like i said chit chat is good, but hidden flattery? imagine what the girl is thinking " oh this sad guy is trying to flirt with me,"put yourself in her shoes, would you date a man who is desperate enough to pay for sex? remember an attractive woman NEVER has to try hard for sex , she can get it from anyone, for us men it takes alot more effort, so why when she could choose anyone to date would she choose a punter? its madness
I've made a correction for you. Some of the guys on this forum are a lot more discerning than you may think, because they know if they have money they can have sex often when it's convenient for them. Most men wouldn't shag a 30 stone granny, even if it was free, so not every woman can get it from anyone.
Ditto goes for who would want to date a prossie? I wouldn't.
Not every WG can choose anyone to date. Also, this keeps coming up again (not just on this board): not every punter has to pay for sex, but they choose to - a large number of people on here are married or in a relationship.