To the married / in a relationship men of this board:
Do you seek WGs because her at home doesn't provide you with what you want, or because you seek a variety of different women?
It would be interesting to know how many there are in each camp.
Since arrival of child, we've had sex 3 times in as many years. I did punt a little bit before that (just getting ow in parlors once or twice, not really sure why, I just felt compelled to do it.). However, I got sick of waiting so decided to take matters on my own initiative, and have been with 20 different girls since then.
She's started to show some interest again recently, but I'm a lot less keen nowadays, since I discovered the variety that punting offers. Also because I know she wants another child, which is something I'd rather gouge my own eyes out with a spoon than undergo again, certainly as things stand now.
I've considered getting casual sex from dating sites, but that strike me as far riskier in terms of discovery than punting.
There's a lot else I enjoy - the control of telling someone what I like, trying different kinks with no emotional repercussions if they don't walk out. I also get a kick from the clandestine, forbidden nature of it. It's also very useful for a man in a marriage because it removes the ability of a wife to use sex as an emotional bargaining chip. If she does or doesn't I don't really care.
In short I'm a narcissistic misanthrope with an addictive personality.
Something else that occurred to me yesterday after a particularly fun session - my first sexual experience was with a sexually aggressive older girl who was into anything and everything. That's set the bar very high, and most of my subsequent "normal" sexual relationships have been underwhelming by comparison. In some ways, I've been trying to recreate that initial 'high', and with punting I have once or twice succeeded.