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Author Topic: Have you ever wanted to but then decided not to because you felt bad?  (Read 3454 times)

To me a neutral feedback suggests there were good things about the punt but overall a disappointment.

Overall disappointment = Negative Experience

Why are you afraid of telling the truth?




Offline Uglybugball


It's a judgement call.

If you have no plans to see her again because of your experience, then I would agree with you and put up negative feedback.

 However,

I remember seeing an escort for the first time, and it was a mixed experience. I put it down to an off day, and had a chat with her afterwards, concentrating on the positives. I re-booked for the following week and the second punt was fantastic. I believe it takes two to tango.

If I'd left a negative without even trying to improve things with good comms, then I'd have missed a really good punt.

I believe it takes two to tango.

You are giving her a sizable fee to tango (something she claims to love doing) if she isn't doing the tango or is only halfheartedly shuffling then what have you paid for?

If I'd left a negative without even trying to improve things with good comms, then I'd have missed a really good punt.

Bollocks.

You should be communicating during the appointment not after, if she's still not trying then you've done all you can and the feedback is justified.

If a client has had a bad experience due to an SP not putting in the effort then it's not his responsibility to call\wimper to the escort and beg for a better one next time.
You leave negative feedback so it serves it's purpose;

A) a way to publically communicate your experience so it helps others and
B) to let the SP know she needs to pull up her socks

If you sweep it under the carpet because you're scared then she can and will do the same to others.

She should be giving 100% to every client whether she sees 1 or 10 guys. If she can't provide the same level of service then she needs to see less punters or none at all.
She can have as many 'off days' as she likes as long as it's not after someone has just handed her £120. I'm sorry but that's just taking the piss.

This is a support forum for punters, bad service providers must always be called out regardless. If you are afraid to tell the truth because of some sort of emotional attachment to a SP then I think you have much more serious issues to deal with first. Believe me they don't care about you, never have, never will. It's purely a business transaction so get your head out the clouds and start looking at things objectively.

Offline Uglybugball


Overall, you make some good points.

I would be more inclined to leave negative feedback if the escort was more established or I had previously experienced a good punt, and now had a shite one.

I tend to view the situation differently with one who is fairly new to me. Based on the experiences I've had, it works well for me. I would only do this I felt there was mileage and can be improved upon. In a way, she would then also provide a better service for others that follow.

The way I see this forum is also one where we can all express opinions and share our thoughts. The support can also come in forms of discussing other points of view. I'm okay with it if we sometimes disagree, that's what makes the world go around. 

The subject of emotional attachment is an interesting one. Personally, I like to see an escort, where possible, more than once instead of a new one each time. During this time you do build a rapport with the escort.   A close and harmonious relationship in which the people or groups concerned understand each other's feelings or ideas and communicate well. 

This may be construed as emotional, clearly it's not. If you book an escort you've seen a few times after a break, there is usually a pleasant greeting exchange that is genuine.  :kissgirl:

The idiom "head in the clouds" suggests I may be unrealistic in my thoughts. No, not really. (As detailed above). Be more objective? Again my thoughts are based on my own experiences. So I can be objective by representing my own facts and opinions.




Offline Deliciousmsdee

You are giving her a sizable fee to tango (something she claims to love doing) if she isn't doing the tango or is only halfheartedly shuffling then what have you paid for?

Bollocks.

You should be communicating during the appointment not after, if she's still not trying then you've done all you can and the feedback is justified.

If a client has had a bad experience due to an SP not putting in the effort then it's not his responsibility to call\wimper to the escort and beg for a better one next time.
You leave negative feedback so it serves it's purpose;

A) a way to publically communicate your experience so it helps others and
B) to let the SP know she needs to pull up her socks

If you sweep it under the carpet because you're scared then she can and will do the same to others.

She should be giving 100% to every client whether she sees 1 or 10 guys. If she can't provide the same level of service then she needs to see less punters or none at all.
She can have as many 'off days' as she likes as long as it's not after someone has just handed her £120. I'm sorry but that's just taking the piss.

This is a support forum for punters, bad service providers must always be called out regardless. If you are afraid to tell the truth because of some sort of emotional attachment to a SP then I think you have much more serious issues to deal with first. Believe me they don't care about you, never have, never will. It's purely a business transaction so get your head out the clouds and start looking at things objectively.

As a service provider i have to agree with what you say about a wg giving 100% it is afterall our job to do so.

But as a service seeker can I ask would you be offended if the wg turned around and apologised, handed you your money back because for whatever reason she did not think it would be a good punt? 

For me there could be many factors as to why I would not do one thing or another, some men do not and will not wash their willies and get offended if we do not offer OWO, as a non smoker I can not kiss a chronic smoker it is really nauseating and gagging, I also do not like kissing men with bad oral hygiene or halitosis.  Socially awkward clients who you have to drag conversation out of men who are too rough with you or treat like a piece of s$%^.

As a service provider for us to be able to provide a top notch service it is just as important for a client to be nice and fresh as much as they expect nothing less from us.

As for a woman feeling off, she should not be working if she is not 100% there as it will reflect in the appointment. 
« Last Edit: December 15, 2012, 11:12:54 PM by Deliciousmsdee »

would you be offended if the wg turned around and apologised, handed you your money back because for whatever reason she did not think it would be a good punt? 

Not at all, in fact this is what I pray for every day. Money back and onto Plan B. Honest SP's instead of those that take the money anyway and try to 'wing it'.
But have you ever tried getting money back from an escort? It's like trying to pull your fingers off a sticky mouse-trap pad. When that money goes in the next room into Pandora's box under the 7 mattresses of doom it's not coming back out. 


For me there could be many factors as to why I would not do one thing or another, some men do not and will not wash their willies and get offended if we do not offer OWO, as a non smoker I can not kiss a chronic smoker it is really nauseating and gagging, I also do not like kissing men with bad oral hygiene or halitosis.  Socially awkward clients who you have to drag conversation out of men who are too rough with you or treat like a piece of s$%^.

Hygiene for both is a basic prerequisite for any appointment, if neither party has washed their bits then it should not go ahead. As an incall SP You should reserve 5-10 mins additionally on top of every appointment for your client to freshen up. Assure them it is not coming out of their time so they have no inclination to say no. Hand him a towel and say there is ample soap, gels and mouthwash and you'll be waiting for him when he comes out.  If he still refuses then say you only see clients who have freshened up first. If he moans then ask him to leave.  Even I wont defend a punter that has been given free time to wash his balls.

If you feel an additional 5 or 10 minutes of unpaid time is a waste of your time then you probably shouldn't be complaining about guys seeing you after work with cheesy cocks. Factor the time into your day, don't make back to back bookings and you will make things much better for yourself.

Regarding services this should be clear from the outset, if you have to greet him with a kiss on arrival (or at least subtly get up close and personal) to help you make up your mind whether to provide french kissing then do so and tell him you won't provide it so there is no confusion later on and he has the opportunity to walk away. If you have advertised OWO you should provide it, if on meeting you have decided not to then inform him so he can leave with his money. All discretionary services should be confirmed as early as possible.

RE men that are too rough, again that's down communication. However if you have gone nuts on your profile and harped on about being a 'dirty girl' who 'loves a good hard shag' then it's hardly the punters fault if he turns up and starts bashing away for Britain.
« Last Edit: December 16, 2012, 11:38:08 AM by sucky2dollar »

Offline Uglybugball


But as a service seeker can I ask would you be offended if the wg turned around and apologised, handed you your money back because for whatever reason she did not think it would be a good punt? 

Depending on how the whole punt went. This is where talking afterwards dictates what happens next.
If you've researched properly, and most boxes are ticked, and there were some good stuff along the way, I'd consider negotiating a part refund. If it all went pear shaped and the escort handed me back the money then I would gladly take it.

As for a woman feeling off, she should not be working if she is not 100% there as it will reflect in the appointment.

That's a good attitude to have. I would prefer that to happen rather than assume that everything will be okay. For example an escort with a runny nose and sniffing every 5 minutes or a hacking cough would have the same effect on my cock as listening to someone scraping their nails on a school blackboard.....but then again...

Offline Uglybugball


But have you ever tried getting money back from an escort? It's like trying to pull your fingers off a sticky mouse-trap pad. When that money goes in the next room into Pandora's box under the 7 mattresses of doom it's not coming back out. 

Usually protected by a pair of 6' 6" guys with a couple of baseball bats.


If you feel an additional 5 or 10 minutes of unpaid time is a waste of your time then you probably shouldn't be complaining about guys seeing you after work with cheesy cocks. Factor the time into your day, don't make back to back bookings and you will make things much better for yourself.


That's makes sense. 15 minute bookings would be interesting though, I spend that blinking long in the shower


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