ravanelli

Good advice and congratulations on your new moderator status  :drinks:

There's a turn up for the books. Isn't asking James to be moderate a bit like asking Jimmy Saville not to fuck kids?   :lol:

Offline davidgood

I'm only 5 punts into this marvellous pastime, 2 good punts, 2 not as good,one I wrote off as a 'learn from'.

But on all but one occasion my request beforehand of black hold ups and high heels has been met with totally different outfits! My communications seem to get through service wise so is it just a case of the SP's feel comfortable in something else/can't be bothered to dress as requested.

I'm almost tempted to buy a pair of hold ups and hand them over with the paperwork next time, with a request to 'put them on or I'm elsewhere' if my request hasn't been met on turning up!!

Is this a common thing or am I having a beginners run?

Tom
Hi Tom,

Yes, this does happen to even long in the tooth punters like me. I try whenever possible to speak to the lady herself to make sure she knows what I want but even then there can be misunderstandings or they just do not have what you want them to wear. The other day I was bit wary as I know that a Hungarian lady I was going to see has all her calls answered by her young friend who speaks good English. To be on the safe side I took a pair of hold ups with me and when I arrived the lady I was seeing had on little boots and no stockings. Rather than just hand over my emergency ones I asked where her stockings were. There was a bit of rumaging in a holdall and she went off to put them on. I half expected her to return in laddered ones but was pleasantly surprised they were OK and enough to keep me going.

My advice is to ask them to dress as requested, with the threat of walking if you are not satisfied, but have your own as a fall back if she is an attractive lady who you want to sample.

Regards,

davidgood

In that situation when you arrive say "are you going to change into what we agreed" the response is likely to be bollocks such as "they are not here, or they are in the wash"

To which you reply, no problems, when shall I come back ? You are then likely to get a discount if you stay and if you don't want to you can walk.

If every punter did this they would soon learn to deliver as agreed  :hi:

Imagine if you turned up and said oh the moneys not here  :dash:

Tom, pay attention to this guy ^ and you will go far.

The first thing you should learn in punting is when to walk. Make sure you are always getting what you want and not what 'she has decided' you will get. The rate you have to pay remains the same regardless so you should never settle for less than what you have asked for.

There are 1000's of other escorts that take their work seriously and will not only fulfill your request but do so with the type of enthusiasm that will make you leave with a smile.


I can't see the attraction of hold ups really. I mean, they're better than no stockings but in my view you can't beat nice sheer stockings pulled snugly high up the leg by suspenders. And as for those transparent stripper heels, yuk! Just shows how we're all different.

Offline crystaldenison

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I like wearing fishnet hold ups  :kissgirl: there sooo sexy on  and then nice matching undies with something over the top that shows enough but also keeps some hidden  ;)

 altho I do have the normal ones in my bag as well as tights with a hole just in the right place I tend to make a little hole in tights so the guy can rip them open (this tends to be the wanted thing when wearing tights I find) 

   

Offline mh

While he's wallowing with a nice new shiny badge I'm going to appropriate one of his older more self-effacing pictures. Gone are the days when James had more 'edge' than my tangiest of marmalade spreads. I hope the shine doesn't wear off too quickly - UKP needs you hehehe!
There's a turn up for the books. Isn't asking James to be moderate a bit like asking Jimmy Saville not to fuck kids?   :lol:

Did you both indulge too much over the festive period? James' avatars are certainly entertaining but are all self-awarded!

I can't imagine it happening and to be honest it would stop James being James. Despite a lack of any punting evidence from James, he's always good for a humorous dig at whoever's actually making the rules and decisions.

Offline bella_s

I love to wear hold ups/sussies/heels but not when it gets too detailed such as ffs with cuban heels and white suspenders etc etc,i offer myself and give my all .I think wearing stuff i feel crap in would just hinder my performance/confidence  and ruin the booking!

Offline Ali Katt

I love to wear hold ups/sussies/heels but not when it gets too detailed such as ffs with cuban heels and white suspenders etc etc,i offer myself and give my all .I think wearing stuff i feel crap in would just hinder my performance/confidence  and ruin the booking!
I think the problem is when something is requested and the escort agrees to it and when the punter arrives she's wearing something different. It's a given that the escort shouldn't wear something she can't work in, likewise it's a given the escort shouldn't blatantly lie about the outfits available to get a booking.

What I've found works is if the WG has pictures of what she can wear and asks the punter to choose one when he makes a phone booking.

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What I've found works is if the WG has pictures of what she can wear and asks the punter to choose one when he makes a phone booking.
yes I agree. simplifies it. Also, rather than get into a situation where I am disappointed, I usually add 'if you can be bothered' or 'if you have it with you' or give her a choice, specially on a short notice booking. With more notice, I feel more comfortable if she confirms what she's going to wear by email. But tehre again my tastes are mostly quite simple.
 :)

Offline portable

I very rarely request what a woman wears, but most of the times I have done, they've agreed, only to conveniently totally forget about it when I meet them.

It's not so much the lack of said item of clothing, that bugs me, more the dumb zero-respect attitude that goes with it. If they said "no, I don't have that, sorry" or had a genuine reason then fine, but more often than not, they don't even acknowledge/remember it.


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