would you be offended if the wg turned around and apologised, handed you your money back because for whatever reason she did not think it would be a good punt?
Not at all, in fact this is what I pray for every day. Money back and onto Plan B. Honest SP's instead of those that take the money anyway and try to 'wing it'.
But have you ever tried getting money back from an escort? It's like trying to pull your fingers off a sticky mouse-trap pad. When that money goes in the next room into Pandora's box under the 7 mattresses of doom it's not coming back out.
For me there could be many factors as to why I would not do one thing or another, some men do not and will not wash their willies and get offended if we do not offer OWO, as a non smoker I can not kiss a chronic smoker it is really nauseating and gagging, I also do not like kissing men with bad oral hygiene or halitosis. Socially awkward clients who you have to drag conversation out of men who are too rough with you or treat like a piece of s$%^.
Hygiene for both is a basic prerequisite for any appointment, if neither party has washed their bits then it should not go ahead. As an incall SP You should reserve 5-10 mins additionally on top of every appointment for your client to freshen up. Assure them
it is not coming out of their time so they have no inclination to say no
. Hand him a towel and say there is ample soap, gels and mouthwash and you'll be waiting for him when he comes out. If he still refuses then say you only see clients who have freshened up first. If he moans then ask him to leave. Even I wont defend a punter that has been given free time to wash his balls.
If you feel an additional 5 or 10 minutes of unpaid time is a waste of your time then you probably shouldn't be complaining about guys seeing you after work with cheesy cocks. Factor the time into your day, don't make back to back bookings and you will make things much better for yourself.
Regarding services this should be clear from the outset, if you have to greet him with a kiss on arrival (or at least subtly get up close and personal) to help you make up your mind whether to provide french kissing then do so and tell him you won't provide it so there is no confusion later on and he has the opportunity to walk away. If you have advertised OWO you should provide it, if on meeting you have decided not to then inform him so he can leave with his money. All discretionary services should be confirmed as early as possible.
RE men that are too rough, again that's down communication. However if you have gone nuts on your profile and harped on about being a 'dirty girl' who 'loves a good hard shag' then it's hardly the punters fault if he turns up and starts bashing away for Britain.