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Author Topic: Punter Etiquette (Gabi's Rant!)  (Read 14956 times)

Offline Gorgeousgabi

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Slight rant so if this is 1) offensive 2) in the wrong category 3) distasteful, I am sorry.

Just finished work and was having a lovely shift until Mr 'I know how to kick you in the head' arrives. Everything was fine until the 'after sex banter'.

He stated: "Why do you do this? You do know you could earn less money somewhere else but gain some respect. It's so degrading."  :dash:

I calmly picked up a pillow....walked into the lounge and screamed into it. NEVER SAY THIS TO A WG!!!! :thumbsdown: Especially a WG who enjoys her work very much!!!! Why would I want a different occupation??? I happen to have all the self respect I need!!!! If your face didn't look like a stood on piece of Playdoh you would be doing it as well!!!!

Rant over. Just a small lesson on punter etiquette.  :scare:

Offline MrNapalm

Big deal. Getting paid hundreds per hour and you get worked up at such a small thing :rolleyes:

Offline what-a man

Slight rant so if this is 1) offensive 2) in the wrong category 3) distasteful, I am sorry.

Just finished work and was having a lovely shift until Mr 'I know how to kick you in the head' arrives. Everything was fine until the 'after sex banter'.

He stated: "Why do you do this? You do know you could earn less money somewhere else but gain some respect. It's so degrading."  :dash:

I calmly picked up a pillow....walked into the lounge and screamed into it. NEVER SAY THIS TO A WG!!!! :thumbsdown: Especially a WG who enjoys her work very much!!!! Why would I want a different occupation??? I happen to have all the self respect I need!!!! If your face didn't look like a stood on piece of Playdoh you would be doing it as well!!!!

Rant over. Just a small lesson on punter etiquette.  :scare:

If I were you I'd say to him "Why do you pay to fuck prostitutes? Its so degrading and you could loose your respect if people know you're doing this". How hypocritical can one be?

Offline Wayang

Big deal. Getting paid hundreds per hour and you get worked up at such a small thing :rolleyes:

Just shows you have no respect for WGs.  Here isa  WG who obviously enjoys her work and yet your very first post is insulting and rude.

But guess newbie trolls want to make an impact - even if it is bloody awful.

Offline k

Slight rant so if this is 1) offensive 2) in the wrong category 3) distasteful, I am sorry.

Just finished work and was having a lovely shift until Mr 'I know how to kick you in the head' arrives. Everything was fine until the 'after sex banter'.

He stated: "Why do you do this? You do know you could earn less money somewhere else but gain some respect. It's so degrading."  :dash:

I calmly picked up a pillow....walked into the lounge and screamed into it. NEVER SAY THIS TO A WG!!!! :thumbsdown: Especially a WG who enjoys her work very much!!!! Why would I want a different occupation??? I happen to have all the self respect I need!!!! If your face didn't look like a stood on piece of Playdoh you would be doing it as well!!!!

Rant over. Just a small lesson on punter etiquette.  :scare:

Maybe he is totally unable to form a more normal, no, let's say more conventional relationship with a woman because of his apparent inability to engage brain before engaging mouth. 

Was Mr whatsisface young or old? 

Young: then his personality is still in malleable form - tell him what you told us and that you will not see him again until he is ready to make the most grovelling apology (flowers would be nice).  I think that an important part of a "good" wg's relationship with men is to teach them better ways to be men.   Isn't this a part of what "pillow talk" is all about?  A wg is often the best person to give confidential consultations on how a man should deal with a particular domestic situation.

Old: this is probably part and parcel of a well-established "game" he plays.  Of course you will not be seeing him again and if he asks why won't you see him again tell him "if you don't know then I'm not going to tell you" (now where have I heard that line before? lol).

Offline Wayang

Maybe he is totally unable to form a more normal, no, let's say more conventional relationship with a woman because of his apparent inability to engage brain before engaging mouth. 
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Lot of waffly justification for a client behaving like an arsehole.

Whilst this site is aimed at identifying WGs who provide a low quality service or worse, it is only right that piss poor manners in a punter be exposed.

Offline k

Lot of waffly justification for a client behaving like an arsehole.

Whilst this site is aimed at identifying WGs who provide a low quality service or worse, it is only right that piss poor manners in a punter be exposed.

It is important to understand what makes people tick and to deal with it in the best possible way.  If Gabi had dealt with it in an ott way the punter may have latent suicidal or violent tendencies which may in the future lead to unfortunate consequences. 

I am not defending him being an "arsehole" in exactly the same way that I would not defend my children if they smashed my neighbours windows. 

Offline Wayang

It is important to understand what makes people tick and to deal with it in the best possible way.  If Gabi had dealt with it in an ott way the punter may have latent suicidal or violent tendencies which may in the future lead to unfortunate consequences. 

I am not defending him being an "arsehole" in exactly the same way that I would not defend my children if they smashed my neighbours windows.

Gabi dealt with a  difficult situation very well.

My only concern is that we spend too much time concerned about arseholes, their up-bringing, alcoholic father, prostitute mother, gang culture......  Like the poor who will always be with us, so we will always be plagued with arseholes.

Offline Kitty

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If people are ever rude to me I slide in sarky little remarks about their manners. Rude people are a pet hate of mine and if I was you I would have been a lot more blunt about how it's only people who can't be bothered to treat me with decency and courtesy that make me feel degraded :)



Offline foresight

If people are ever rude to me I slide in sarky little remarks about their manners. Rude people are a pet hate of mine and if I was you I would have been a lot more blunt about how it's only people who can't be bothered to treat me with decency and courtesy that make me feel degraded :)

Why do they make you feel degraded? It's themselves they are degrading.

Offline Lurtz


He stated: "Why do you do this? You do know you could earn less money somewhere else but gain some respect. It's so degrading."  :dash:


To outsiders (or newbies) who don’t understand the scene, prostitution doesn’t appear to be a valid vocation for a pretty young woman. It is seen as a last resort for the downtrodden and the desperate who have fallen on hard times and have no alternative but to rent out their fanny for a few shillings. No doubt this view is coloured by the streetwalkers and the griminess that accompany their nocturnal activities.

But those of us in the know realise that the industry in diverse, multi-layered and hierarchical. Although there is a stigma attached to being a punter and a prossie, I don’t think it is degrading, and I certainly have respect for the girls who excel at their job.

Offline Kitty

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Why do they make you feel degraded? It's themselves they are degrading.

If someone were to treat me with open contempt and hostility, especially after we'd had sex and they'd talked to me on a personal level, it would take a robot or someone with unbelievably high self-esteem not to experience fleeting pangs of... hmmm, what's the right word... feeling devalued I guess? Us WGs are only human after all... If you start in this game at a young age then being told you're worthless by someone much older than you is obviously going to take you aback for a second or two. Fortunately these types of men are rare and ever since I stopped working in parlours never meet them any more.

Offline Gorgeousgabi

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Big deal. Getting paid hundreds per hour and you get worked up at such a small thing :rolleyes:

Have you joined this forum simply to state that??? It would not surprise me if your that client. Rude and obnoxious.

Thank you everyone for your advice, I like to see how others would have handled this and how clients feel about it bein said. Woke up in a much better mood, hope he visits again with the same attitude cause I'm ready! Haha.

Xxxx

Offline Wayang

Have you joined this forum simply to state that??? It would not surprise me if your that client. Rude and obnoxious.

Thank you everyone for your advice, I like to see how others would have handled this and how clients feel about it bein said. Woke up in a much better mood, hope he visits again with the same attitude cause I'm ready! Haha.

Xxxx

Already marked as a shit stirring troll with no manners - won't last long.

Suggest you buy a 6" strap-on (and that is 6" diameter if he comes around again!

Dealt with that really well - guess that marks you down as a real professional.

Offline Gorgeousgabi

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Yeah I hope he's banned already!!

That's a brilliant plan...doesn't have any respect for me? I'll force it out of him!! haha.

xxx

Offline AnthG

He stated: "Why do you do this? You do know you could earn less money somewhere else but gain some respect. It's so degrading."  :dash:

I calmly picked up a pillow....walked into the lounge and screamed into it. NEVER SAY THIS TO A WG!!!! :thumbsdown:
Shit. I have said this to girls before, and one girl a few times thinking I was giving her the biggest compliment I could ever give. To clarify when I said the above it was more so intended on the lines of you are too good for this type of work.

The problem for me is, not the paying for sex, I do not have an issue with that to be totally honest. Its the risks you girls face. There are scum bags who get violent all the time in this profession. You meet guys who have no respect for women constantly and they show it in abundance during bookings. And after a year of this type of work I genuinely believe it will change the girl to something else entirely.

On a side note, what actually is the best compliment to give an escort if you wanted to give her one? I genuinely thought it was you are too good for this type of work.

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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Have you joined this forum simply to state that??? It would not surprise me if your that client. Rude and obnoxious.

Thank you everyone for your advice, I like to see how others would have handled this and how clients feel about it bein said. Woke up in a much better mood, hope he visits again with the same attitude cause I'm ready! Haha.

Xxxx

Good to hear your feeling in a better mood today Gabi :)  X As you know for every 30 or so nice ones there will always be one idiot, although I'd of been tempted to have a mini rant at the guy himself especially with the degrading comment along the lines of "I don't feel degraded but since you are here too. Do you? "  :D

On a side note, what actually is the best compliment to give an escort if you wanted to give her one? I genuinely thought it was you are too good for this type of work.

Can you not see that you are clearly looking down on them and their 'profession' with this comment  :unknown:

"I had a fantastic time" is more likely to be a welcome comment.

Offline AnthG

To outsiders (or newbies) who don’t understand the scene, prostitution doesn’t appear to be a valid vocation for a pretty young woman. It is seen as a last resort for the downtrodden and the desperate who have fallen on hard times and have no alternative but to rent out their fanny for a few shillings. No doubt this view is coloured by the streetwalkers and the griminess that accompany their nocturnal activities.
Until James comes back posting you make a brilliant replacement voice of the guy selling it straight Lurtz.

Already marked as a shit stirring troll with no manners - won't last long.
Come on Wayang. The guy gave his honest opinion. Why should that be stifled, and certainly banned for. Plus and I will say this hopefully in your knowing I genuinely do like and respect you a lot. But suggesting people be banned is something of moderators to do.

Offline AnthG

Can you not see that you are clearly looking down on them and their 'profession' with this comment  :unknown:

But like I have previously said my belief is kind of the same as Lurtz (and like I say James too)

It is seen as a last resort for the downtrodden and the desperate who have fallen on hard times and have no alternative but to rent out their fanny for a few shillings.

This is also why I respect escorts for what they do by the way too given the above.

I mean no disrespect to anyone for believing that. I just think this is job is a stepping stone to something else better. Gabi for example in another thread suggested she is getting her post grad teaching qualifications; which post grad degrees are bloody expensive. So assumed this work was to pay for it.

Offline NIK

Napalm has been banned, not to appease calls from fluffies, who despite what they might increasingly think, do not run this board, but because the member had duplicate identities.

Offline Jimmyredcab

To outsiders (or newbies) who don’t understand the scene, prostitution doesn’t appear to be a valid vocation for a pretty young woman. It is seen as a last resort for the downtrodden and the desperate who have fallen on hard times and have no alternative but to rent out their fanny for a few shillings. No doubt this view is coloured by the streetwalkers and the griminess that accompany their nocturnal activities.

But those of us in the know realise that the industry in diverse, multi-layered and hierarchical. Although there is a stigma attached to being a punter and a prossie, I don’t think it is degrading, and I certainly have respect for the girls who excel at their job.

While I don't disagree with you I wonder how you would feel if you had a 20 year old daughter and she said "Dad, guess what, I have decided to be a prostitute"
I imagine you would be horrified, most people would.

Offline Lurtz

But like I have previously said my belief is kind of the same as Lurtz (and like I say James too)

This is also why I respect escorts for what they do by the way too given the above.

I mean no disrespect to anyone for believing that. I just think this is job is a stepping stone to something else better. Gabi for example in another thread suggested she is getting her post grad teaching qualifications; which post grad degrees are bloody expensive. So assumed this work was to pay for it.

Actually, I was saying that people who don't really know anything about the sex industry would tend to have a prejudiced idea of prostitution based on ignorance and the media image of the stereotypical streetwalker.

If I was a good-looking girl who wanted to make loads of cash for very few hours to fund an exotic lifestyle of travel, the draw of prostitution would be strong.

Offline Lurtz

While I don't disagree with you I wonder how you would feel if you had a 20 year old daughter and she said "Dad, guess what, I have decided to be a prostitute"
I imagine you would be horrified, most people would.

I agree. And I'll tell you why. If I knew my mum/sister/daughter was working as a prostitute, my mind would be filled with images of them sucking old men's cocks. I would rather not have those thoughts.

Offline AnthG

Actually, I was saying that people who don't really know anything about the sex industry would tend to have a prejudiced idea of prostitution based on ignorance and the media image of the stereotypical streetwalker.
My belief is formed in a large part from girls at agencies saying to me what guys have done previously to them during bookings. (getting violent/abusive)


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