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Author Topic: by chance meeting etiquette  (Read 2625 times)

Offline budz

I did a search but can't find the answer to my dilemma.  A WG I saw a few weeks ago lives in the next street to where I am currently working and I'm not sure what to do if we were to bump into each other whilst I was going to or from my van. If she were to see me at my van that's all my cover blown but there is no where else to park. Do you say Hi and chat or ignore each other and get on with your life?

Up to you really, would always ignore if they are with someone though.

If you are comfortable saying hi, do it, if she wants to have a conversation she'll likely start it, if not she'll walk on, either way I reckon its better to be civil than ignore her.

Offline budz

If you are comfortable saying hi, do it, if she wants to have a conversation she'll likely start it, if not she'll walk on, either way I reckon its better to be civil than ignore her.
That's what I thought as would like to fuck her again!  :rolleyes:

If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

Offline stevedave

Ignore her, she will probably do the same - it's in her interest to maintain her discretion and anonymity.

Offline budz

4 responses, 2 for the say hi and 2 for ignoring and I understand both points of view.  I suppose it's best to ignore her unless she says hi, I can get away with speaking if had OH with me as I have many work clients which we keep bumping into when out and about.

Don't go out of your way to speak to her but if you are walking along the street and she sees you I would say hi,unless your with the other half of course!

Offline tarkus

I would acknowledge her with a smile and by making eye contact, it should be fairly easy to gauge if she wants to talk or not by her reaction.

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where I am currently working
I'd go for it.  You ain't gonna be there 4ever.  I doubt if she'll clock your van / even less care or remember

If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

+1. Discretion

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I can get away with speaking if had OH with me as I have many work clients which we keep bumping into when out and about.

I assume she knows your real name then? Could get awkward if she bounces over saying "Hi Budz" when your OH calls you 'Kevin'  :D :D

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If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

Totally agree  I've never bumped into WG I've seen before but there is who lives in the same town as me. If I did see her out and about I'd just ignore her.

Online Spunky34

Just obey normal rules of politeness - sometimes you walk past people you don't even know in the street, give them a nod, a smile and a 'hello' in passing.  At other times you don't.  Even if you're with your other half there is nothing suspicious about simply saying hello and walking on - she could very plausibly be someone you know by sight from the office or the pub.

Offline budz

I assume she knows your real name then? Could get awkward if she bounces over saying "Hi Budz" when your OH calls you 'Kevin'  :D :D
First name only, life is complicated enough without having a fake name as well lol

Offline smiths

I did a search but can't find the answer to my dilemma.  A WG I saw a few weeks ago lives in the next street to where I am currently working and I'm not sure what to do if we were to bump into each other whilst I was going to or from my van. If she were to see me at my van that's all my cover blown but there is no where else to park. Do you say Hi and chat or ignore each other and get on with your life?

Totally ignore each other is what I have done in this scenario which has happened a number of times near sex party venues I was on my way to over the years.

Offline DG

Depends on the circumstances, who you are with, who she is with, the venue etc. The general rule is to uphold the mutual agreement for discretion and say and do nothing. However depending on your relationship with the girl eg. is she a regular, do you communicate out with bookings? In this case a discrete nod or smile may be acceptable. It would be hard to imagine an occasion when a full blown "hi how are you?" would be appropriate as even if you thought nobody was around, you can't be too careful, unless you have both agreed a cover story should the situation ever arise. But I doubt many WGs would do this.
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Offline Dani

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If I bumped into a wg in public, I would expect her to completely ignore me & I would do the same. Neither of you can know if her/your partner is following just around the corner.

If that happens, and as you say you want to fuck her again, simply contact her afterwards, thank her for her discretion, and make another booking.

This.  Even if you said hello in all likelihood she will ignore you then may well refuse to see you again as she would be under the impression that discretion is not a priority for you whereas it most likely will be for her.  You have no idea who maybe around even if it looks like she is alone. She could be meeting her partner/mother/sister just up the road and her stopping to talk to a tradesperson may cause questions she doesn't have a ready answer for.
A quick smile and a wink or nod is more than enough if you feel you can't ignore her but anything more than that just isn't on
How would you feel if the roles were reversed and she happened to tour in the street next to you and saw you out and about when you could be with family or friends who may not be next to you but in ear shot of anything said?

Offline jame75

I met a WG i had seen a week earlier in a shop, we looked at each other and quickly looked away.

I think most of them know the etiquette outside of their work.

Offline RedKettle

I ignore but might just give a look or slight nod.  Just as if you think someone might be familiar but you are not sure.

Any sort of conversation is dangerous, especially as probably neither of you know the correct name or occupation (real or cover) for each other.

Offline pking_paul

I was sitting in a well known Bristol bar on Sunday evening when all of a sudden this girl sat down on the chair on the other side of the table. I've never punted with her but I recognised her arm tats from AW.

Chat was really free and easy, I guess she was a seasoned pro at that. I now wish I'd said something  :dash:

Offline maxxblue

I was sitting in a well known Bristol bar on Sunday evening when all of a sudden this girl sat down on the chair on the other side of the table. I've never punted with her but I recognised her arm tats from AW.

Chat was really free and easy, I guess she was a seasoned pro at that. I now wish I'd said something  :dash:

Like what?

Like what?

As Maxx says, you were never going to get anything for free and you'd seen her profile on AW so you know who she was?

Offline Neal69

Pulled up at Traffic Lights today alongside one I have seen a number of times. FFS I almost waved  :dash:

Thankfully she was concentrating on the traffic rather than the odd bloke in the car next to her who was craning his neck to see if it was really her  :dash: :dash:

Discretion discretion discretion at all times.

Had the shock of my life a while back when a WG I had seen appeared in my local when I was with Mrs Neal but she was as good as gold and all that was done was a little eye contact when she came up to the bar in a very quiet country pub.

N

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Had the shock of my life a while back when a WG I had seen appeared in my local when I was with Mrs Neal but she was as good as gold and all that was done was a little eye contact when she came up to the bar in a very quiet country pub.
4 questions:

A/ did you start firming up [not immediately after initial contact / shock, but a while later] ?
B/ did you think through your last session whilst still in the boozer ?
C/ did you bash one out thinking about her when you got home - or think about her when banging MrsN [presuming still on the menu] ?
D/ have you made another booking ?

I'd be answering four 'yesses'.  Just like on BGT  :lol:


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