Mate, I may be smarter and nicer than most people, but I don't often have time for pleasantries which hide sincere thoughts or the patience to speak to people as if they were a child. I'm honest and blunt, to save time I swear a lot, which pisses a lot of people off. As such my intentions are often misunderstood.
It should have gone without saying that when I was talking about feedback, I was talking about AdultWork feedback, when I was talking about reviews, I was talking about UKP reviews. The two are clearly not the same thing, especially when AdultWork refers to their reviews as field reports.
Your post irked me somewhat as it is quoting almost word for word many recent AW feedbacks of a popular WG I have seen on many occasions, of such many of the AW feedbacks were my own. More to the point, your behavior is that of a previously banned member known to use several accounts to try to drum up business or fuck people over on their white knight crusade. Cliche or not, you do not get to decide what one person has to say, think or feel about another though you are well within you right to grumble about it, and I'm well wiithin mine to not give a fuck.
Now it may be just due to stress, I could be being paranoid, or on the rare occasion I could be mistaken, if which case I am sorry, but it could be that the aforementioned person is dumber than a second coat of paint given as they call people from their work telephones without using a withheld number, replicate a similar posting style and strike up seemingly innocuous but actually quite specific conversations out of the blue.
As for 'treat them nice' - Buddha says don't be a cunt. As someone who grew up in a household with domestic violence and had relatives who have suffered emotional abuse, I find the slapping and such to be somewhat disrespectful. Any man who hits, forces, coerces, stalks, or otherwise negatively manipulates a woman or treats than as anything less than a person is no man in my book.
Gosh.
In my posts here I always aim to be general ... polite ... and careful ... because there are a few quite fierce people here, and, like most people, I try to avoid provoking ferocity.
To answer your points.
It should have gone without saying that when I was talking about feedback, I was talking about AdultWork feedback, when I was talking about reviews, I was talking about UKP reviews. The two are clearly not the same thing, especially when AdultWork refers to their reviews as field reports.I misunderstood. I thought you were referring to "feedback" / reviews on here. Mea culpa.
Your post irked me somewhat as it is quoting almost word for word many recent AW feedbacks of a popular WG I have seen on many occasions, of such many of the AW feedbacks were my own. I've just checked your two reviews on UKP, and see they both relate to the north, so I assume that applies also to your AW feedbacks. I live near the south coast. It's therefore inconceivable that I've ever read any AW feedbacks you've left, unless either you travel in my area, or the particular escort you mention sometimes works in my area, or both.
More to the point, your behavior is that of a previously banned member known to use several accounts to try to drum up business or fuck people over on their white knight crusade. I can assure you that this is the one and only profile I have ever had on UKP.
Cliche or not, you do not get to decide what one person has to say, think or feel about another though you are well within you right to grumble about it, and I'm well wiithin mine to not give a fuck.
Fair point. Free speech all round. However I couched my remarks in mild and light-hearted terms, and I'm a little taken aback that they have been taken so personally.
Now it may be just due to stress, I could be being paranoid, or on the rare occasion I could be mistaken, if which case I am sorry, but it could be that the aforementioned person is dumber than a second coat of paint given as they call people from their work telephones without using a withheld number, replicate a similar posting style and strike up seemingly innocuous but actually quite specific conversations out of the blue.I repeat that I am who I am, and haven't got the time, energy or temperament for the kind of contortions in which your "adversary" indulges.
As for 'treat them nice' - Buddha says don't be a cunt. As someone who grew up in a household with domestic violence and had relatives who have suffered emotional abuse, I find the slapping and such to be somewhat disrespectful. Any man who hits, forces, coerces, stalks, or otherwise negatively manipulates a woman or treats than as anything less than a person is no man in my book.Here, with respect, I think you've missed my point. I know I'm not the only person here who dislikes "Treat her well, guys!" in feedback. I would assume that all UKP members automatically treat
every girl they meet with respect and decency, even if the girl turns out to be less attractive or less skilled than they might have hoped. The implication of "Treat her well, guys!" is that, unless we were given this encouragement, we might not treat her well – or, alternatively, that we should treat her better than we treat other, lesser girls who don't "deserve" to be treated as well because they don't give as much satisfaction.
