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Author Topic: Social stigma of being a punter.  (Read 4394 times)

Offline Attention69

I am a single guy and all the ladies I know look down on all men that use the sex industry. Some of the stuff they say is too hurtful to properly repeat on here. How do you guys deal with it?


I am a single guy and all the ladies I know look down on all men that use the sex industry. Some of the stuff they say is too hurtful to properly repeat on here. How do you guys deal with it?

DPS/Insomnia ?

Offline jackdaw

Don't admit anything!

Ye, that's rule no 1.

But... there's also the thought: in reality it almost never comes up in conversation! For example, I worked in places for over 30 years where majority of personnel were women, and talked with many over a massive range of subjects over that period.

 Number of times that wide range of women talked about their contempt for guys using WG's?? Well... never. Certainly be interested if other people's experience is very different.

Offline k

Ye, that's rule no 1.

But... there's also the thought: in reality it almost never comes up in conversation! For example, I worked in places for over 30 years where majority of personnel were women, and talked with many over a massive range of subjects over that period.

 Number of times that wide range of women talked about their contempt for guys using WG's?? Well... never. Certainly be interested if other people's experience is very different.
That is my experience too.

A lot of women dream about being a call girl and swept away by a handsome millionaire  :lol:

I have known girls like the film and have said to me they would love to try it for the thrill without me mentioning the subject - just because of the film

Offline Matium

I am a single guy and all the ladies I know look down on all men that use the sex industry. Some of the stuff they say is too hurtful to properly repeat on here. How do you guys deal with it?

If you're a single guy then you face no problems.

If you go to a place like Mumsnet, you'll see that the fury is directed at married men.

Married men stand to lose everything they have if their wives ever found out about their hobby, that's why married men have to be extremely discreet.

However, as a single man you have nothing to lose.

Offline Sarahs Back

A lot of women dream about being a call girl and swept away by a handsome millionaire  :lol:

I have known girls like the film and have said to me they would love to try it for the thrill without me mentioning the subject - just because of the film
and its not just the film.... a lot has to do with being chosen (low self esteem) .... and not only that, that you are good enough for someone to part with money for....
its a was a fantasy of mine since I was 15.. but didn't do this till I was about 30...
had I of read this site first I would never have done it......
and who knows maybe the handsome millionaire might just come and sweep me off my feet!!! :D :D :D :D :D :D nah! he probably snores!

Offline Ali Katt

I've never mentioned it in conversation. I have heard guys say: "at least I don't need to pay for it" as a joke - not to me. I think how many have fucked genuinely beautiful women as opposed to their bovine or swine like girlfriends\wives.

 I work in an industry that's quite tolerant of various vices being out in the open, and the topic has come up. Various people have admitted it with no bad consequences. One guy in particular is very proud of a threesome he had abroad on a special occasion. I still prefer to keep my punting habits under wrap as it is seen as a bit seedy and I don't need to project that image, even though I really like having sex with prostitutes and feel no guilt about it.

Offline philuk1uk

No potential partner needs to know in my opinion.  At some point in a relationship, we might get to the point of discussing my sexual likes, my sexual history, things i've done, things i'd like to try, but never ever would I discuss my previous sexual partners and I doubt any woman wants to know about the girls who've been my sexual partners.

Offline Matium

If a guy strikes up a relationship with a girl then it is probable that an average, normal civvy girl will have had multiple partners. What she's done in the past, and vice versa, is irrelevant to their future relationship together.

Of course, if they have a relationship and get married and he still continues to see prostitutes then she will clobber him if she ever finds out, which is why married men have to remain extremely discreet.

Offline Jimmyredcab

A lot of women dream about being a call girl and swept away by a handsome millionaire  :lol:

The reality is that they end up meeting skanky old cab drivers.   :D

Tony Montana

...
and who knows maybe the handsome millionaire might just come and sweep me off my feet!!!

Sorry Sarah, I'm already taken.

Offline Ali Katt

If a guy strikes up a relationship with a girl then it is probable that an average, normal civvy girl will have had multiple partners. What she's done in the past, and vice versa, is irrelevant to their future relationship together.

Of course, if they have a relationship and get married and he still continues to see prostitutes then she will clobber him if she ever finds out, which is why married men have to remain extremely discreet.
If a punter entered a serious relationship and maybe even gave up punting would he admit to the woman he has sex with over 100 women - she would want to know why. I think it's age and background dependent, but I think most women and men are probably just into double figure by say the age of 30 or so.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I am a single guy and all the ladies I know look down on all men that use the sex industry. Some of the stuff they say is too hurtful to properly repeat on here. How do you guys deal with it?

Me personally, I don't give two shits what people think of me, I am proud to be a punter.   :drinks:

Offline andrei

this reminds me of a joke i know

ask a girl "would you sleep with brad pitt for a million quid"

she answers "of course"

"would you sleep with me for twenty quid"

"of course not, thats terrible, why would you ask me that"

"well, we have established you're a whore just negotiating on price"

lol
Banning reason: Multiple accounts (andrei, london_lad_2)

Offline Matium

That joke originated from a true story about George Bernard Shaw and an actress.

:)

Offline AnthG

Think of it all this way. Read this recent story

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/sexual-health-and-advice/8958520/Average-man-has-9-sexual-partners-in-lifetime-women-have-4.html

"Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4"

I have had nearly that many this year alone and I am ugly.

I do not brag about it. But if someone asked me If I have ever seen a prostitute I don't think I would deny it.

Offline Jimmyredcab



"Average man has 9 sexual partners in lifetime, women have 4"

I have had nearly that many this year alone and I am ugly.

It could be worse, you could be OLD and ugly like me.  :scare:

Offline k

That joke originated from a true story about George Bernard Shaw and an actress.

:)

Hmm, Brad Pitt is a lot older than I thought (lol)

Offline Attention69

If you're a single guy then you face no problems.

If you go to a place like Mumsnet, you'll see that the fury is directed at married men.

Married men stand to lose everything they have if their wives ever found out about their hobby, that's why married men have to be extremely discreet.

However, as a single man you have nothing to lose.

No actually this applies even for single guys. I have heard a couple of times women saying that they would never date a man that used prostitutes previously.

Offline James999

women saying that they would never date a man that used prostitutes previously.

Don't listen to your Mother  :hi:

Offline AnthG

No actually this applies even for single guys. I have heard a couple of times women saying that they would never date a man that used prostitutes previously.
And what is the reason they are giving for that?

Is it a if he uses prostitutes he mustn't respect women, or the he must have diseases from it, or is it a fear he will continue during dating? Am just curious what the issue they state with it is.

Offline Matium

No actually this applies even for single guys. I have heard a couple of times women saying that they would never date a man that used prostitutes previously.

Which women?

Why would you a single man talk to a single woman about prostitutes?

Married men feel the heat. Single men can do as they please.


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