No of course I'm not a troll obviously this was my third post hence still not knowing how to post links and to be fair I thought it was just aw links but yes in hindsight I maybe shouldn't have asked until I knew how to post links but I wasn't rude or offensive I just asked a question and if someone doesn't have anything constructive to say why say anything? That's what trolls do and the amount of posts someone has or hasn't does not define their character either way.
I asked a simple question, sorry 2 simple questions as you gave no indication in your post 1, how do you get in touch with her? and 2, is it some sort of secret society IE is the BDSM / dom scene one that's kept reasonably quiet due to some involved not wanting the fact widely known.
If you think that's being a troll the report button's over to the right.
If you're new and wanted advice on how to post links, you only have to ask and I, for one, would tell you.