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Offline Inked

Sorry if this comes across bizarre but would appreciate both guys and girls opinions please.
So far all the wg’s I’ve visited have taken the payment and exited the room before the session starts, is this the norm? and if so in retrospection of this current boyfriend scam, would it be unreasonable for the punter to request the wg to stay in the room until the session has finished once she has been paid?

Offline skittish

Sorry if this comes across bizarre but would appreciate both guys and girls opinions please.
So far all the wg’s I’ve visited have taken the payment and exited the room before the session starts, is this the norm? and if so in retrospection of this current boyfriend scam, would it be unreasonable for the punter to request the wg to stay in the room until the session has finished once she has been paid?

I think it's the norm, has been in my experience, maybe wise to just take exact money, leave phone and valuables hidden in car.

don't see why it should be unreasonable, some guys like to pay at the start or end, if its at the start I just put it up on the dresser

Offline mutualrespect

Sorry if this comes across bizarre but would appreciate both guys and girls opinions please.
So far all the wg’s I’ve visited have taken the payment and exited the room before the session starts, is this the norm? and if so in retrospection of this current boyfriend scam, would it be unreasonable for the punter to request the wg to stay in the room until the session has finished once she has been paid?

This is the norm. It's to ensure the punter doesn't decide to just lift their money after the session and walk out the door. They tend to hide it somewhere in the house or if they have security there they'll leave it with them.

Offline k

Sorry if this comes across bizarre but would appreciate both guys and girls opinions please.
So far all the wg’s I’ve visited have taken the payment and exited the room before the session starts, is this the norm? and if so in retrospection of this current boyfriend scam, would it be unreasonable for the punter to request the wg to stay in the room until the session has finished once she has been paid?
If she is colluding with a man to rip you off then that is going to happen anyway - what's to stop him coming in as soon as your trousers are off?  Unless you get her to lock the door and leave the key in the lock.  This situation has never happened to me, but I'm still wary of it happening.  Some women have men as "minders" who open the door to let you in the premises, so there's no hard and fast rules, it is instinct which tells you if you are in a potentially bad environment, and this is where you should trust it.  Primary reason is if you're not relaxed then you probably won't be able to perform well.

Offline Deliciousmsdee

It is the norm, but you should also insist she counts the money in front of you, that way she can not come back and say you short changed her  ;)

But in general we always say go with your gut instinct if a situation does not feel right for you it generally is not.  And always remember you are not obligated to stay at an appointment or pay her any money at all.

Online James999

It is the norm,

On what do you base that statement? How many pro$$ies have you visited?

The truth is it is the norm for the girl to leave the room with the money if she is in a Brothel / parlour / working flat etc. and most EE girls do, this is usually to pass the money to the Pimp.

Most independents leave the money on the side and stay in the room, there is the odd weird one who insists in going off to "Put the money away" but this usually means pay a dealer, pass to boyfriend so he can go shopping / a drink.

And girls hardly ever count the money, perhaps I look trustworthy or they just can't count  :sarcastic:

Online smiths

Sorry if this comes across bizarre but would appreciate both guys and girls opinions please.
So far all the wg’s I’ve visited have taken the payment and exited the room before the session starts, is this the norm? and if so in retrospection of this current boyfriend scam, would it be unreasonable for the punter to request the wg to stay in the room until the session has finished once she has been paid?

Yes this is the norm in my experiences of punting with newbies to me. Some Brits dont leave the room but most EE WGs do and its to obviously safely stash the cash. With regulars they virtually always just put the money on the side.

At least some WGs would be very suspicious if you asked them to stay in the room thus going against their usual practice. My best advice is if you have any doubts walk before paying, but i realise a guy or guys could be well hidden in the premises ready to strike.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I agree with James     :scare: most Indies would not leave the room to hide the money away, only the paranoid ones.
If a flat is run by a pimp with a maid they will nearly always hand the money over before the punt starts.

Offline Jimmyredcab

What you must NEVER do is allow a girl to leave on an outcall to "pay the driver", the chances are that you will never see her again.

Offline Ali Katt

What you must NEVER do is allow a girl to leave on an outcall to "pay the driver", the chances are that you will never see her again.
Or even on an incall, going out to buy condoms is one I saw mentioned on a report. I count the money infront of her, not the other way round, it's never more than £120 anyway. As mentioned it pays to trust your gut instinct, if there's dodgy blokes outside I would also see someone else. Most girls stash the cash when going to get a drink.

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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Sorry if this comes across bizarre but would appreciate both guys and girls opinions please.
So far all the wg’s I’ve visited have taken the payment and exited the room before the session starts, is this the norm? and if so in retrospection of this current boyfriend scam, would it be unreasonable for the punter to request the wg to stay in the room until the session has finished once she has been paid?

Everyone works differently. I think if you are new to her and you asked her to stay in the room until the session had finished this would make her feel rather uneasy about you throughout the booking that maybe you were going to snatch/ask for your money back or whatever.

Bear in mind that occurrences such as the boyfriend scam are rare and in most situations nothing untoward will happen. But as already stated if at any point you don't feel 100% safe in the environment for whatever reason then leave and anything of value or anything with personal details on should be left at home or  in your car.

Offline Deliciousmsdee

I never leave the money in the room whether it be a drawer etc... I have had a client take the money back when I went to get him a drink.  So no I tend to take the money out of the room after counting it in front of him and then I pass it onto the gimp I have locked in my basement  ;)

Offline Jimmyredcab

I never leave the money in the room whether it be a drawer etc... I have had a client take the money back when I went to get him a drink.  So no I tend to take the money out of the room after counting it in front of him and then I pass it onto the gimp I have locked in my basement  ;)

What are you, a bank teller or what.   :thumbsdown:

Offline willbred

I have had experiences in parlours where you pay at the end and with Indies where I’ve been asked to pay up front. Generally it’s been parlour pay first indie pay on the way out
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On the rare occasions i do in-calls then i just put money on the side after i have counted it.Must be quite awkward for the guy knowing you don't trust him,also awkward for him leaving him alone in a strange place.Drinks are offered before we go upstairs and the offer of wash and toilet facilities are given before we exchange payment,that's just me.

Offline mh

...also awkward for him leaving him alone in a strange place.

Your approach sounds fine. I've had some loooooong delays where the girl leaves the room after handing over the money where she's had enough time to visit her actual bank. By bus. To access her safe deposit box.

Offline mh

What are you, a bank teller or what.   :thumbsdown:

But Jimmy, I've seen many experienced punters on here recommend that you get the girl to count the money before taking it out of the room. I always count it out - not note by note, just spread the notes and show how many are there. I've never had a query from any girl but since I take with me only what I plan to spend it would be disastrous if it was claimed it was short.

Offline Ali Katt

But Jimmy, I've seen many experienced punters on here recommend that you get the girl to count the money before taking it out of the room. I always count it out - not note by note, just spread the notes and show how many are there. I've never had a query from any girl but since I take with me only what I plan to spend it would be disastrous if it was claimed it was short.
So, no-one on here uses a quality unsealed envelope with a "humourous" seaside postcard tucked into it with a Keats love poem written on the back?

Offline Joe Blob

I've found it to be the norm for the girl to leave the room after taking the money, it's certainly nothing to worry about. The only time it's really annoying is when they take forever to come back in, something which also used to be the norm at a parlour, but hasn't happened to me in recent years.

Always pay up front ... But from experience I now pay overnight ears 1/3 on meeting, 1/3 back at room after some food and 1/3 in morning

Those that complain I don't see

Offline Joe Blob

Always pay up front ... But from experience I now pay overnight ears 1/3 on meeting, 1/3 back at room after some food and 1/3 in morning

Those that complain I don't see

I know that's a typo, but can't figure out what it was supposed to be    :unknown: :unknown: :unknown:

Overnighters lol pmsl bloody iphone!

Offline Uglybugball


I used to see a polish escort who, for whatever reason, wanted to tell me about her personal circumstances. There was positive and negative information, had a daughter at local school, married twice..etc. (she was a hottie)   :kissgirl:

The upshot was she needed money to pay rent and I would agree to pay a percentage upfront directly into her bank account! It always worked out okay. She was reliable and grateful for the advance, the remainder was paid in cash.

The best advice, after researching their feedback and building up comms before a meeting, is to be prepared to pay in full, upfront. The indies always seem to leave in on the side and count it at the end of the meeting. Sometimes, just put it straight into their handbag in the envelope!

The parlours, ie: HOD when they were in MK, would leave the room and pass the cash onto the maid. If I wanted to stay longer, the same would happen. That seems to be the norm.


Offline Marmalade

In Scotland, upfront is normal practice and the majority will put it in the next room if they have one. Since I've usually been in the next room and no-one else was there I can't say it is being directly passed to someone else, just stashed so she doesn't worry that some puntercunt is going to nick it. And who cares if she's keeping it all or giving it to a pimp? That's her stupid business. But there's a lot more trust in Scotland than England and the good service prossies have a routine and tend to be more relaxed. If you get crap punts up here it's probably your own fault at picking them. In the parlours - saunas - you usually pay afterwards apart from a door fee if there is one. If I'm asked to pay upfront I outright refuse, as it means they are taking the piss. If they calm down and admit they are being wide I stay. If they get cunty I leave. And I expect my door fee back (and get it).

The whole thing is location-custom dependent. Anyone picking up a prossie in Rio and paying upfront is a stupid cunt of the first order. Same with the stash it next door thing. I keep the key of the room in my pocket so she can't run off nicking anything. Why are you keping it to the end? To ensure good service in most cases. But if you plan to refuse on parting with the whole fee afterwards make sure it is not a place where getting a kicking is likely.


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