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Author Topic: Why do guys punt? And how would your wife/girlfriend react if she found out?  (Read 5322 times)

Offline Matium

If a boy that I was exclusively dating had to find fulfilment in WGs then to me it basically shows that I'm not enough for them. That's what it boils down to: men see girls like us if their lady of the house doesn't provide them with what they need.

Does this apply to you? Do you punt because your wife/girlfriend doesn't do what you want in bed?

If I'm not enough for a man that I'd devoted myself to in the civilian world then he isn't worth my time.

Is this how your wife/girlfriend would react if she found out?




Offline Lurtz

My very first punt was after visiting my new girlfriend who got me all excited but wouldn't 'relieve my tension'. On the way home I decided to visit a lady of the night (early evening actually).

Offline Outcallguy

Men always seek variety.
No matter how good  something is we are always hoping for better (or just different)

All advertising for men focuses on NEW.

Even having had the most mindblowing sex recently, my first thought was "can I repeat that experience with a different lady"
Which I have to admit is an odd thought to have.

Offline Matium

I punt because I've had several disasters with civvy girls in my personal life, I've had disasters with WGs too but not quite so ruinously expensively!

For me the most important thing in punting is the fact that WGs let you do things to them that civvy girls won't!

 :diablo:

Offline spz1234

I'm currently single and have no desire to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in one. So an odd occasional visit to an escort is preferable to the hit and miss, and still expensive, one night stand game.

If I was in a relationship...well, cross that bridge when it comes to it.

Men always seek variety.
No matter how good  something is we are always hoping for better (or just different)

All advertising for men focuses on NEW.

Even having had the most mindblowing sex recently, my first thought was "can I repeat that experience with a different lady"
Which I have to admit is an odd thought to have.

Not true for me - if I was getting it at home I wouldnt punt or look

Offline Sailormack

I punt because I've had several disasters with civvy girls in my personal life, I've had disasters with WGs too but not quite so ruinously expensively!

For me the most important thing in punting is the fact that WGs let you do things to them that civvy girls won't!

 :diablo:

Like pay them in cash instead of goods  :rose:

Offline haystacks79

No wife or girlfriend to worry about here, and I've been single for a long time now, following a nasty experience in the past that left me unable to trust in a relationship, and kind of scared of sex in general. Not a good place to be. Time has been a healer though, and I got into this as a way of getting over the past, gaining a bit more confidence etc. before thinking about the possibility of a relationship again in the future. As such I'm not looking for variety or to fulfil any particular fantasies, instead choosing to see just a couple of girls that I've now had chance to get to know a bit, and feel comfortable and relaxed with.

Many reasons why I punt but I started because of a complete lack of sex in my teens and I wanted to make up for lost time. I was / am hopeless with women, shy and awkward so the nightclub scene was always a non starter for me.
To this day, I am pretty hopeless in bed & suffer badly with premature ejaculation - something which really bothers me and would likely annoy a sexual partner but, never worries a WG.
My only issue is that punting is a very expensive experience and when I have a poor punt, it leaves me feeling quite low. Fortunately, I have enjoyed several good punts recently  :rolleyes:

Offline Gooner4Life

Because I am a deviant and Mrs Missionary only would stab me in the heart if I asked to do the things I do with working girls. Anybody know a good lawyer ?

Offline Kitty

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To the married / in a relationship men of this board:

Do you seek WGs because her at home doesn't provide you with what you want, or because you seek a variety of different women?

It would be interesting to know how many there are in each camp.

Offline Gooner4Life

It is harsh to say I see girls because she doesn't provide me with what I want. I have a lovely house, 2 beautiful girls and she is a wonderful mother. However, ask her to take it up the bum or swallow my man juice and she wouldn't talk to me for a month. I would never have an affair, because they would be an emotional attachment and I only have that with my wife. With working girls, it is purely a financial and physical affair, no emotion.

Well Kitty
i punt because i dont get anything at home probably at most 10 times in 8 years and all very vanilla ,
requests for stockings or spending the night in a hotel  brands me a pervert ...

To the married / in a relationship men of this board:

Do you seek WGs because her at home doesn't provide you with what you want, or because you seek a variety of different women?

It would be interesting to know how many there are in each camp.
both!

Offline Sarahs Back

It is harsh to say I see girls because she doesn't provide me with what I want. I have a lovely house, 2 beautiful girls and she is a wonderful mother. However, ask her to take it up the bum or swallow my man juice and she wouldn't talk to me for a month. I would never have an affair, because they would be an emotional attachment and I only have that with my wife. With working girls, it is purely a financial and physical affair, no emotion.
It's for this reason that I have no moral issue with what I do
Some one once said to me... " I'm not just paying you for the act, I'm also paying you to walk away afterwards....
I liked that comment

I'm single atm and I wouldn't punt if i was with someone but that's me, i'm not here to judge others.  :drinks:

Offline enzio

TBH I thought I punted because the wife wasn't giving me any

Then thinking about it harder that isn't completely true.  I do get it from the wife once in a while.  But its with the same woman who I have been with for a fair few years now, in the same way we have done it for so many years (it was great at the start and then as time went by it became only the way she wanted it and when she wanted it), with whom I go through the same mundane tasks with day in, day out and spend each day devoting our lives to our children.  Just once in a while it is nice to be selfish, take a step out of that lifestyle, travel somewhere else and spend a little time being pampered by or having a great time with someone completely different who I know I will not have anything else to do with once that day is over.  If my wife was a little more open minded in the sex department I would really encourage her to do the same thing and would have no problem with it.

I truly do not know how she would react if she ever found out.  I guess she wouldn't be pleased.

Offline toomuchfun

To the married / in a relationship men of this board:

Do you seek WGs because her at home doesn't provide you with what you want, or because you seek a variety of different women?

It would be interesting to know how many there are in each camp.

Since arrival of child, we've had sex 3 times in as many years.    I did punt a little bit before that (just getting ow in parlors once or twice, not really sure why, I just felt compelled to do it.).  However, I got sick of waiting so decided to take matters on my own initiative, and have been with 20 different girls since then.

She's started to show some interest again recently, but I'm a lot less keen nowadays, since I discovered the variety that punting offers.  Also because I know she wants another child, which is something I'd rather gouge my own eyes out with a spoon than undergo again, certainly as things stand now.

I've considered getting casual sex from dating sites, but that strike me as far riskier in terms of discovery than punting.

There's a lot else I enjoy - the control of telling someone what I like, trying different kinks with no emotional repercussions if they don't walk out. I also get a kick from the clandestine, forbidden nature of it.  It's also very useful for a man in a marriage because it removes the ability of a wife to use sex as an emotional bargaining chip.    If she does or doesn't I don't really care.

In short I'm a narcissistic misanthrope with an addictive personality.

Something else that occurred to me yesterday after a particularly fun session - my first sexual experience was with a sexually aggressive older girl who was into anything and everything.  That's set the bar very high, and most of my subsequent "normal" sexual relationships have been underwhelming by comparison.  In some ways,  I've been trying to recreate that initial 'high', and with punting I have once or twice succeeded.





« Last Edit: November 03, 2012, 11:21:40 PM by toomuchfun »

I'm single atm and I wouldn't punt if i was with someone but that's me, i'm not here to judge others.  :drinks:

Same here. Reason why I am single is that ladies look at me as a "Mr Nice Guy", always here to listen to your problems, but with whom any form of sex or relationships are off limits! So until I find the 'perle rare' who is waiting for a caring & trustworthy partner like me, I try to diversify my sexual experiences with women of different shapes, colours and skills, and punting is giving me the variety I am looking for. Enjoying it so far  :yahoo:

Offline what-a man

To the married / in a relationship men of this board:

Do you seek WGs because her at home doesn't provide you with what you want, or because you seek a variety of different women?

It would be interesting to know how many there are in each camp.

As for me before I got married, I found it difficult to stick to one woman. So when I got married, an affair was out of the question as I would loose everything if the wife found out. The sex became boring and monotonous and less frequent after the birth of my first child and added to that there are certain sexual acts she would not dream of doing so to get what I need without any attachment I see WGs. If I was not seeing WGs, I'd have gone mad by now and to be honest even if she starts doing all what I do with WGs, I wont stop seeing WGs coz I am just a selfish bastard who wants to eat his cake and have it.
« Last Edit: November 04, 2012, 05:21:10 AM by what-a man »

Offline Kitty

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To those of you who do have a wife who does what you like but you seek variety... just out of curiosity why did you marry in the first place?

To those of you who do have a wife who does what you like but you seek variety... just out of curiosity why did you marry in the first place?


people change

Offline Wayang

just out of curiosity why did you marry in the first place?

Why indeed but i guess the response could run to several hundred pages.  Funnily enough regular sex might not be in the top ten reasons!

To those of you who do have a wife who does what you like but you seek variety... just out of curiosity why did you marry in the first place?

Simple - by the time you realise you're sucked in so to speak , then the collateral damage (financial, kids, others around you etc ) of a break up or an affair makes that a no no too , so you're left with punting - no emotional ties and a relatively low chance of getting caught whist you still satisfy your sex drive etc , the only downside other than shit punts is the cost to your wallet.

Blackburnian

Offline Crackpott

To be blunt, I would suggest any woman who asked this question in the first place simply doesnt know or understand man.



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