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Author Topic: When to hand over cash to the escort?  (Read 1427 times)

Offline TERIMAKI

Just wanted to quickly get everyone's opinion on when to give her the cash once you arrive.

I like the idea of arriving, settling down, having a quick chat, and then exchanging the money.

In my experience though, most girls don't like that. Some even insist on exchanging cash even before services are discussed.

What's the norm? What should I expect? What does everyone else do?
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Offline Okcomputer


 From my personal experience, the first thing they want to see from you is the cash, they would not want you in their room for one second if in case you did not have the cash and thought you just wanted to come along for a chat or company. I personally think it is not right for the punter to hand over all the cash even before the encounter starts as it might be shit or all of the services might not be offered. Be also aware that there will be a pimp or pimps in the next room who will be called into action in case you get the wrong ideas.
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Offline kim88

With most girls, I always be sure to confirm the services she advertised on her profile at the start of meeting. And once she confirms them, I just hand over the cash.

Offline maxxblue

When they ask for it, once services are confirmed.

It is essentially a business transaction, so when you pay isn't really determined by you, though you can decide if you pay.

Just like you wouldn't go to the cinema and tell the person at the till that you will pat once you have settled down and watched the trailers.

Offline punther

Would say hand over only once they have agreed they are able to provide the services you are after

A good thing to do also is to ask if you can use the bathroom as soon as you get into the premises(whether or not you actually need to pee). Gives you an opportunity to quickly reflect on any initial feelings you have now you have met the girl but also to gauge the girls attitude

I've been told quite bluntly 'Money First' by a couple of girls when I've asked to use the bathroom when entering the premises and all resulted in shit punts

So in summary

Hand money over after you have gone into the bathroom and then confirmed services  :D

Beyond this there is not much scope for manoeuvre at this stage of the proceedings

Offline Rod trotter

Ive never had a problem with any girl in this score.

I research them before hand so services in know what to expect and im very willing on entering the bedroom to hand over the cash.using agencies like i do hasnt given me any worries at all  :unknown:

Regulars ive had in the past would get it after the punt on occasions.do whatever YOU'RE comfortable with.
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Offline smiths

Just wanted to quickly get everyone's opinion on when to give her the cash once you arrive.

I like the idea of arriving, settling down, having a quick chat, and then exchanging the money.

In my experience though, most girls don't like that. Some even insist on exchanging cash even before services are discussed.

What's the norm? What should I expect? What does everyone else do?

My advice is confirm the WGs services on offer with her when you arrive at the punt as that's the best you can do, then if she agrees to do as agreed hand over the cash. I go on a WGs attitude and any sign of a bad one and I walk nowadays.

Offline Roth

My advice is confirm the WGs services on offer with her when you arrive at the punt as that's the best you can do, then if she agrees to do as agreed hand over the cash. I go on a WGs attitude and any sign of a bad one and I walk nowadays.

Best advice IMHO.  :thumbsup:

Offline Daiawn

I always do it it at the earliest and most appropriate moment.
With a girl I have seen before I hand it over straight away so it is dealt with and I can get on with the meet.
With a new girl I usually exchange a few pleasantries and perhaps have a quick chat but always hand it over before any serious action starts.  I don't want either of us to be thinking about it during the meeting.

Offline jlike

Generally always hand it over at the start, gets it out of the way. I have, occasionally with regs, handed it over at the end as we both dive straight in to the action without money changing hands presumably they know and trust me to pay at the end. Have twice now forgotten to pay and had to be reminded and felt embarrassed at having to be reminded and putting them in the position where they have had to ask for the money.

I think it's best to find the right moment. Walking through the door with the cash in your hand doesn't look to good I reckon. If your seeing a girl first time offer it at the start, but once you get to know someone, some are happy to have it at the end. I had a punt yesterday and didn't pay until I was just about to walk out the door and had to offer it even then  :D

Online george r

if its first time with her right away, if I have seen her few times and a bit if trust is there at the end for indies , parlour girls at the end.

Usually like to get the money out of the way in the first few minutes if its someone new.

I have a regular who i see every month or so though and i usually leave it at the end. She did ring me once though a few minutes after i left to say she'd forgotten to get the money off me. It was really embarressing but she was good about it and knew it was a genuine mistake.


I always confirm that the services I have requested when making the booking are definitely available before handing over the cash. 

I walked away from a punt last week as they did not have a strap on despite me asking when I booked.   

Offline Spacecowb0y

I hand over my hard earned within a few minutes of saying hello, and just as I ask for the bathroom. This gives her time to put the money away and get me a drink before I return, and ready to go (so to speak)

I always confirm that the services I have requested when making the booking are definitely available before handing over the cash. 

I walked away from a punt last week as they did not have a strap on despite me asking when I booked.
something similar happened to me, I asked an escort the day before if owo & deep French kissing was on the menu which she said was fine, and when I got there the next day she said "Do you mind if I don't give owo or kiss as I went to the dentist this morning and my jaw is hurting" I said you could have told me that before I arrived, a wasted journey so I just left

Offline eyeseebee

I always do it it at the earliest and most appropriate moment.
With a girl I have seen before I hand it over straight away so it is dealt with and I can get on with the meet.
With a new girl I usually exchange a few pleasantries and perhaps have a quick chat but always hand it over before any serious action starts.  I don't want either of us to be thinking about it during the meeting.
I would imagine that the money is what the girl is thinking about during the entire meeting.

Offline RedKettle

something similar happened to me, I asked an escort the day before if owo & deep French kissing was on the menu which she said was fine, and when I got there the next day she said "Do you mind if I don't give owo or kiss as I went to the dentist this morning and my jaw is hurting" I said you could have told me that before I arrived, a wasted journey so I just left

to which the answer is "do you mind if I don't pay you as I went to the bookies this morning and lost all my cash?" :hi:

Offline Lykon

With most girls, I always be sure to confirm the services she advertised on her profile at the start of meeting. And once she confirms them, I just hand over the cash.

I do so too

I always hand over the money as I am getting undressed to shower.  Which is usually within first 2 minutes of arriving.

Offline fed24

At the beginning of the punt before asking for a shower usually.

Albeit this does set off a memory of rather nice punt I had must be over ten years ago when I was a mid to late twenties more athletic man. I booked this new girl for an hour in Hove, EE around the age of Twenty and offered all services. According to the madame she was new to Escorting and I was her first punt (considering what happened that might well be true.

The Madame ushered me into the flat took me to a bright bedroom and then the girl was sent in, she was utterly gorgeous with that nice student look about her. She looked much like the porn star Gina Gerson http://www.xnxx.com/pornstar/gina-gerson

Well she sized me up smiled and before I could say anything she came up to me and started to passionately tongues and all start to DFK me. Then she nelt down pulled open my flies and started to give me a lovely wet OWO for about a minute. She then stood up gave me another kiss and asked for the money and if I would like to freshen up. I hadn't said a word up to that point!

Well once I had paid, showered and returned she took me onto the bed for another OWO blowjob, fuck in all positions with kissing followed by another blowjob finishing with CIM and swallow!

WOW! I am getting hard now just thinking about it!

I saw her again a couple months later at a different parlour, whilst the same services were on offer it was payment upfront as is normal. I guess the other working girls explained the details of the order of such things! She was also a bit more jaded, I presume she has long returned to her motherland but what a punt!
« Last Edit: June 07, 2016, 04:43:29 PM by fed24 »

I normally pay at the end,just put the notes on the side,of course some ask if we can "sort out the paperwork" :wackogirl: at the start which isn't a problem, either way it's not something to worry about

Offline webpunter

It depends
At the cheaper end with a younger EE burd then usually you get the look which says cash required, early doors.  Especially on 1st visit.  More relaxed on repeat - a little.  And i'll size things up & check things through
As the hourly rate goes up, the older the WG & especially when British / they speak very good english, then things can be more relaxed.  Especially on longer bookings.  So when they snog your face off & start rubbing your cock without even mentioning cash then the omens are looking good.  This normally prompts me to mention.  Its nice when they say pay at the end [on the odd occasion] or leave it on the side [now & again]
There is then the Jaycee [Plymouth] experience.  Not a chance to get wallet out or mention.  She just pounced on me.  I said something like 'money' & she responded with 'later' & the look which said 'just shut up & enjoy'.  A-fucking-mazing :yahoo:   The bad news is she's retired  :dash:

Offline hullad

I always try to establish what I call " the order of battle " by asking "do you do everything on your list or are there some no go area's " Now if I get yes, or even no OWO then ok .......................................

but if its no kissing , no ro, no oral at all, no mish, no touching my minge, no trivial shite they come out with to suit whatever mood they are in. Then I walk  :diablo:

I do visit one lady a lot and I just pop the cash down on the dressing table when I arrive and its still there when she shows me out, she would never bother when I paid, just as long as I did of course. Most do expect prompt payment and I can understand why I bet many of them have had at least one scote has done the stuff and refused or had no cash.   

Offline EricJ

At the beginning of the punt before asking for a shower usually.

Albeit this does set off a memory of rather nice punt I had must be over ten years ago when I was a mid to late twenties more athletic man. I booked this new girl for an hour in Hove, EE around the age of Twenty and offered all services. According to the madame she was new to Escorting and I was her first punt (considering what happened that might well be true.

The Madame ushered me into the flat took me to a bright bedroom and then the girl was sent in, she was utterly gorgeous with that nice student look about her. She looked much like the porn star Gina Gerson http://www.xnxx.com/pornstar/gina-gerson

Well she sized me up smiled and before I could say anything she came up to me and started to passionately tongues and all start to DFK me. Then she nelt down pulled open my flies and started to give me a lovely wet OWO for about a minute. She then stood up gave me another kiss and asked for the money and if I would like to freshen up. I hadn't said a word up to that point!

Well once I had paid, showered and returned she took me onto the bed for another OWO blowjob, fuck in all positions with kissing followed by another blowjob finishing with CIM and swallow!

WOW! I am getting hard now just thinking about it!

I saw her again a couple months later at a different parlour, whilst the same services were on offer it was payment upfront as is normal. I guess the other working girls explained the details of the order of such things! She was also a bit more jaded, I presume she has long returned to her motherland but what a punt!

Sounds bullshit to me.


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