Losing virginity at 23 to a WG

[marketmaker]

Hi all,

I'm in the situation where I have decided to lose my virginity to a call girl.  I'm currently fresh out of a postgrad program in London, and although I've been on a few dates, I've never had a girlfriend.  I have a fetish for domination/tease&tie and I was just wondering whether I should tell the escort that this is my first time.  Also, should I book from a reputable agency, or find an independent girl?  My budget is to spend a maximum of around £1,000, and I just want to ensure that I get the highest class of girl who provides a perfect first time experience with all my requirements met.  Also, does anybody know what the policy is on for pictures?  Since this would be a special occasion, I'd preferably like a picture with the girl I lost my virginity to (sort of like a trophy of sorts ).  Do high class escorts typically provide this service?

Thank you all in advance for your help and input!

[NIK]

Hi all,

I'm in the situation where I have decided to lose my virginity to a call girl.  I'm currently fresh out of a postgrad program in London, and although I've been on a few dates, I've never had a girlfriend.  I have a fetish for domination/tease&tie and I was just wondering whether I should tell the escort that this is my first time.  Also, should I book from a reputable agency, or find an independent girl?  My budget is to spend a maximum of around £1,000, and I just want to ensure that I get the highest class of girl who provides a perfect first time experience with all my requirements met.  Also, does anybody know what the policy is on for pictures?  Since this would be a special occasion, I'd preferably like a picture with the girl I lost my virginity to (sort of like a trophy of sorts ).  Do high class escorts typically provide this service?

Thank you all in advance for your help and input!

The first thing for you to learn is that the phrase 'high class escort' is bollocks.
Secondly I direct you to my 21 rules of punting further down this board.

[Nagilum]

The first thing for you to learn is that the phrase 'high class escort' is bollocks.
Secondly I direct you to my 21 rules of punting further down this board.

Are we sure this isn't a Troll?  My Spider sense is tingling.

[marketmaker]

So an expensive escort from a supposedly "elite" agency is basically the same as a 200 pound per hour girl?  Age is a concern for me, and I was hoping to find a girl around my age 19-23 (if they exist).  Would these girls be available in the 150-200 range also?  Some of the agencies were advertising 'guaranteed 20 yr olds" for 600, and I just expected that I would be paying a age premium for them, instead of adding the usual 3-5 years on their stated "age".

[marketmaker]

No Nagilum, this is sadly my real situation at the moment and I have no intention of trolling. 

[vw]

So an expensive escort from a supposedly "elite" agency is basically the same as a 200 pound per hour girl?

Which is the same as the 120 per hour girls to.

Read some reviews here what ever region you are one which ever positive gives you wood, pick up the phone and book now !   

Bit sad wanting a photo, would that be for the mantelpiece ? 

Sounds like a dire uni ! Avoid !   

[Nagilum]

So an expensive escort from a supposedly "elite" agency is basically the same as a 200 pound per hour girl?  Age is a concern for me, and I was hoping to find a girl around my age 19-23 (if they exist).  Would these girls be available in the 150-200 range also?  Some of the agencies were advertising 'guaranteed 20 yr olds" for 600, and I just expected that I would be paying a age premium for them.

Few things to take on.

1. Money paid and service do not go hand in hand.  Just because you pay more does not mean you are going to get an elite service.  You could pay £500 and receive a terrible service and pay just £80 and receive an incredible service. 

2. Plenty of girls out there in the age bracket you describe, but remember most WG's will tell a white lie about age, not all but around 95%.

3. You must read reviews in the region you are in and have a good first punt, don't be brave and go out into the minefield that is punting with a girl who is not reviewed.  You could end up in a sticky situation, which inexperience will not help you in.

4. Read Nik's 21 tips

5. Read the punting Wiki (below) as you are treating it as a special occasion for your virginity, and in reality you should really find a girlfriend if you feel this way.  Punting is not dating, remember that. 

[Nagilum]

No Nagilum, this is sadly my real situation at the moment and I have no intention of trolling.

Welcome to the board 

[marketmaker]

Which is the same as the 120 per hour girls to.

Read some reviews here what ever region you are one which ever positive gives you wood, pick up the phone and book now !   

Bit sad wanting a photo, would that be for the mantelpiece ? 

Sounds like a dire uni ! Avoid !   

Yep, the Uni I went to for postgrad has a bit of a reputation for being full of studious nerds/international students.  Everybody says the social life there is shit, (I do too). 

I've been reading some reviews, but most of the girls with positive feedback seem to be 26+ years of age.  I wouldn't mind paying a lot if their age was guaranteed 

[marketmaker]

Few things to take on.

1. Money paid and service do not go hand in hand.  Just because you pay more does not mean you are going to get an elite service.  You could pay £500 and receive a terrible service and pay just £80 and receive an incredible service. 

2. Plenty of girls out there in the age bracket you describe, but remember most WG's will tell a white lie about age, not all but around 95%.

3. You must read reviews in the region you are in and have a good first punt, don't be brave and go out into the minefield that is punting with a girl who is not reviewed.  You could end up in a sticky situation, which inexperience will not help you in.

4. Read Nik's 21 tips

5. Read the punting Wiki (below) as you are treating it as a special occasion for your virginity, and in reality you should really find a girlfriend if you feel this way.  Punting is not dating, remember that.

Yep, will definitely continue reading all I can to ensure I don't waste my virginity (and my $$$).  The hours at my job are terrible (sometimes 12-14 hour days when its busy), so I don't really have the time for a real relationship.  Plus, I'm not that good looking, so any girls I get with aren't likely to be as good as some of these working girls. 

[vw]

Yep, the Uni I went to for postgrad has a bit of a reputation for being full of studious nerds/international students.  Everybody says the social life there is shit, (I do too). 

I've been reading some reviews, but most of the girls with positive feedback seem to be 26+ years of age.  I wouldn't mind paying a lot if their age was guaranteed 

When you become experienced you will realise attitude and service is more important than age !

Prossies always have dubious ages there are no guarantees on this.

Which ones have captured your imagination ?

Welcome anyway markettrader !  ~~If you need carrots for your market stall I'm your man !   

[Nagilum]

Yep, will definitely continue reading all I can to ensure I don't waste my virginity (and my $$$).  The hours at my job are terrible (sometimes 12-14 hour days when its busy), so I don't really have the time for a real relationship.  Plus, I'm not that good looking, so any girls I get with aren't likely to be as good as some of these working girls.

Don't worry about any of that stuff, you will be fine.  WG's will not care what you look like, which i'm sure you have gathered.  A good provider will give you good service and maintain that for all her clients. 

[marketmaker]

When you become experienced you will realise attitude and service is more important than age !

Prossies always have dubious ages there are no guarantees on this.

Which ones have captured your imagination ?

Welcome anyway markettrader !  ~~If you need carrots for your market stall I'm your man !   

I was thinking about Aleksandra External Link/Members Only or Emily External Link/Members Only, as they both seem to have good reviews.  I have a thing for Russian girls though (why don't you guys have a list of Russian girls  ), so I was hoping to find one of those. 

[vw]

I was thinking about Aleksandra External Link/Members Only or Emily External Link/Members Only, as they both seem to have good reviews.  I have a thing for Russian girls though (why don't you guys have a list of Russian girls  ), so I was hoping to find one of those.

Russians come on Holiday visas so dont stay long enough, imagine not worth the while.  I wish there were Eskimo prossies personally !

Why not search on AW for Russian and check the reviews here by searching by number !

[marketmaker]

Russians come on Holiday visas so dont stay long enough, imagine not worth the while.  I wish there were Eskimo prossies personally !

Why not search on AW for Russian and check the reviews here by searching by number !

Haha, I searched AW by Russian girls and there were 6 results...LOL.  Probably gonna have to settle with a EE/Polish hotty.  I did find one site offering a couple of girls, however I'm not really sure how reputable it is...External Link/Members Only.

[Nagilum]

Haha, I searched AW by Russian girls and there were 6 results...LOL.  Probably gonna have to settle with a EE/Polish hotty.  I did find one site offering a couple of girls, however I'm not really sure how reputable it is...External Link/Members Only.

Read my review on Aleksandra

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[hottext72]

I suggest, you choose an English girl with good reviews on this site. 

As it is your first time I would recommend a girl mid twenties, tell her it is your first time . I think you get a better experience than with a younger girl.

Price is not a guarantee for the service you get.  Well good luck 

O when you make a booking just ask her about taking pictures, she soon tell you yes or no.

[Nagilum]

I suggest, you choose an English girl with good reviews on this site. 

As it is your first time I would recommend a girl mid twenties, tell her it is your first time . I think you get a better experience than with a younger girl.

Price is not a guarantee for the service you get.  Well good luck 

O when you make a booking just ask her about taking pictures, she soon tell you yes or no.

This is why its important to pick a well reviewed girl, an unknown could take advantage of him.

[vw]

Haha, I searched AW by Russian girls and there were 6 results...LOL.  Probably gonna have to settle with a EE/Polish hotty.  I did find one site offering a couple of girls, however I'm not really sure how reputable it is...External Link/Members Only.

This Hungarian is fucking hot, really friendly, accurate age big tits, accurate photos and gutted she moved to london

External Link/Members Only

I suggest, you choose an English girl 

What a load of bollox most if the top rated are not English !

[tantric talents]

Actually thinking about it, Aleksandra would be a great first punt for you.
Pretty, experienced but fresh and youthful with a great sense of humour too.
Go for it and whatever your choice, just enjoy!   

[Sonny Crockett]

Good Luck with your first punt!!! Hope it's a good one!!!

I lost my virginity at 26 in this way!!!

[marketmaker]

This Hungarian is fucking hot, really friendly, accurate age big tits, accurate photos and gutted she moved to london

External Link/Members Only

What a load of bollox most if the top rated are not English !

The link wont work for me =/

[marketmaker]

Thanks again for all the support guys!  I'm gonna keep looking and if I decide to go ahead with a girl, I'll be sure to post a review!

[monstar]

I was thinking about Aleksandra External Link/Members Only or Emily External Link/Members Only, as they both seem to have good reviews.  I have a thing for Russian girls though (why don't you guys have a list of Russian girls  ), so I was hoping to find one of those.

Both girls with lots of positive reviews so a good chance you will enjoy - remember there are no guarantees in punting but our odds improve with a well reviewed girl.

I've seen Emily numerous times now, she is great every time and also consider Adele or Michelle if they are your type. 

[vw]

The link wont work for me =/

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

or search for username Busty+Sophie+x

[marketmaker]

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

or search for username Busty+Sophie+x

It still won't load for me, but I'll check later.  I'm also considering Sweet Amaya - I like tall girls 

[NIK]

So an expensive escort from a supposedly "elite" agency is basically the same as a 200 pound per hour girl?  Age is a concern for me, and I was hoping to find a girl around my age 19-23 (if they exist).  Would these girls be available in the 150-200 range also?  Some of the agencies were advertising 'guaranteed 20 yr olds" for 600, and I just expected that I would be paying a age premium for them, instead of adding the usual 3-5 years on their stated "age".

Indeed it is. And £200 per hour isn't cheap either.

Just in case anyone thinks either I'm slipping or you have got one over on us you are either incredibly naïve or a fucking troll.
Cut out all the 'wow' and the rest of the American / kiddy style bollocks if you want to stay around.

[marketmaker]

Indeed it is. And £200 per hour isn't cheap either.

Just in case anyone thinks either I'm slipping or you have got one over on us you are either incredibly naïve or a fucking troll.
Cut out all the 'wow' and the rest of the American / kiddy style bollocks if you want to stay around.

Sorry for seeming naive, but I'm truly new to all of this.  I guess it shows.  What exactly should I avoid doing around here?

[Vivago]

With a £1k budget, I would suggest that you book a nice hotel and arrange a 2-3 hour outcall with Adele4u. That would be a mind blowing way to lose your cherry, you lucky man. She is as good as any escort on AW and doesn't mind you taking pics/vid.

[madeinwales56]

The op is 23, a virgin, obviously went to a university before he did a post grad course at a university in London and didn't get laid. How times have changed. I was shagging everything in sight when I was at university. So was everyone else. That's what it's for ffs.
Good luck fella.

[Rod trotter]

Why pay so much for your first time?

Fuck sake you will be that excited you wont last 3 minutes man.

Book a hottie, well reviewed for 30mins, quickly shag her brains out and if you managed to last 10mins fantastic.

Your second punt will be better and remember cross the line and you will more than likely be a punter forever.

[PLeisure]

As monstar suggested earlier, Michelle Independent could be ideal, esp if the OP has a preference for tall girls. Her look is more Baltic than Slavic but they're neighbouring zones. She's 24yr, and very good with comms - something to be factored in as many busy WGs cannot seem to overcome the deluge of enquiries.
OP, please take the time to consult the Punting Wiki [links below]. It's full of essential info written by key contributors here. Better than any British university course. Keep your comms friendly and polite but keep in mind a popular WG is fielding a lot of similar requests, ie. stay succint.
Most of all, have the time of your life 

[punther]

Hi all,

I'm in the situation where I have decided to lose my virginity to a call girl.  I'm currently fresh out of a postgrad program in London, and although I've been on a few dates, I've never had a girlfriend.  I have a fetish for domination/tease&tie and I was just wondering whether I should tell the escort that this is my first time.  Also, should I book from a reputable agency, or find an independent girl?  My budget is to spend a maximum of around £1,000, and I just want to ensure that I get the highest class of girl who provides a perfect first time experience with all my requirements met.  Also, does anybody know what the policy is on for pictures?  Since this would be a special occasion, I'd preferably like a picture with the girl I lost my virginity to (sort of like a trophy of sorts ).  Do high class escorts typically provide this service?

Thank you all in advance for your help and input!

I would recommend this girl based on your requirements(old profile used to be cuteblondebrit)

External Link/Members Only

[7x5]

 Sex is only a big deal if you've never had it.

A WG won't care what you look like, only that you treat them as a human being, are clean, don't mess them about and pay up, but I wouldn't advise paying anywhere near £1000, especially if you work long hours for low pay.

You will probably cum the second she even looks at you, so I wouldn't advise booking for several hours either. Try 30 mins or even an hour to give you a little bit more time to be relaxed, and save the rest of your pennies to move on and fuck someone else, because once you start fucking you wont want to stop.

As for recommendations, only you know what you do and don't like, but when you find one that you do, do a search to see if there is anything good or bad to say about them. If someone has something bad to say, bear in mind that experiences are subjective, so unless they did something absolutely horrific, don't get too hung up about it.

[NIK]

This isn't like the normal UKP respond to such a thread. Am I the only cynic left? The fact that he wants to spend so much on his first punt suggests he's incredibly naive or a troll.
His writing style doesn't help either. 

He also seems to be posting furiously about himself and ignoring any advice given thus far - again indicators of a troll.

Bottom line is he seems to be intending to spend more on his first punt than I've spent on any single punt in 35 years! I can only assume at those prices he doesn't intend to become a regular punter. 

[KJ121212]

Go to Portsmouth and see Hayley. She's in your age range, smoking hot, into dom, will treat you well and, if your lucky, she'll lock you in her cage

External Link/Members Only

[NIK]

Go to Portsmouth and see Hayley. She's in your age range, smoking hot, into dom, will treat you well and, if your lucky, she'll lock you in her cage

External Link/Members Only

Two questions.

Will she let him out though?
and
why aren't there any young English prossies like this near me? 

[overdone]

I've not looked for reviews on any of the following - this is just from doing a London search under £150 & picked 3 that I like the look of in the photos.

External Link/Members Only £110 - she looks like Grace on the main site.
External Link/Members Only £100
External Link/Members Only £100

[bilbo]

Go to Portsmouth and see Hayley. She's in your age range, smoking hot, into dom, will treat you well and, if your lucky, she'll lock you in her cage

External Link/Members Only

You beat me to it ,book three hours though it's the best value 

It would give the OP chance to experience a wider range of her skills from GFE right through to sub slut

[Thepacifist]

I lost my V to a kamer girl in the Amsterdam RLD @ 18. I'll warn you now it's a slippery slope. Be prepared to be a punter. I understand your predicament. 18 years was long enough for me. I wish you luck, do plenty of research reading reviews. I don't know anything about BDSM etc, I've heard good things about a place in Earls court though, the retreat? Confirm the services before handing over the £, especially if you want a picture. They may charge you extra for this. Don't forget to have fun 

[tantric talents]

You are acting like a kid with a bag of sweets who has never tasted sugar.
I am beginning to come round to Nik's analysis .
And if you are in the trading markets how do you expect to succeed if you don't just make a decision, get on with it and commit!

[NIK]

You are acting like a kid with a bag of sweets who has never tasted sugar.
I am beginning to come round to Nik's analysis .
And if you are in the trading markets how do you expect to succeed if you don't just make a decision, get on with it and commit!

I haven't spent five and a half years on here without learning something. 

[Snoozy]

23 y.o and a virgin, if you spent less time looking and be a little more impulsive you would have had your hole by now.

[vw]

I haven't spent five and a half years on here without learning something. 

Well he better hurry up, those suicide bombers in Belgium are expecting some virgins !   

[Sonny Crockett]

Sex is only a big deal if you've never had it.

A WG won't care what you look like, only that you treat them as a human being, are clean, don't mess them about and pay up, but I wouldn't advise paying anywhere near £1000, especially if you work long hours for low pay.

You will probably cum the second she even looks at you, so I wouldn't advise booking for several hours either. Try 30 mins or even an hour to give you a little bit more time to be relaxed, and save the rest of your pennies to move on and fuck someone else, because once you start fucking you wont want to stop.

As for recommendations, only you know what you do and don't like, but when you find one that you do, do a search to see if there is anything good or bad to say about them. If someone has something bad to say, bear in mind that experiences are subjective, so unless they did something absolutely horrific, don't get too hung up about it.

Good way of putting it. Although some WGs can be very judgmental and treat punters with disrespect.

[Swansea lad]

Taking the question as genuine.

I would book a load of £80-100 punts and get some experience over a few week period.

 

[latecomer]

Welcome to the Forum, marketmaker and I hope you find what you're looking for.  At the risk of repeating what others have already said, I would go for a girl who is well reviewed on here.  Choosing an English native speaker should ensure no communications issues.  I would agree that a girl in her 20s might be ideal but so might a slighter older woman for a first time.  My advice would be to search AW for women that particularly say they welcome nervous or first timers.  Also I've always found that one who lists Disabled clients in their Likes list is more likely to treat any new client with respect.

Finally, don't spend too much.  There are two schools of thought on this Forum: one that says the more you pay the better the experience, the other which says the price they charge bears no relation to the quality you'll get.  For what it's worth, my experience puts me firmly in the second one.  Anyway, good luck and let us know how it goes.

[marketmaker]

Thank you all for your help. 

I've read the wiki, and I've searched for some of the reviews of girls I am interested in.  The 1000 pound budget wasn't meant to be construed as a "I must spend it all" amount, but rather a upper bound for my visit.  After reading through many posts on this forum, I've become more educated with regards to pricing matters. 

I've decided to book either Anna Leigh External Link/Members Only or Chloestone External Link/Members Only for my first visit sometime in the next fortnight.  I'm still deciding between the two, but overall reviews of these two girls on this site seem to be positive.  The only hesitation I have is that Anna might not allow photos and that Chloe seems to be a fairly large girl.  I'll also take all of your advice about my first time and book a shorter visit. 

Once again, I'd like to thank all the gentlemen on this forum for their input and advice.  If I've violated the rules in any way, I apologize.  Feel free to delete this thread if I've broken any rules - I've accomplished my purpose here. 

[vw]

Once again, I'd like to thank all the gentlemen on this forum for their input and advice.  If I've violated the rules in any way, I apologize.  Feel free to delete this thread if I've broken any rules - I've accomplished my purpose here.

Cheeky bastard you have not accomplished everything.  A man's word is his bond , what about this statement you made?

I'll be sure to post a review!

Your time here is not finished !   

Good luck anyhow !

[Sonny Crockett]

Thank you all for your help. 

I've read the wiki, and I've searched for some of the reviews of girls I am interested in.  The 1000 pound budget wasn't meant to be construed as a "I must spend it all" amount, but rather a upper bound for my visit.  After reading through many posts on this forum, I've become more educated with regards to pricing matters. 

I've decided to book either Anna Leigh External Link/Members Only or Chloestone External Link/Members Only for my first visit sometime in the next fortnight.  I'm still deciding between the two, but overall reviews of these two girls on this site seem to be positive.  The only hesitation I have is that Anna might not allow photos and that Chloe seems to be a fairly large girl. 

Once again, I'd like to thank all the gentlemen on this forum for their input and advice.  If I've violated the rules in any way, I apologize.  Feel free to delete this thread if I've broken any rules - I've accomplished my purpose here.

Good Luck!!