For me, I get very little to almost no sensation with a condom - it takes a fucking miracle and a unique preset position, fantasy and set of actions for me to drop a load in the hood (currently its a girl with a rather large ass in prone bone position, where I pin her arms down and go at it for England, while fantasising about something illegal haha) It is literally the only way!
But on UKP - the conversation is pointless as nobody here, myself included, would accept the risks of BB with a WG - but its been quite a while since my last civvie BB and its quite frustrating. One of the major downsides of choosing punting over a relationship for me.