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Author Topic: Punter Etiquette (Gabi's Rant!)  (Read 14935 times)

Offline AnthG

To be honest I came on here for some advice/banter and the majority of the time all I recieve is slander (PMs).
If you are receiving unpleasant PMs from someone you can click the report PM button. The mods will look at it and then decided what to do.

I enjoy being on here and getting the point of view of punter however if most of you have such a low view why see WGs at all?
But that is the nature of discussion forums; To challenge and expand on issues.

Plus the unfortunate thing is, escorts are not the most truthful people in the world (especially when it comes to internet forums) so people are automatically distrustful of what they say.

With regards to punting forums, with an escort joining she needs to accept that she will be challenged with a lot of what she says. Its good as it allows you to learn how to hold your own.

Offline Jimmyredcab

If you are receiving unpleasant PMs from someone you can click the report PM button. The mods will look at it and then decided what to do.

We have no control over PM's but if anyone receives threats or serious insults we would like to know about it, if we find them unacceptable the person involved will be banned.

Offline johnr1

In Gabriella’s defence she was only having a rant and not wanting to have a full blown enquiry, I have spoken to her over the weekend and I think that it was more the attitude of the person rather than what was said, I have made the same comments in the past to WG’s but Never to be offensive
Gabriella has a bit of class about her and I think that when you first see her doing this job you think that it’s not what you would expect her to be doing (not meaning that other WG’s don’t have any class, don’t want to offend anyone) but hope you know what I’m trying to say
Regarding the not being well, I don’t think she is 100% yet and should have had a week off but she did get taken home on Friday and the medics did examine her
Banning reason: White knight prick

Offline Matium

Feel free to ask Diamonds yourselves as I actually collapsed at work and had to have paramedics called. I said flu as I never ask for sympathy. To be honest I came on here for some advice/banter and the majority of the time all I recieve is slander (PMs).

If anybody is sending you pms that threaten or slander you, Gabi, then you should not hesitate to report them at once.

Bullying will not be tolerated on UKP.

It's a shame to see that this thread is evolving into yet another 'get the pro$$ie' affair. I hope it dies a natural death before it becomes the usual bunfight resulting in the loss of Gabi on the forum.

Offline John Doe

Gabriella has a bit of class about her and I think that when you first see her doing this job you think that it’s not what you would expect her to be doing (not meaning that other WG’s don’t have any class, don’t want to offend anyone) but hope you know what I’m trying to say


But that is what you (and AnthG) are precisely doing. You're both saying that normal escorts deserve this low life scum job that has no respect from anyone but those that are slightly better than the lowest of the low deserve a better more respectable job.

(I've exaggerated slightly to make my point!)

Offline Jimmyredcab

It's a shame to see that this thread is evolving into yet another 'get the pro$$ie' affair. I hope it dies a natural death before it becomes the usual bunfight resulting in the loss of Gabi on the forum.

I sometimes get the feeling that you would be far happier posting on auto-censored.   :rolleyes:

Offline Cactus

Feel free to ask Diamonds yourselves as I actually collapsed at work and had to have paramedics called. I said flu as I never ask for sympathy. To be honest I came on here for some advice/banter and the majority of the time all I recieve is slander (PMs).

I enjoy being on here and getting the point of view of punter however if most of you have such a low view why see WGs at all?

I don't lie/stretch truth or try to advertise, I love my job and enjoy exploring different aspects such as this forum. I'm now wondering why bother? Xxxx

If you say you were ill that's fine, we don't need to know what was wrong with you or whatever. It's a cross over between two threads here. No doctors line is required to excuse your absence.

Your second statement, what are you trying to say? If we punters don't agree that what the guy said was wrong, then we hate escorts and shouldn't punt?  The ethos of this forum is putting the punter first, we're not here to pander to your rent if we have a different view then by all means we should be allowed to express it. On a public forum, if everyone agreed with everything then it would be a rather boring place. Not every thread will go he way of your recent positive review thread (which I would argue did border in touting/advertising).

If you have had abusive PM's then report them.

Offline Wayang

It's a shame to see that this thread is evolving into yet another 'get the pro$$ie' affair. I hope it dies a natural death before it becomes the usual bunfight resulting in the loss of Gabi on the forum.

I agree with you - what was a simple but fair statement by a WG of how she dealt with a difficult situation has allowed the anti-WGs to belittle her initial post.
Shame on the lot of you.

Offline mudlark

Gabriella has a bit of class about her and I think that when you first see her doing this job you think that it’s not what you would expect her to be doing (not meaning that other WG’s don’t have any class, don’t want to offend anyone) but hope you know what I’m trying to say

I do think that this mindset is part of the problem here and why taking this kind of approach is not likely to be very popular with many wg's.

An escort/wg/pro$$ie/whatever has (I would hope) chosen to enter this line of work, they make enough money to give them a great standard of living and you know what?  In spite of the hassles, dangers and other issues a lot of them probably enjoy it.  If I had found a vocation that I enjoyed doing, was good at and earned a good amount of money, had spent time building up a good reputation and provide a top notch service, would I be happy when someone comes along and devalues what they are doing by saying things like the above? Of course not!

Perhaps a girl who really doesn't want to be doing the job may appreciate the above comment but I suspect the rest it would go down like a lead balloon.

Offline Wayang

I sometimes get the feeling that you would be far happier posting on auto-censored.   :rolleyes:

Just because a poster expresses justified support for a  WG it is unfair and wrong to link the poster to auto-censored.

A balanced view might be more appropriate from a  moderator than a continued anti-WG slanging.  What was a  simple post has given too many the opportunity to wage war against WGs.

Maybe we ought to have an 'I hate WGs" thread just for some of the responses to this thread.

Offline AnthG

But that is what you (and AnthG) are precisely doing. You're both saying that normal escorts deserve this low life scum job that has no respect from anyone but those that are slightly better than the lowest of the low deserve a better more respectable job.

(I've exaggerated slightly to make my point!)

I agree with you - what was a simple but fair statement by a WG of how she dealt with a difficult situation has allowed the anti-WGs to belittle her initial post.
Shame on the lot of you.
What on earth are you talking about. Where has any of that happened.

Nobody that I can see has belittled anyone. Nobody has been disrespectful to anyone.

It has went to the realms of absurd that anyone could think otherwise.

And with regards to my posts. What I was saying I do not think the guy was being nasty to her. That is all. I had a great booking with Gabi and would never be disrespectful to her.

People need to re-read this thread, grow thicker skins, or something, as there is something not right about this overreaction by some.

Offline Brianna

What on earth are you talking about. Where has any of that happened.

Nobody that I can see has belittled anyone. Nobody has been disrespectful to anyone.



The thread has digressed a little, so let's remind ourselves as to what was said

"Why do you do this? You do know you could earn less money somewhere else but gain some respect. It's so degrading."

Ok let's break it down

Why do you do this? - Does he want the true answer, or has he already made up his own mind. Not no matter  overtly rude, but questioning why ANY one would consider doing the job

You know.......but gain some respect - He is making the assumption that by being a WG she has foresaken her self respect

It's so degrading - Ehm how could you possibly say this was not insulting?

Most of us do have hard skins, and this is not the worse we will here, but one thing I dislike more than someone verbally insulting me directly is the self-appointed white knight on a charger that is ready to save my soul>

Offline Jimmyredcab



People need to re-read this thread, grow thicker skins, or something, as there is something not right about this overreaction by some.

+1.    :thumbsup:

Offline Gorgeousgabi

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Eeeeeh all I was doing was having a little rant....it wasnt meant to start WW3. I do have massively thick skin I was simply having a little complain to get some advice. I know better now Xxx

Offline AnthG

Eeeeeh all I was doing was having a little rant....it wasnt meant to start WW3.

WW3 is another thing that occurs frequently. Don't worry about it. It is just an outcome of so vastly different personalities all coming at something from totally different angles. Its one of the things that makes this forum so good IMHO.

Just be thankful you never found auto-censored. Never mind WW3. A thread there is global meltdown always ending with at least someone being permanent premodded for life.

I know better now Xxx
No, keep on posting and starting topics please. I personally really do like your vibrancy. It is rare to find someone with true energy inside them.

Offline Crackpott

Already marked as a shit stirring troll with no manners - won't last long.
Suggest you buy a 6" strap-on (and that is 6" diameter if he comes around again!
Dealt with that really well - guess that marks you down as a real professional.


Me thinks you are here to shit stir and just be plain argumentative.  Don't push your luck.

Offline Daffodil

If this is an example of the 'abuse' pro$$ies receive on the job then I think you should consider yourself lucky. I've definitely had worse 'abuse' at work. He may have unintentionally put his foot in it, as far as you are concerned, but what a load of fuss that you've kicked up! Surely, if this needed to be posted (which, imo, it didn't), SAAFE would have been a better place to do it?

Should he have said, 'you're exactly the sort of girl who should be sucking old stranger's cocks for a living and I think you have picked your vocation perfectly'?

Offline AnthG

Me thinks you are here to shit stir and just be plain argumentative.  Don't push your luck.
Wayang has been at the forum since day one; over 2 and a (almost) half years ago. And is respected by many here.

what a load of fuss that you've kicked up! Surely, if this needed to be posted (which, imo, it didn't), SAAFE would have been a better place to do it?
All people keep saying over and over again is the girls of saafe should join here and get real punters opinions on issues. One does this, and you then suggest post on saafe?
« Last Edit: November 05, 2012, 04:11:48 PM by AnthG »

Offline Daffodil

Wayang has been at the forum since day one; over 2 and a (almost) half years ago. And is respected by many here.
All people keep saying over and over again is the girls of saafe should join here and get real punters opinions on issues. One does this, and you then suggest post on saafe?

What I suggested is that she shouldn't have posted it at all.

Do people really keep saying the girls on saafe should join here? Can you quote them all? If the girls from saafe did join up I know I'd be off...

Offline Crackpott

Wayang has been at the forum since day one; over 2 and a (almost) half years ago. And is respected by many here.
Not according to my mailbox
One look at his posts show the majority of his posts are insulting and abusive

However I dont wish to hijack a thread, sorry

Offline Brianna



Should he have said, 'you're exactly the sort of girl who should be sucking old stranger's cocks for a living and I think you have picked your vocation perfectly'?

That made me chuckle.

I often wonder when guys talk about us, they always make the reference to sucking old guy's cocks. Strangely we do actually sometimes suck younger guy's cocks or it would only be worth working on pension day.

Some of us have mentioned that the comment was more "headbanging" than "crying into a pillow all hurt", and it is just one of those lines probably every working girl has heard at least once.

It is all about context, and we could flip it. In black and white, many of you punters may have heard these lines and pondered that whilst they appear as compliments, there is a negative to them

Ooh your cock is just toooo big for anal - I do not want to do anal with you

Your life is sooo interesting, I want to hear more - The more time talking = less time fucking

Let us take a stimulating shower together - Then I can at least show you what soap looks like.

Offline AnthG

Do people really keep saying the girls on saafe should join here? Can you quote them all? If the girls from saafe did join up I know I'd be off...

Here is one recent one. I can find more later on if needed

A young WG would truthfully learn more from UKP than she ever would from Saafe.

Offline AnthG

Not according to my mailbox
Are you suggesting someone is PMing you to shit stir about members?

Offline Daffodil

Here is one recent one. I can find more later on if needed

That quote is hardly the same as 'get the girls from saafe on here to post shit so we can lead them right'.

And it's one quote. From one member. That doesn't really back up what you've stated.

This forum is about helping punters. It's not for pro$$ies to come and bitch about punters.


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