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ALyons

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For adults, the average penis size is about 14-16cm (5.5-6.3 inches) when erect. The average girth for an erect penis is 12-13cm (4.7-5.1 inches).

A penis would only be considered unusually small if it was less than 3 inches (7.6cm) long when erect.

The measurements are based on a review of 50 studies on penis size conducted since 1942, which between them have measured 11,531 penises.

The review was carried out by Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield.

Men unsatisfied:

Regardless of actual size, many men are still unhappy with the size of their manhood.

Professor Wylie's report examined the results of an internet-based survey of more than 50,000 men and women, which revealed that 45% of men would like a larger penis. His report concluded that excessive concerns about penis size were higher among men with average-sized penises than men with small ones.

What women think:

Professor Wylie's report also found differences between what women and men think. A much higher percentage of women (85%) were satisfied with their partner's penis size than the percentage of men (55%) who were satisfied with their own penis size.

According to Professor Wylie, the issue of attractiveness to women is complex. However, most studies suggest that penis size is much lower down the list of priorities for women than such issues as a man's personality and grooming.

Professor Wylie says: "It may come as a surprise to some young men, but most women have very little interest in the size of their penis and that's been shown in numerous studies over time."
He says research shows that when it comes to sex, women are much more interested in whether you are romantic, tender and sensitive to their needs and desires than your penis size.


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So why are men so concerned with penis sizes? If you have a 6 inch cock it's plenty for most women.

Is it to do with porn? I am confused.

Offline Nagilum

Mainly porn and that society always demands bigger is better.

It's also an ego thing.

ALyons

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Right but why? I mean you can't change your penis size (at least I don't think you can) so why be so self-aware of it?

Offline cueball

Better to have a busy little un than a lazy big un, That's what I've always told myself anyway  :D

Me and my little pal have been on some right adventures over the years  :D

Offline Moresomes

Three inches is perfectly adequate.
An inch in, an inch out, and an inch to bob up and down with.

Offline threechilliman

Tape measure at the ready, but where exactly do you measure from?  :lol:

tcm

Offline Sonny Crockett

I couldn't care less about my penis size. :unknown: I'm more bothered about long it stays hard!! That is more important!!

Long lasting hardness (especially when wearing the dreaded condom) = better performance!! :yahoo:
« Last Edit: February 29, 2016, 08:32:27 pm by Sonny Crockett »

Offline Mr Garmin

For adults, the average penis size is about 14-16cm (5.5-6.3 inches) when erect. The average girth for an erect penis is 12-13cm (4.7-5.1 inches).

A penis would only be considered unusually small if it was less than 3 inches (7.6cm) long when erect.

The measurements are based on a review of 50 studies on penis size conducted since 1942, which between them have measured 11,531 penises.

The review was carried out by Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield.


Men unsatisfied:

Regardless of actual size, many men are still unhappy with the size of their manhood.

Professor Wylie's report examined the results of an internet-based survey of more than 50,000 men and women, which revealed that 45% of men would like a larger penis. His report concluded that excessive concerns about penis size were higher among men with average-sized penises than men with small ones.

What women think:

Professor Wylie's report also found differences between what women and men think. A much higher percentage of women (85%) were satisfied with their partner's penis size than the percentage of men (55%) who were satisfied with their own penis size.

According to Professor Wylie, the issue of attractiveness to women is complex. However, most studies suggest that penis size is much lower down the list of priorities for women than such issues as a man's personality and grooming.

Professor Wylie says: "It may come as a surprise to some young men, but most women have very little interest in the size of their penis and that's been shown in numerous studies over time."
He says research shows that when it comes to sex, women are much more interested in whether you are romantic, tender and sensitive to their needs and desires than your penis size.


Source: NHS: External Link/Members Only
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So why are men so concerned with penis sizes? If you have a 6 inch cock it's plenty for most women.

Is it to do with porn? I am confused.



Do we think that his surname is pronounced willy  :lol:
« Last Edit: February 29, 2016, 08:54:46 pm by Mr Garmin »

Offline reddevil93

I couldn't care less about my penis size. :unknown: I'm more bothered about long it stays hard!! That is more important!!

Long lasting hardness (especially when wearing the dreaded condom) = better performance!! :yahoo:

And I thought that I was the only one who struggles to stay hard with condom on  :yahoo:

charming_red

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Porn has created the false belief that a larger penis is more aesthetic and more capable of satisfying a woman.

vt

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A lot of average-sized women want bigger boobs, a lot average-sized blokes wished they had bigger cocks...I suppose both are viewed as measures of their respective femenine and masculine sexual attractiveness.

But in reality, big boobs give back trouble and big cocks can cause pain during intercourse...I'm glad most girls can take my full average length to the hilt without wincing!  :D


Offline Nagilum

A lot of average-sized women want bigger boobs, a lot average-sized blokes wished they had bigger cocks...I suppose both are viewed as measures of their respective femenine and masculine sexual attractiveness.

But in reality, big boobs give back trouble and big cocks can cause pain during intercourse...I'm glad most girls can take my full average length to the hilt without wincing!  :D

Also the bigger the more difficult it is to get it rock hard, what's the point of a big semi hard schlong

Offline freeze44

Most of the time I'm ok with mine...it works and feels good in my hand!  :D The only time I really feel a bit at a disadvantage is when getting changed after football and in the showers and some guys have huge ones knocking about and, even though trying not to look!, I would suggest that its true what they say about black men having whoopers!

Offline uutarn

Grass is always greener innit?

Its a human trait to crave what you haven't got rather than be happy with what you have.

Personally i'm nothing special in any way but i've always been happy with my wash, plenty people worse off than me.

bristolqwerty

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I've got a big car ~ does this count?  :unknown:

Offline freeze44

I've got a big car ~ does this count?  :unknown:

 :lol:I say it does...I got a car with a huge bonnet which basically tells the world I have a large and lengthy one!

bristolqwerty

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:lol:I say it does...I got a car with a huge bonnet which basically tells the world I have a large and lengthy one!
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D
Is this the plate?
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ramrodronnie

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And I thought that I was the only one who struggles to stay hard with condom on  :yahoo:


I think condoms play a big part with many men when it comes to maintaining a boner. I know they're a necessity, but they sure are a passion killer for many of us. Definitely psychological IMO.

Offline Kenaldo

This makes me laugh because sometimes you never know how big or small or average you are.

I've had two punts in the last week. The first is a reg of mine who gives me the 'that's a fair size / I couldn't sit on that' etc.

The second who isn't a reg said (as I was doing her from behind) 'it feels bigger than it looks'!

I didn't know whether to laugh, be proud or just cry!




bristolqwerty

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Definitely psychological IMO.
All in the head  :crazy:

Offline Marmalade

If you have an excessively small one you're more likely to be neurotic.
If you have (I didn't know this before looking it up) an excessively large one, you are more likely to be gay!
Large penises are psychologically assiciated with stamina, power (male pecking order stuff).
In a study, women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-off partners but not for long-term.
Pro$$ies prefer men who disburse large amounts of cashwad to ones that haggle over the price barely notice cock size unless it causes them an inconvenience before you leave, or spunk volume unless it goes in their eye.

Studies for the above other than the last one, which obvious to all except fantasists and fluffyfucks.  :hi:
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Ok, OP, now tell us the size of your weener...  :music:

Offline Marmalade

Also the bigger the more difficult it is to get it rock hard, what's the point of a big semi hard schlong
Not a factor if you take dem big hard happy pills tho'

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Offline nigel4498

Three inches is perfectly adequate.
An inch in, an inch out, and an inch to bob up and down with.
Three inches, you lucky bastard.

Offline Blackpool Rock

Three inches is perfectly adequate.
An inch in, an inch out, and an inch to bob up and down with.
Yeah mine is 3 inches but some girls don't even like it that thick  :hi:

Offline Sonny Crockett

Right but why? I mean you can't change your penis size (at least I don't think you can) so why be so self-aware of it?

 :thumbsup:

Offline Blackpool Rock

I do remember watching some documentary about penis size a few years ago and the alleged average 6 inches was called into question with the implication being when asked directly most guys added on an inch or so to save embarrassment.
I have to say when changing in the gym it's "all guys together" and without looking you can't help but notice most guys aren't much to talk about which makes me feel a whole lot better about myself, the guys who clearly take roids always make me laugh as they seem a bit shy about getting showered

Think there are cultural differences with black guys tending to have slightly larger cocks and asians being slightly smaller.

I always used to sweat the fact i wasn't huge when i was younger which wasn't helped by the fact some close mates were well reported to be 8 inches and took the piss accordingly which majorly fucked my self esteem etc with girls as a teenager and into my 20's.
Still wish I was larger however like others have said providing it works and I can punt a fit girl 20-25 years younger than me then  :thumbsup: while my mates are getting next to no action with a fat munter, I love karma
 

ramrodronnie

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Many women would tell you that it's not the size of your dick that matters. It's more down to foreplay, exiting the girl quite a lot by caressing, licking, stroking, and being good with your tongue on her clitoris/pussy, also french kissing before penetration. It is generally much better to slowly build the woman up with foreplay, then you will generally find that the sex is much better afterwards.

Offline Stiltskin

A penis would only be considered unusually small if it was less than 3 inches (7.6cm) long when erect.

Thanks for that! I've spent years trying to convince myself I was average. Now you tell me my 2 and a half incher is 'unusually small'. FFS!  :cry:

Being serious now, I'd just like to make it clear to everyone on this forum that I'm actually over endowed. Very important for you all to know that. In case there was any doubt, it's like a skinned rabbit down there.


Offline GreyDave

 :hi: On one of those rare times when I felt rather pleased with my self a WG complimented me :cool: and asked if I had seen a TV documentary on the Greeks and Romans ...it had said shown in the art of the time  barbarians have bigger cocks and are uncultured :D ...result...  I am now pleased to say I have a cock of "Classical" proportions  ;)  (tiddler) At a swingers do a while ago I was told by a woman I aint playing with anyone under 8 inches..

I did see her being shagged later by a few BBC guys so... with some girls Big and slow is preferable to small and quick... ( a bit like Yachts  ;) ;)
« Last Edit: March 01, 2016, 08:32:44 am by GreyDave »

ALyons

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So six inches should be about minimum to pleasure a girl?

7x5

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So six inches should be about minimum to pleasure a girl?

There is no minimum number of inches to pleasure a girl, most of it is done through chemistry and foreplay and how you make use of your size afterwards. If the girl cums before you even penetrate her, you can keep her orgasm rolling for a while no matter what size you dick is.

But depending on the girl, there is a maximum number of inches which can cause some considerable discomfort depending on how deep you go and how hard you thrust it. They generally tend to handle a wide girth better than long length.
« Last Edit: March 01, 2016, 10:20:49 am by 7x5 »

5th Musketeer

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Many women would tell you that it's not the size of your dick that matters. It's more down to foreplay, exiting the girl quite a lot by caressing, licking, stroking, and being good with your tongue on her clitoris/pussy, also french kissing before penetration. It is generally much better to slowly build the woman up with foreplay, then you will generally find that the sex is much better afterwards.
"It matters not who won or lost, but how you played the game"  - anyone remember that?  If so, it shows your age :)

ramrodronnie

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"It matters not who won or lost, but how you played the game"  - anyone remember that?  If so, it shows your age :)


The points that I made bore no reference to who wins, or loses 5th Musketeer. My comment/s were relating to foreplay. I woman can be made to cum from foreplay alone, which is why I said that foreplay is important.

5th Musketeer

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The points that I made bore no reference to who wins, or loses 5th Musketeer. My comment/s were relating to foreplay. I woman can be made to cum from foreplay alone, which is why I said that foreplay is important.
RRR - I was just making an amusing reference, because you are absolutely right: Foreplay works and is most important, hence my reference to "how you played the game" - it's from Beyond the Fringe.  No criticism of you or your post was intended, I was just hoping for a laugh - or a smile - when you recognized the quote.

Offline johnstrong

Penis size...at my age, I'm just happy to get an erection.