Swingerclub Villa Palazzo near Dorsten (Germany)The swingerclub
On a Sunday in January I visited Villa Palazzo, a nicely decorated, large swingerclub with only genuine swingers. It is located in Wulfen, a village within the municipality of Dorsten, only between 30 and 45 minutes away from the Dutch-German border by car.
This club is only open on Friday, Saturday and Sunday. The themes on Friday and Saturday vary. However I would like to try out ‘Die grosse Molly special-party-night’ (focused on chubby women; whom often have big boobs) and ‘HÜ platinum night’ (Herrenüberschuss = men surplus). Every Sunday they have the same theme: ‘Erotischer Entspannungs Sonntag’ (erotic relaxation Sunday). On Sunday the club opens at 14.00 and closes at 22.00 (unlike the other days, when the club opens at 20.00 and closes at 4.00).
The club is located in some sort of industrial park on the edge of Wulfen, so there are plenty of free parking places and a lot of privacy. It is a nice, relatively new, large villa, which stands out between the factories, warehouses, etc, and has a large garden with wooden fences. This particular Sunday it was cold and rainy, so no one ventured going outside, but in the summer you can have a good time outside: going in the pool, sunbathing, eating, etc.
You enter the club via a side entrance on basement level. When I entered this building I was impressed by the quality of the interior: most clubs in Holland don’t have this level.
First there is an office, where you can pay the fee and get some information, then there are two large locker rooms and four play rooms: two normal play rooms (one of which can be closed from the inside), a large room with several matrasses on the floor for group activities (and a wall with holes in several places, through which people can watch or put something) and then there is a SM-room with a table to lie on, a small cage, a sling, a cross on the wall and several other attributes.
On the ground floor there is a bar with a large dancefloor (primarily filled with bar tables) and a large screen with porno. Adjoining there is a large, but warm, tent where the food is displayed and one can eat. There is plenty of food: at some hours they have warm food, other hours they have pies, cakes, etc. (I saw some fatties shoving several big pieces of pie through their mouths.) At the bar they serve all kinds of alcoholic and non- alcoholic beverages. Then there is a large smoking room and a room which contains a very large hot tub and a small-medium sized sauna. And then, quite close to the stairs, there is some sort of living room (with 5 couches) where one can relax and have a drink quietly. On the ground floor area I didn’t see anyone having sex. (Sex in the hot tub and sauna is clearly prohibited, according to a large sign.)
Upstairs is where most of the sex takes place. There is a large room with many matrasses where group sex took place. Next there is a room, with a small and low opening, where there is almost no light. Then there is a normal room with a bed which can be ‘closed’ with a curtain. Following, quite in an open place, there is a very large bed where people can have fun and be watched. At the end of the hall there is a room, with a red rope, only for couples and next to it is a dark room (which was completely dark, so I didn’t enter). Moreover, quite close to the stairs, there is a bathroom where one can shower.
Pictures of the accommodation from their own website:http://www.swingerclub-palazzo.com/#!ambiente/c3f3
Joyclub.de offers more pictures:http://www.joyclub.de/my/fotoalbum/1306040.swingerclub_villa_palazzo.htmlhttp://www.joyclub.de/my/fotoalbum/1306040-174971.swingerclub_villa_palazzo.html
Note that some rooms were arranged differently than shown on some pictures and the garden is completely finished now.
The price is 90 euro without a reservation and 80 with a reservation. One can make a reservation via telephone or an account on joyclub.de.
(An account on joyclub.de is quite handy, since you can see profiles of couples and single women that also made a reservation and make contact with them. Moreover they have a ‘dating’ option and you can check out almost all German swinger clubs and many private parties. Unfortunately they are quite strict, so you really need to elaborate on a lot, before they accept your account fully and you can make reservations and contact people.)Experiences
There were many people. I think close to 100 most of the time, but given the size of the accommodation it didn't feel crowded. First thing I noticed was the composition: in Holland and Belgium the vast majority consists of single men and here the majority consisted of couples: I think couples formed more than 60% of the attendees, single women around 10% and single men less than 30%. This might have something to do with the theme: relaxation, not only in the sexual sense, played a large role and it was the end of the weekend (so women might be less sexually focused than they would have been otherwise). Moreover the HÜ parties attract many men (because the price for men is significantly lower and they know that a certain kind of women attend) and NRW is the most competitive place in Europe (there are so many places where you can have guaranteed sex for little money).
Anyway, this club doesn’t have a sex guarantee and getting sex turned out to be harder than expected. Nonetheless, at the end of the day I returned home fully satisfied.
The night before I had a birthday party of a friend of mine, and I woke up with a hangover. I called to make a reservation and drove off to Germany. I arrived around 15.00, without having had something to eat or drink at all, so I immediately went to the restaurant and ate and drank something. Then I went to check out the building and activities. At that moment it was relatively quiet, so I relaxed in the hot tub for a while, ate some pie, did a few rounds, etc.
I was second guessing my decision to go, since I had barely any energy and was rather tired on one side and on the other side the couples were really focused on other couples and my intermediate German didn’t really help. But I decided to make the best of it and see where it would end, regardless.
I went for another round and saw a woman in the large room upstairs: although she was above my age limit I was really attracted to her big boobs (cup g or h). I played with her tits for a very long time. Later her husband arrived, but fortunately he didn’t disapprove. Then, while playing with her tits, she started to jerk me off and I fingered here. Since I hadn’t ejaculated for about a week, I came too quick: she increased the hand movements, and before I could suggest a different course of action, I had already come on my own stomach and legs. After a short shower I returned and she started to suck off my cock while she was lying on her back: which allowed me to push my cock inside her throat a bit. After that she sucked my cock while I was lying on my back, she put a condom over my cock and sat down on it. Seeing her tits move while she was sitting on me, fucking me, was amazing. When she realized I was close to an orgasm, she rubbed her tits over my chest while fucking me and I came very soon.
After a shower and something to eat I went to the living room and sat down on a couch (I contemplated lying down on the couch and take a nap, but I considered it too inappropriate and a bit dangerous). There weren’t many people in this room. In front of me sat a German couple in their early thirties. We talked for a while about swinger experiences and then they went to the restaurant. Later on I went to the restaurant as well and was there for over quite some time: after talking to some Germans, I noticed a Dutch couple in their late forties and it clicked immediately. Which often happens when you meet fellow countrymen abroad. They live close to the border, visit the German clubs quite frequently and had some nice stories. After talking for a while, the man suggested to his wife to have some fun with me, but unfortunately, since they had already been fucking for many hours that day and it was passed 20.00, the woman was exhausted and wanted to go home. What a bummer, because she looked great.
I left the restaurant to go look in the basement for some action. There was not much to see, so I decided to go look upstairs. Before I could leave the basement, I bumped into the couple in their early thirties that I had met earlier in the living room. The guy asked me if I was interested in having a threesome. I said yes, naturally. Although her tits are not big (b-cup), she is stunner: slim, flat (and slightly muscled) stomach, above average height and a very pretty face and long blonde hair. We went to the room in the basement that can be closed from the inside and closed the room for some privacy. The girl lied on her back in the middle of the bed. We were also on our backs. She started wanking us, while I was feeling her tits and licked her nipples (her tits, although small, turned out to be quite firm). Then her boyfriend and I fingered her for a while. After that he started to lick her pussy. All this time she was still wanking me. She noticed that I enjoyed it and she starts to jerk me off faster, until history repeats itself: I come again in the first stage!!
I clean myself with some tissues and then she continues wanking me. Shortly after that her boyfriend starts fucking her in mish without a condom and he is having a good time, given his noises and movements, while I am thinking: please don’t come inside her pussy! Fortunately he didn’t come.
I asked her if it was alright for me to fuck her. She looked a bit doubtful and she asked ‘without?’. Is said: ‘of course not, I only fuck with condom’. Then I asked her: ‘do men often ask you to fuck without?’ She said: ‘yes’. Apparently, in some circles it is necessary to state explicitly that you intend to fuck ‘with a condom’, because otherwise the woman might be surprised with a bare cock in her cunt. A funny thing is that by the way she looked while she asked it, I got some feeling that, although in principle against it, she occasionally allows it and when I wanted to have fucked here bare and played my cards rights, I might have had a fair chance.
Either way, no bare fucking for me. Her boyfriend suggested that he and his girlfriend would go in 69 position and I would fuck his girlfriend doggy style. I have never done this before and was a bit afraid that he, while licking her pussy and having his head under me, might, accidentally, touch my penis or balls. Since I was in constant anticipation of being accidentally touched, I couldn’t really enjoy this combination. Luckily he didn’t touch me, and I only felt his cheeks against my inner thighs and heard him lick like crazy. After a while he went to the other side of the bed to get sucked more conveniently and I could really have a go at it. I was fucking her hard, but since I had already come several times and doggy style is relatively difficult for me regarding getting an orgasm, it took a while before I came. The last minute was really nice: I felt it coming and was pounding her really hard, like a beast, and came very loud and pleasantly. The long build up made it even more rewarding and enjoyable. The highlight of my day. We talked for a while and I stroked her a bit. She told me that when she woke up this morning and found her top, she was surprised to notice that it contained sperm marks and she had no idea how that could have happened: a true slut.
Following this nice encounter I took a very long shower, had something to drink and left around 22.00 to drive home for a few hours. Conclusion
Overall it was a positive experience and worth my time and money. Although, next time I attend a party I will try to show up without a hangover and with more energy (which will probably make everything go much smoother).
Besides I learned a few things about the German swinger club life:
- Except for HÜ and gangbang like parties, I got the impression that many German swinger clubs in de mid and high end section have a relatively high percentage of couples attending.
- Except for HÜ and gangbang like parties, most couples focus on other couples. Therefore one really has to make an effort.
- The German language and German people. Dutch and Belgian people often have a better understanding of the English language than German people. And unlike most Belgian and Dutch people, German people tend to be less open towards other people (unless you speak near perfect German). This means even more effort. I know this is a simple generalization, but this is my experience based on many social encounters during my life. And it helps one to realize the importance of knowledge of the Germane language and culture in order to better connect. Besides when one knows it will probably be harder, one can adjust to that idea and don’t give up easily.
Since there is no sex guarantee, one should keep the above mentioned points in mind and try to act accordingly. Nonetheless, there is a not-unrealistic chance that one goes home without having had some sex.
I will probably visit this swinger club again in the future, but next time I will visit a different theme. First on my list is the HÜ party, because there the women are more focused on single men and I expect to have sex with more women more easily. Furthermore the price is significantly lower: 45 euro with reservation. And maybe I will visit the ‘Molly-party’ someday to fuck some fatties with big tits.
Although the price is 80 and everything is included, I ended up paying 85 euro. This because slippers (or similar footwear) is mandatory, so I had to rent slippers (5 euro rent and 5 euro deposit).
The interior is great, the hot tub is very nice and the food and drinks are much better than in most other places that I have been.
I got some suggestions for similar swinger clubs in the NRW region, which I will try in the future.