I would love a fuck buddy. How did you manage to organise such an arrangement. I mean identify who's up for it?
Interesting I too wonder if my OH is playing away despite her objection to sex. Nah no way she doesn't like cock.
I suppose finding fuck-buddies is very much dependent on your individual situation, people skills and where you live. I have been self-employed for over ten years, and rather enjoyed the years when I would walk my children to school, and meeting dozens of local married or single mothers was just part of everyday life. Quite often, I would be invited for a coffee, or would in turn invite women I got into converstaion with. If a woman turns up at your house for coffee and she's fixed her hair and makeup and is wearing something figure-hugging, it's not by accident. And if she tells you how bored she is, of how her hubby doesn't notice her any more etc, it's NOT by accident. If you're insightful enough to pick up on such cues with women, you'll eventually strike it lucky. Many older women, I find, are just as horny as any man, and love the attention, the danger and the illicit sex. Sooooo often, they will find a way of letting you know it too, and how hubby just isn't taking care of business any more, let alone paying them compliments, romancing them a bit or making them feel good. Any man who is empathetic, knows how to talk to women and make them feel good about themselves will do just fine, Mr Matrix. A lot cheaper than punting, but a lot more dangerous too!