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Author Topic: Stuff you do with a WG that you don't with OH  (Read 5691 times)

Offline RedKettle

Stuff that I do with a WG I don't do with the OH?

Freshly shower, shave and dress with some effort to worry about how I look
Arrive when I say I will
Wait in a car park for an hour for a text to come in
Try really hard to make her cum

Ironic really......

Really good post - you are right that I take more care over the basics with a WG rather than the OH (except I am not bothered about making a WG cum whereas I used to do so with the OH).  As you say ironic.

Offline Natwest

Really good post - you are right that I take more care over the basics with a WG rather than the OH (except I am not bothered about making a WG cum whereas I used to do so with the OH).  As you say ironic.

Thank you RK.

I also forgot to mention brushing my teeth and using mouthwash before I go to the door.

Offline Blackpool Rock

No I too like to make the WG come. Bit of an ego thing I guess. See no reason they can't have a good time as well if I can. I know it shouldn't really matter, but there you go that's me and clearly a few others :unknown:
When a WG says she has cum I tend to think she is faking it however pretty sure it has happened with a couple of regulars, like you say it's an ego thing

5th Musketeer

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Not sure if this thread just cracks me up or depresses me (because it rings so many bells). The list of things off the menu with the OH post marriage is long. But apart from MMF there isn't much that I've wanted to do that hasn't been on the menu at some point. It's just a long time ago now, sadly.
This thread rings all my bells.  In a way it depresses me  :( but also in a way it shows that I am not unique in my circumstances, which makes me feel better.  :)  Misery loves company, doesn't it. :drinks:

Falstaff

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Female sex drive tails off after a few years - There's been a study done.

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Offline Colston36

I've only just picked this hobby up later in life, usual story, not getting what I want at home. Got a view of a bucket list of things to do that I've never tried. 
Got a prostate massage the other week, tick - not for me though, thought I was going to shit the bed.
Just wondering what other people do work WG that they wouldn't do with the OH or have the balls to ask for from the general.
They all go off it, don't they? I used to do the most delightfully obscene stuff with mine. Then it stopped.

Lately had 3 in a bed a couple of times (him banging her arse, me licking her pussy) watersports, hard sports, whipping, clothes-pegs applied in painful ways and so on.

Altogether excellent. And how else could I end up in bed with someone 53 years younger than me?

I agree about the prostate massage. Maybe mine got lost somewhere. Also the occasional not entirely welcome surprise when I say I'm open to new ideas. On the subject of balls - ended up with something that felt like deep heat on mine last week. Oh dear.

Offline dubs

Although im only in my early 30s, i cant wait to be 70+ and still banging 19yo-20something girls.

Cash is king baby, cash is king.

Do you think there will still be cash in 40 years time?

Offline Fasting

Do you think there will still be cash in 40 years time?

Presumably you mean physical cash. There will still be currency!

I know a prossie abroad who likes to be paid in bitcoin -- to avoid tax no doubt.

5th Musketeer

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Presumably you mean physical cash. There will still be currency!

I know a prossie abroad who likes to be paid in bitcoin -- to avoid tax no doubt.
I wonder how she cashes her Bitcoins in - I gather Bitcoins have varied by a factor of 3 (if not more) recently.  Timing would be everything.  Maybe someone with more knowledge of the Bitcoin phenomenon can tell me how it's done.

vw

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I wonder how she cashes her Bitcoins in - I gather Bitcoins have varied by a factor of 3 (if not more) recently.  Timing would be everything.  Maybe someone with more knowledge of the Bitcoin phenomenon can tell me how it's done.

They closed silk road so she cannot withdraw in coke and guns !

An article about selling them !

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5th Musketeer

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They closed silk road so she cannot withdraw in coke and guns !

An article about selling them !

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Thanks VW  :drinks:

Offline Fasting

They closed silk road so she cannot withdraw in coke and guns !

When silk road was closed down a load of other sites took its place. She could still withdraw in coke and guns if she liked  :)

This is a bit off topic, but might make an interesting thread.

Offline Razor Boy

Just returned from a punt which started with me spanking the wg hard for 15 mins before indulging in a BDSM session which ended in fucking her all ways before coming over her outstreched tongue, she then smiled before swallowing the load and thanking me. OH sporadically gives a bj but not swallowed for years and mostly only shags in mish.
Now in the pub before I return home from "work"  :hi:

5th Musketeer

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Just returned from a punt which started with me spanking the wg hard for 15 mins before indulging in a BDSM session which ended in fucking her all ways before coming over her outstreched tongue, she then smiled before swallowing the load and thanking me. OH sporadically gives a bj but not swallowed for years and mostly only shags in mish.
Now in the pub before I return home from "work"  :hi:
Sounds great.  Which region?  Are you going to review?  :P

Offline Razor Boy

West Mids....She is a regular of mine that does not advertise BDSM so not really appropriate to link her.

5th Musketeer

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Thanks - but she's out of the region I go to anyway.

godwulf7

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I would love a fuck buddy. How did you manage to organise such an arrangement. I mean identify who's up for it?
Interesting I too wonder if my OH is playing away despite her objection to sex. Nah no way she doesn't like cock. :unknown:

I suppose finding fuck-buddies is very much dependent on your individual situation, people skills and where you live.  I have been self-employed for over ten years, and rather enjoyed the years when I would walk my children to school, and meeting dozens of local married or single mothers was just part of everyday life.  Quite often, I would be invited for a coffee, or would in turn invite women I got into converstaion with.  If a woman turns up at your house for coffee and she's fixed her hair and makeup and is wearing something figure-hugging, it's not by accident.  And if she tells you how bored she is, of how her hubby doesn't notice her any more etc, it's NOT by accident.  If you're insightful enough to pick up on such cues with women, you'll eventually strike it lucky.  Many older women, I find, are just as horny as any man, and love the attention, the danger and the illicit sex. Sooooo often, they will find a way of letting you know it too, and how hubby just isn't taking care of business any more, let alone paying them compliments, romancing them a bit or making them feel good. Any man who is empathetic, knows how to talk to women and make them feel good about themselves will do just fine, Mr Matrix.  A lot cheaper than punting, but a lot more dangerous too! 

Offline MrMatrix

I suppose finding fuck-buddies is very much dependent on your individual situation, people skills and where you live.  I have been self-employed for over ten years, and rather enjoyed the years when I would walk my children to school, and meeting dozens of local married or single mothers was just part of everyday life.  Quite often, I would be invited for a coffee, or would in turn invite women I got into converstaion with.  If a woman turns up at your house for coffee and she's fixed her hair and makeup and is wearing something figure-hugging, it's not by accident.  And if she tells you how bored she is, of how her hubby doesn't notice her any more etc, it's NOT by accident.  If you're insightful enough to pick up on such cues with women, you'll eventually strike it lucky.  Many older women, I find, are just as horny as any man, and love the attention, the danger and the illicit sex. Sooooo often, they will find a way of letting you know it too, and how hubby just isn't taking care of business any more, let alone paying them compliments, romancing them a bit or making them feel good. Any man who is empathetic, knows how to talk to women and make them feel good about themselves will do just fine, Mr Matrix.  A lot cheaper than punting, but a lot more dangerous too!
Thanks for the insight. You sound as though you may be single. Somehow I can't see my OH allowing inviting someone in if they have made that sort of effort. She's be quick to cotton on I fear. Yes cheaper than punting and more dangerous as you say. But how exciting....I would love a fuck buddy, but don't think I can get away with it.... :unknown:

godwulf7

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Thanks for the insight. You sound as though you may be single. Somehow I can't see my OH allowing inviting someone in if they have made that sort of effort. She's be quick to cotton on I fear. Yes cheaper than punting and more dangerous as you say. But how exciting....I would love a fuck buddy, but don't think I can get away with it.... :unknown:

Nope, Mr M - married for twenty years.  I have an office, but prefer to work from home. The OH works full-time Monday to Friday, so I have plenty of freedom.  I have only one fuck-buddy at present, and she lives 100 yards away.  100% non-romantic scenario - she just likes a good seeing-to on her days off.  Her OH is a putz and a 60-second wonder, and we don't get on at all, so I quite enjoy fucking his missus until she can hardly walk!  😂😂

Offline webpunter

Edging.  One of my fave pastimes.  I convinced that the majority of OH's have sex to get it out of the way.  So asking the OH to stop-start-stop-start is a waste of time.  Well more than about twice.  Being kept on edge for a sustained period is delightful.  My target is usually at least 30 mins in an hour booking - after 20 mins or so taken getting there, then the fun bit.  Relax for a few minutes after shooting my bolt [being light headed is a good sign] then the world's fastest shower & fuck off outta there.  Happy days

Offline AlwaysLooking

Thanks for the insight. You sound as though you may be single. Somehow I can't see my OH allowing inviting someone in if they have made that sort of effort. She's be quick to cotton on I fear. Yes cheaper than punting and more dangerous as you say. But how exciting....I would love a fuck buddy, but don't think I can get away with it.... :unknown:

Had a fuck buddy for a while. I'm married too and OH just wasn't interested in anything in the bedroom. Had my fuck buddy before I got into punting. She was in a sexless marriage (her hubby with 15 years her senior). It was interesting trying to meet up, and there were a few interesting moments, but in the end after almost getting caught cooled it off.

Anyhow, back to the main topic. - Deep throat, a bit of hair pulling/spanking
Things I'm wanting to try - anal (on her), MFF and MFM, a tie and tease



Offline webpunter

Have a conversation that i'm just a little bit interested in

Offline GreyDave

 :hi: Tea bag, facial, tit smear and lick off, having balls squezzed and held like a vice butt plug vibrater on clit.
But the best bit is having enough cash for a pint and a Kebab after if I do the OH the CCard gets hammered nextday ;)

Offline webpunter

But the best bit is having enough cash for a pint and a Kebab after if I do the OH the CCard gets hammered nextday ;)
So you see - punting can save you money !

Ectoplasm19

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I once got my ass fingered gently and off course she had a condom on her finger  :D Told her to massage it but she just shoved her little finger inside was the last time I tried it....

Offline webpunter

I once got my ass fingered gently and off course she had a condom on her finger
Once had a hooker who had finger condoms.  She put one on & said "you like ?".  Had a go - its wasn't too shabby - getting wanked off at the same time. Very intense when it was 'thunderbirds are go'   Never seen them before or since

Offline wheeliebinwanking

Very familiar thread indeed.

Edging / Tantric Play whatever is just outstanding. It's so basic but is very selfless, perhaps why it's a punter / provider transaction

MrMatrix and Godwulf...100% feel you. I setup a thread about this and it sems lots of folks are in the same boat.

I love the idea of a Fuck Buddy, Had one before I was married. I must admit it got a bit boring and awkward as it was literally just sex and I always felt anti climatic afterwards so always booted her out real quick

I asked my OH the other week to help me wank off (I had an incline she didn't want sex, as usual!) and the almost had a fit....It really is soul destroying. I think it's been months since we last had sex or even shared a passionate kiss. Porn sites are OK but a man needs to F E E L

WBW

Offline claretandblue

Earlier this week I had a duo booking with both girls taking a full face fucking with the saliva created used for the other to devour my arsehole, owo and mish with the missus seems dull in  comparison!

Offline MrMatrix

Very familiar thread indeed.

MrMatrix and Godwulf...100% feel you. I setup a thread about this and it sems lots of folks are in the same boat.

I love the idea of a Fuck Buddy, Had one before I was married. I must admit it got a bit boring and awkward as it was literally just sex and I always felt anti climatic afterwards so always booted her out real quick

I asked my OH the other week to help me wank off (I had an incline she didn't want sex, as usual!) and the almost had a fit....It really is soul destroying. I think it's been months since we last had sex or even shared a passionate kiss. Porn sites are OK but a man needs to F E E L

WBW
Hi WBW. Well you and I have been here before when you started the thread    When wanking just isn't enough . . .Married Man Dilemmna
Nope things ain't improved my end either. I empathise with what you say in your last paragraph--you are soo right. I'm at a stage now that I wouldn't want sex with my OH. Yes she said she's up for it now..no doubt just another mind fuck and in this respect alone I don't trust what she says. So now I go punting-silly girl. its not what I ever imagined doing but I was desperate for passion and some intimacy.  :hi:

Offline The Vicar of Dibley

No I too like to make the WG come. Bit of an ego thing I guess. See no reason they can't have a good time as well if I can. I know it shouldn't really matter, but there you go that's me and clearly a few others :unknown:

+1

For me, if she has fun (or seems to be) I have more fun.

Offline aidy

+1

For me, if she has fun (or seems to be) I have more fun.

Really? I just want to bang like the proverbial "out-house-door". I "do" the wife for her pleasure & meet her requirements, I have this hobby for my own benefit.  Sure the WG can pretend/fake all she wants, if she stays quiet, all the better.

Going back to the OP, I like a "Round 2" & I like to drill (hard) in doggy for a good 30 mins, the ball & chain wouldn't be up for that. Plus the fact, I can choose some epic flange, of the likes I'd never attain by my own merits.

Offline MrMatrix

Really? I just want to bang like the proverbial "out-house-door". I "do" the wife for her pleasure & meet her requirements, I have this hobby for my own benefit.  Sure the WG can pretend/fake all she wants, if she stays quiet, all the better.

Going back to the OP, I like a "Round 2" & I like to drill (hard) in doggy for a good 30 mins, the ball & chain wouldn't be up for that. Plus the fact, I can choose some epic flange, of the likes I'd never attain by my own merits.
Well as you've been on this site for 7 months and you're banging back doors down, it would be nice to have a review or two cos some of us may consider banging a  few back doors down if you can let us know who that would be great. :hi:

Offline aidy

Sorry, no offence intended. I intend to review as soon as I get chance!

I have no interest in back doors btw. Just regular doggie.