+1 tonibell99, punting is not a hobby to be taken lightly, if I can punt in the evening or weekends so not to lose work hours, that's what I do, ( self employed ) , see my last review with little fairy, I had the use of a hotel room from 5-6 , I had no problem taking the day off so not to be rushing and so I could shower etc plan the day at my leisure, had a great meet, can't do rushing around, squeezing it ( the punt ) in, that's when it goes tits up. if you want to do the party, you have to fit in with her not her with you, these things don't work like that, like tonibell says , there was an evening party but no one was interested.