If I can just clarify what I meant by my post, she txt 10 mins after your appointment time asking you to wait 30 mins but you didn't wait, you sent a txt that made her not want to see you.
I'm not defending her bad coms or the fact she eventually cancelled on you, just stating if you'd waited for the time she asked for then txt her you might just have found out what was going on and had a good punt.
Thanks for the clarification which I appreciate. Yes, she asked me to wait 20 minutes, I sent a hasty text telling her her lack of comms was poor, but I was hoping she would respond to that with a form of apology and confirm she would see me 20 minutes later. Agreed I shot myself in the foot, but then I was too fired up because of the way she treated me.
When she initially replied 10 minutes after the original start time, all she wanted to say was of the problems she had. There was no apology to me for being late, and she didn't apologise for not keeping me informed. So it just showed me that even though she knew she was in the wrong she had no thought for me, a prospective new customer.
I think one of the reasons why this situation irked me more than normal is that this girl is charging £130 per hour. If this was a £70 per hour girl I probably would not have been so annoyed by what she did, put it down to experience and go. For someone charging this much, she should be capable of keeping customers willing to pay that price.