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ThisGuy

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Hi,

I'm in my mid 20s and am new to punting, having seen three escorts over the past couple of months. Before that I'd only slept with one girl a couple of times who I dated for a few months.

While I surprised myself at lasting longer than I was expecting, I don't feel confident in what I'm doing and am sure they haven't been particularly enjoyable experiences for the girls! My fingering has been a bit haphazard without much feedback and I wouldn't have a clue where to begin in giving a girl oral :unknown:

Can any of you recommend any girls from your time punting who are likely to be understanding with my lack of experience and would probably be willing to teach me what feels good for them and presumably most girls?

I'd really appreciate your help!

Cheers!

Offline Knny

It's like this...have you ever been to a Subway?  It's a decent sandwich franchise.  You get to choose your own fillings etc.  Anyway, why go there and get a sandwich that the server likes?

You are paying the working girl, I would not get too hung up on how to get her off.  She's getting paid to get you off.

vw

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You are paying the working girl, I would not get too hung up on how to get her off.  She's getting paid to get you off.

+1

What works for one doesn't work for another anyway, most escorts will give you pointers for them.  Personally I like giving them pointers on what I like.

Roadster

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The other thing to keep in mind is, this is sex for you and work for her. 

Imagine how you'd feel if your boss wanted not only a top drawer job from you, but you to cum repeatedly while you do it.

You f**k her ... just remember ... she f**ks all day long!

Dodo

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I guess it's fair to assume he dosen't know what he really likes as all he has done up till know is wank himself off.
My advice would be to try one of the top girls like Victoria or Emily who would happily take you in hand  :wacko:. Just tell them you are new at the game and ask them to give you a good time. After a couple of punts you will soon feel confident enough to start dictating what you want.

Offline kenny

I may be off the mark, but I think he wants to learn how to be better lover for future civvies as well, rather than just wanting to get the WG off?  Since he admits he only had 1 civvie partner, I think that's quite a reasonable request, as fucking 100 WG won't teach him anything other than how to be selfish in the sack, which won't go down well with potential girlfriends. If that's what you wanted OP, I recommend the obvious top GFE providers around Brum; Michelle, Pola and Emily to teach you the rope.   :thumbsup:

Roadster

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I may be off the mark, but I think he wants to learn how to be better lover for future civvies as well, rather than just wanting to get the WG off?  Since he admits he only had 1 civvie partner, I think that's quite a reasonable request, as fucking 100 WG won't teach him anything other than how to be selfish in the sack, which won't go down well with potential girlfriends. If that's what you wanted OP, I recommend the obvious top GFE providers around Brum; Michelle, Pola and Emily to teach you the rope.   :thumbsup:

I guess so.  But that is a bit like trying to learn to cook by eating takeaways.

The only way I know to learn how to be a lover is by being one.  I would recon it would be necessary to get a girlfriend and make some mistakes .... like we all did.  Get a girlfriend, learn to communicate, experiment and have fun. 

If the OP or anyone else can't or isn't doing that, it is unlikely in my view that learning to shag for England is going to be a the main problem or indeed any kind of a fix.

Just my opinion though and I have been known to be wrong now and then.

Offline kenny

I guess so.  But that is a bit like trying to learn to cook by eating takeaways.

The only way I know to learn how to be a lover is by being one.  I would recon it would be necessary to get a girlfriend and make some mistakes .... like we all did.  Get a girlfriend, learn to communicate, experiment and have fun. 

If the OP or anyone else can't or isn't doing that, it is unlikely in my view that learning to shag for England is going to be a the main problem or indeed any kind of a fix.

Just my opinion though and I have been known to be wrong now and then.

I agree in principle, but I think that metaphor is a bit different though. It would be more like learning to cook while working at fast food joint, because you participate in the making of the dish, although you don't really need to know what you're doing, but end result is OK. As you say, nothing beats good communication skills for a(lasting) civvie relationship, but if being crap in bed is a big worry, learning from a pro ain't the worst idea, is all. Anyway, we may continue to babble on speculating, and OP may turn up and tell us he just wants to make WG come :wacko:  :yahoo:



Offline ianp1976

Instead of looking for a teacher just try everything, you will soon find out what girls like and more importantly what you like.

The one massive warning, over punting will not help you with civvies!  You will turn into a lazy sexual partner; expect all girls to offer you the most extreme services and the normal may become too normal (imagine taking home the girl of your dream and in the throws of your romantic love making you ask her to stick her finger up your bum and spit in your face.)  Also your expectations of the attractiveness of girls that will sleep with you will become unrealistic.  Oh and you learn to have sex very quietly, a habit hard to get out of.

But you will have some fun!!

Roadster

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I agree in principle, but I think that metaphor is a bit different though. It would be more like learning to cook while working at fast food joint, because you participate in the making of the dish, although you don't really need to know what you're doing, but end result is OK. As you say, nothing beats good communication skills for a(lasting) civvie relationship, but if being crap in bed is a big worry, learning from a pro ain't the worst idea, is all. Anyway, we may continue to babble on speculating, and OP may turn up and tell us he just wants to make WG come :wacko:  :yahoo:

I disagree.  I think a WG is just going to tell you exactly what she thinks you want to hear.  She is going to tell you "what she likes" and then tell you you just did it perfectly and you are wonderful. 

If she is any good that is what she will do because it will reassure you about your insecurities and make you feel like a "real man" and if she's a crap hooker she'll do that because it's the easiest thing to do. 

Or maybe not.  Either way ... and this is the real point ... you'd never know.

I don't think you are part of the process in that sense.  You aren't working in the kitchen.  You're paying for the meal.  That's why they call us punters and them sex workers.

You and I obviously have differing views on this, and that's not a problem, but I really do think that learning how to have sex from a prossie IS a really bad idea.  She doesn't care, shas no incentive to help you get free girls and you're never ever going to know whether she is being honest with you anyway.

But then of course if he does just want her to come, in my experience the easiest way would be to just tell her so. She'll have a mind-blowing-wall-shaking-when-harry-met-sally orgasm for him in seconds and, (if she's any good), he'll never know the difference.

 :D :crazy: :wacko: :D
« Last Edit: May 25, 2016, 02:50:03 pm by Roadster »

Roadster

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Instead of looking for a teacher just try everything, you will soon find out what girls like and more importantly what you like.

The one massive warning, over punting will not help you with civvies!  You will turn into a lazy sexual partner; expect all girls to offer you the most extreme services and the normal may become too normal (imagine taking home the girl of your dream and in the throws of your romantic love making you ask her to stick her finger up your bum and spit in your face.)  Also your expectations of the attractiveness of girls that will sleep with you will become unrealistic.  Oh and you learn to have sex very quietly, a habit hard to get out of.

But you will have some fun!!

Tru dat!

ThisGuy

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I had a good laugh at this thread, so I appreciate your input guys!

Obviously I know that a prostitute is likely to tell you what you want to hear, and while I've enjoyed my punts so far, they've been purely selfish acts. Kenny picked up on what I was aiming for in improving my skills for future civvies.

I suppose what I would like is (continuing the restaurant metaphor) a chef who allows me to shadow them cooking my meal. That way when it comes to cooking for myself, I'll have a quarter of an idea as to what to do. Obviously without practice I'll make plenty of mistakes, but hopefully I'll know better than to try cooking a roast dinner from scratch in the microwave.

I think, the suggestions of the gfe is a good shout, so it's someone willing to let me play with them rather than just a quick suck and fuck.

Again, thanks for the replies!

Dodo

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Thisguy, watch the 'Joy of Sex' on YouTube, that will show you what you need to know then practise :wacko:

Or is it 'practice'  :(
« Last Edit: May 25, 2016, 08:38:36 pm by Dodo »

ThisGuy

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Thisguy, watch the 'Joy of Sex' on YouTube, that will show you what you need to know then practise :wacko:

Or is it 'practice'  :(

Cheers!

Again, I really appreciate the comments!

P.s. It's like 'advice' and 'advise' - practice is the noun, practise is the verb. The same rule applies to licence and license  :)

Offline bang!

Some good points but one bit of advice don't worry too much about it I've been having sex for 20 years roughly and the first time I did it I lasted quite long then after that I was super quick for ages. You learn as you go along but don't take it too serious enjoy the moment sometimes ul b quick sometimes u wont its not a competition.
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