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Author Topic: Motivations for punting?  (Read 1675 times)

Offline mystery7

Hey guys and gals. Thought i'd throw this question out there, might be a bit personal but i'm curious as to why certain people started punting.
When I first started checking out this site, I thought all the people would be creepy, sunday sport type laddo's! But all the people on here seem intelligent, articulate, polite (well almost ha ha) and respectful. So i'm wondering why punting? My reason is because of my profession I have spent the last 10 years training for competition and teaching (can't say in what as would give the game away) and have neglected my social life and developing "game". So I started punting to cut a corner to sleeping with the sort of visually stunning girls i'd lost the confidence to approach. Must admit its been great so far and suits my direct nature very well. But whats about you guys? Why do succesful, intelligent guys like yourselves pay for it? I'm intrigued.             Again. Sorry if this is a bit personal :)
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Offline NIK

Hey guys and gals. Thought i'd throw this question out there, might be a bit personal but i'm curious as to why certain people started punting.
When I first started checking out this site, I thought all the people would be creepy, sunday sport type laddo's! But all the people on here seem intelligent, articulate, polite (well almost ha ha) and respectful. So i'm wondering why punting? My reason is because of my profession I have spent the last 10 years training for competition and teaching (can't say in what as would give the game away) and have neglected my social life and developing "game". So I started punting to cut a corner to sleeping with the sort of visually stunning girls i'd lost the confidence to approach. Must admit its been great so far and suits my direct nature very well. But whats about you guys? Why do succesful, intelligent guys like yourselves pay for it? I'm intrigued.             Again. Sorry if this is a bit personal :)

No they're on all the other paid sex sites!   :lol:

Offline Cactus

My first punt was driven by a fantasy/desire for a totally 100% no strings sexual encounter that brewed and built up for a while.  I was early/mid 20s, had been in various relationships and had one night stands but liked the idea of it being even more no strings than that.  After a bit of procrastinating I booked a girl from the Daily Sport (must be a creepy Sunday Sport type Laddo) as had no idea about AW or parlours back then and went round to her flat for an incall, got inside panicked and left (giving her a tenner for wasting her time, she was cool about it).  Texted her later to apologise for wasting her time etc and she said it wasn't a problem, she could tell I was nervous & that if I ever wanted to try again to give her a shout.

About a week later I went back, rather enjoyed it and my career as a punter commenced.

I don't punt all that often as it's a bit down my list of financial priorities just now, maybe once a month max (although I did 3 last month).  I'm going to start using parlours more in Edinburgh as we seem to be a little spoilt and the quality of girls on AW is a little dissapointing just now.  It may get me back more to the original fantasy of proper no strings sex.
« Last Edit: November 12, 2012, 12:00:59 AM by Cactus »

Offline smiths

Hey guys and gals. Thought i'd throw this question out there, might be a bit personal but i'm curious as to why certain people started punting.
When I first started checking out this site, I thought all the people would be creepy, sunday sport type laddo's! But all the people on here seem intelligent, articulate, polite (well almost ha ha) and respectful. So i'm wondering why punting? My reason is because of my profession I have spent the last 10 years training for competition and teaching (can't say in what as would give the game away) and have neglected my social life and developing "game". So I started punting to cut a corner to sleeping with the sort of visually stunning girls i'd lost the confidence to approach. Must admit its been great so far and suits my direct nature very well. But whats about you guys? Why do succesful, intelligent guys like yourselves pay for it? I'm intrigued.             Again. Sorry if this is a bit personal :)

I have been punting since i was 19, i am 47 now, for me i loved the buzz of punting and the no strings no earache aspect of it. For me its a lifestyle choice and will be a lifelong until i cant do it anymore pastime.

Whether i have been in a relationship or not i still punted, i am selfish and lied wanting variety. I dont want to practice monogamy which is not for me in this lifetime BUT i did want to be loved and wanted children, so i had a relationship for love and a family and punted for the variety of different WGs. In my experience when i had an affair it nearly destroyed my life, punting is so much less hassle and if you use your common sense you wont be caught out unless unlucky, i havent been, but a mate did by glitter stuck to his back. He was in the dog house for a long time.

Offline Cactus

I have been punting since i was 19, i am 47 now, for me i loved the buzz of punting and the no strings no earache aspect of it. For me its a lifestyle choice and will be a lifelong until i cant do it anymore pastime.

Whether i have been in a relationship or not i still punted, i am selfish and lied wanting variety. I dont want to practice monogamy which is not for me in this lifetime BUT i did want to be loved and wanted children, so i had a relationship for love and a family and punted for the variety of different WGs. In my experience when i had an affair it nearly destroyed my life, punting is so much less hassle and if you use your common sense you wont be caught out unless unlucky, i havent been, but a mate did by glitter stuck to his back. He was in the dog house for a long time.

Smiths that pretty much exactly sums it up for me as well in terms of my motivations for continuing punting  :thumbsup:

Offline smiths

Smiths that pretty much exactly sums it up for me as well in terms of my motivations for continuing punting  :thumbsup:

Long may it continue. :drinks: ;)

Offline Crackpott

I've never punted in the UK !!

Im just a dirty old bastard anyway  :cool:

I started punting 11 years ago as I find it hard to approach girls if I was out as I was scared of rejection and making myself look daft. And after a couple of years of being single I fought bugger it and went to a brothel in Thailand with my mates after a lot of  :drinks: and loved it. But then back in the UK I daren't do it.
Then a few years later I went to Amsterdam on a stag night and got addicted to it and I must have had at least 80 girls over there over the space of a year or so but I still didn't have the nerve to do it in the UK still. But one day I got brave enough to go to a parlour and it got to be easy after a while.
I'll only ever punt when I'm single though and I love the fact that I'm shagging stunners that I'd never pull in real life and it helps me get over relationships that have gone tits up

Offline fabbian von minky

Must say i punt less now im older , seem to punt more in the summer when theres plenty of flesh on show, and will look for wg aged 18/19  (21/23)  think ive become wise to the fact that most punts / wg in this country are not worth the money, if you want value for money you need to jump on a plane,saying that looking forward to trying out a LMP gig.
« Last Edit: November 12, 2012, 01:30:33 PM by fabbian von minky »
Banning reason: Troll

I was going out with a girl for 6 months and she dumped me  :( She was the only girl i've ever been in love with. It was my 18th birthday 8 days later so i went to Amsterdam and lost my virginity to some hot blonde who demanded my sperma. That was my reason for starting, my reasons for continuing are because i enjoy having sex with beautiful women and i don't like being rejected so sometimes i take the easy route and fork out the dosh  :hi:

Offline johnr1

Some very interesting replies to this topic

For me I started when I was getting divorced went to see a WG not knowing what to expect as I had never done this before and did not know anybody that had, I was expecting a scam someone would rob me when I was in the room and get my car keys but I had a fantastic mind-blowing time and that was me hooked
I got divorced and she took more than half of what I had including a business and left me with loads of dept which I will struggle to pay back in my life time.....but still manage to put a bit to one side for a punt
I have since moved on and found a nice girl that you could not fault she keeps herself in good shape and has a body to die for which makes me feel so guilty having this hobby if that’s the right word but I just love a bit variety and keep promising to stop but know I never will 
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Offline mh

I have since moved on and found a nice girl that you could not fault she keeps herself in good shape and has a body to die for which makes me feel so guilty having this hobby if that’s the right word but I just love a bit variety and keep promising to stop but know I never will

I'd love to think that if I had a partner who was fit and wanted sex regularly then I'd not punt. But I can't categorically say that would be the case and I think once you've started this hobby it's damn hard to stop.

Anyway, I punt because I get hardly any sex at home and when I do it's awful - vanilla, repetitive, no desire on my wife's side for it to be any better or more frequent. For example in the last 2 months I have punted 3 times, which is a higher than average frequency for me - mainly down to having some easy opportunities to do so. And In that time I've had sex with my other half once and it was possibly the worst sex I've ever had. Despite in that time having had a week away (with no sex in that week at all).

So I started punting just over 2 years ago after 15 years of little sex at home. Recently I have been beginning to feel I've done all the items on my sexual bucket list and will probably stop before too long. But when the opportunities arise (business trips in UK and abroad) I can't resist!


Because it's fun

+1
started at about 19 or 20 and still doing it 50 years later. High point were the years of Cynthia Payne's parties in Streatham. Anyone here who went to one?

Offline haystacks79

I'll just quote what I wrote previously on this subject:
No wife or girlfriend to worry about here, and I've been single for a long time now, following a nasty experience in the past that left me unable to trust in a relationship, and kind of scared of sex in general. Not a good place to be. Time has been a healer though, and I got into this as a way of getting over the past, gaining a bit more confidence etc. before thinking about the possibility of a relationship again in the future. As such I'm not looking for variety or to fulfil any particular fantasies, instead choosing to see just a couple of girls that I've now had chance to get to know a bit, and feel comfortable and relaxed with.

It's working so far, I'm feeling much better in myself since starting this. I hope that perhaps next year I'll be in the right place mentally to actually think about a pursuing a relationship again.

Offline ncarter

A period of being single + health issues limiting alcohol and nightclubs to minimum = low self esteem particularly with women

So got sick of situation and went to a parlour to resolve part of what I was lacking.

I don't know if it was me, but before I started this, particularly when I was younger, I was piss poor at talking to women and had limited social interaction. Since I started this, I have found socially I prefer a mixed group with more women in. It's not because I think I will score/pull/shag one of them, I just find them more interesting.

I am now arguably a selfish person, I prefer to do what I want to my criteria and rules and am very wary about starting a relationship again, I think if I do I will stop punting, but having never punted when in a relationship I cannot give a definitive answer.

Offline smiths

+1
started at about 19 or 20 and still doing it 50 years later. High point were the years of Cynthia Payne's parties in Streatham. Anyone here who went to one?

Very sadly not but would of loved to have done.

Offline tom269u001

In a largely sexless relationship.

Punting is addictive, and mainly great fun!

Offline mystery7

I also saw an article in fhm magazine about and under cover guy trying punting. Adultworks was mentioned, so I checked it out. Think that planted the seed. Wish i'd started earlier ha ha :D
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