Very familiar thread indeed.
Edging / Tantric Play whatever is just outstanding. It's so basic but is very selfless, perhaps why it's a punter / provider transaction
MrMatrix and Godwulf...100% feel you. I setup a thread about this and it sems lots of folks are in the same boat.
I love the idea of a Fuck Buddy, Had one before I was married. I must admit it got a bit boring and awkward as it was literally just sex and I always felt anti climatic afterwards so always booted her out real quick
I asked my OH the other week to help me wank off (I had an incline she didn't want sex, as usual!) and the almost had a fit....It really is soul destroying. I think it's been months since we last had sex or even shared a passionate kiss. Porn sites are OK but a man needs to F E E L