My history is that of a very inactive punter. I have had 6 encounters with escorts all my life.
In all cases I saved up a little money researched their background very well and opted for reputable agencies (2x) or - I am the submissive type - for Mistresses that work independently with their own premises and a reputation to go with it (4x).
I am due to travel to Malaysia this weekend and have been researching the local scene there.
While technically illegal, prostitution seems to be tolerated and is budding.
There is no Mistress there though that I can either afford (there's one from Singapore who seems to charge fees that dwarf the London Mistress fees) or take serious 'Me want to beat you up till you bleed and scat but can start easy with beginner'.
I also did not want to look for an agency escort as had a feeling some of the girls are forced into work.
So I went on the search for free lance escorts to find one that I thought seemed to fit.
It was a surprisingly difficult search, hardly anyone responded to my messages and many of the 'independent' ad's were clearly agencies.
Eventually I got in touch with a Vietnamese girl - I'll call her Anna.
She really impressed me. Her photo was not the typical 'look cute' type, no face, no legs just a firm stomach image and no second image to figure out it was the same girl.
I was hesitant at first.
When I asked for her price I was rather surprised to hear something very similar to UK prices for less than an hour. Anna promptly followed up saying 'no need to book if too much'.
I almost stopped the exchange at that point, but when I asked her about her rate for 6 hours she gave me a price that was very competitive and not even the same as two times her one hour rate.
What was a very short and dry chat suddenly turned into a warm and active exchange.
She sent images of the clothing she could wear, shoes, her makeup.
I have at least 15 photos that clearly show the same - and very stunning - lady.
She openly admitted that she rarely sees clients and never wants a session of less than two hours.
She also works as a dancer in the evenings and a yoga instructor during the day.
Her incredibly firm body, videos of the place where she is dancing as well as a place for the yoga studio all seem to check out and show the same person.
I was open about my submissive desired and she immediately suggested some things she could do, hat I loathe to say had never come to my mind before.
In all fairness I probably look forward to this session more than to any other session so far - and I have had sessions booked 3+ months in advance.
So pretty much everything about Anna seems to check out.
But there are a few things I am concerned about.
* She kept asking me if I was local or foreigner
* When I asked what sort of drink she would like me to get - she asked for red wine
* Her English is very poor and she seemed to translate everything with google.
None of these completely scare me on their own but I am a little concerned that as a foreigner I'd be a little bit more at risk of being attacked. Red wine I believe is a common way you can conceal certain date rape drugs and the fact that she really had to translate very basic phrases I wrote makes me wonder how she can survive in Malaysia on her own. She also asked if I can have some dragon fruit - specifically he red meat colour one and I wonder if that has a similar effect.
So I am planning to be cautious:
* I won't drink any alcohol myself, but just water straight from the bottle - one with a typical sports nozzle.
* My cash, keys and cards will all be stored in the hotel room safe with only by 2 year old beaten laptop being a piece of some disputable value.
* We will meet in a place just outside of the hotel and I will introduce her as my personal trainer to the hotel staff who will then need to take her id to allow her to enter.
* We are planning to start our session with a workout at the gym where she will push me to the limit with certain types of painful excercises.
* Once in my suite I have asked her that I want her to shower and then only wear the bathrobe, which should make concealing any drugs much harder.
In any case I was wondering if I should take further precautions or I need to check anything else.