Nothing new to start with here, but easy sex at my own convenience is the main plus for me.
I'm still young and attractive enough to pull good looking women and am not opposed to a potential relationship by any means, or if it seems unlikely, suggesting a friends with benefits arrangement. But my current life situation means I'm simply not in many social circles or environments that makes this easy at the moment. I'm not really a fan of dating sites or apps either - it feels forced, sometimes slightly desperate and is also extremely time consuming and labourious when you compare it to the potential connection you can strike up with a girl, (even if it is just to fuck) after chatting to her face to face for only a few minutes in a natural setting. However, I still have a high libido and regularly need to get my end away as most males my age are biologically pre-programmed to do.
The other interesting thing about punting for me is that even the sex itself feels totally different from normal fucking and I do treat it as so. Perhaps because I'm more keyed up, there's no booze to nullify the sensation or performance and still a slight nervous excitement involved, I enjoy it more and find it much easier to cum. However, I find I need to build up something of a sexual rapport (if possible) with a civvy girl before I really enjoy fucking her. Perhaps this is because when I'm trying to fuck a girl, I get the thrill from the chase. But once you're in the bedroom, you know you've succeeded, are likely relaxed and usually at least slightly drunk, the thrill is therefore already gone. In punting or guaranteed civvy sex however, there is no chase, so the thrill is in the fuck itself and what this girl you've been thinking about, that you know you'll definitely be fucking, is like in reality. I somehow find the reality and certainty of it very much a turn on, and when I wank, for example, it's most often over hookers I've already fucked or plan to, sometimes porn, occasionally civvy girls I've done in the past, but never over specific or hypothetical civvy girls that I'd like to shag. All that said, I rarely punt if I've already a bird in the sack or one on the horizon as it simply seems like a waste of money when I can fuck for free, nor do I want to spoil myself with punting and keep it as an enjoyable treat.
As many have said before, another clear advantage of punting is being able to act on your specific sexual fantasies from the get-go. Outfit requests, role play, specific kinks such as anal or swallowing etc, that'd likely take several weeks of time, effort and money at the very least for a civvy girl to entertain, if she ever does, can be obtained from a hooker within five minutes of a first meet.
So, in short
- Convenience and timing all on your terms.
- Feels unique and distinct from civvy sex and can often be more enjoyable, possibly due to the specific certainty and straightforwardness of it all.
- Specific kinks and fantasies guaranteed to me immediately satisfied with the right girl.
