"So just to warn you all, Lola is a paranoid bitch. The reason she's behaving like this is because I kept talking to an ex Bi partner of hers after they fell out, so she's got the knives out for me.
This acts as a warning to any would be punter of her what she can really be like."
To me it acts as a warning to just treat a punt as a punt, review it fairly and honestly, and most of all not to get carried away in WGs business outside the hour I have paid for.
I don't need the drama.
What you say is very true Hunghertsguy. And I hold my hands up for stupidly allowing myself to get friendly with this girl. As I say, because I allowed myself to get friendly with her, "and I really do my just friendly". I was also friendly with a Bi friend of hers who she had fallen out with.
Because I continued speaking ("and I really do mean just speaking, and just friends") to her Bi friend she, Lola turned nasty toward me, and is now giving threats that she will post on UKP photo shoots of so called text messages that I sent to her.
She is threatening me this way because I spoke truthfully about her poor comms, and unreliability on here about her.
I've asked her to never contact me again, but she knows/knew my AW profile name, so now I have had to changed it due to her threatening me, and harassment, I have also had to change my mobile number for the same reasons.
If she continues, I will ask Admin to get her blocked from getting onto UKP. I have posted this to warn other punters what she can be like, and not to allow themselves to get too friendly with her, as she is the type of woman that is easy to become friendly with, as she initially comes across as a really friendly next door type of woman.
She is poisonous, and like most women who feel that they've been wronged/scorned, call it what you will. She is saying that she will now carry out these threats against me because I have told the truth about how she conducts herself as a WG
As I've said. Yes I was stupid to ever allow myself to get friendly with her, but I am human, like us all. But I can assure everyone that I wasn't obsessed with her, or have any form have of EAS towards her.
I just saw her (yes stupidly in hindsight) as a nice person, who is from Essex, I saw her as someone who that I could have a laugh and joke with, and get on well with her in a friendly way a friend. "Yes I did say as a friend, nothing more, and nothing less"
I can now see in hindsight that I was a bloody idiot to allow myself to get friendly with her, as this has now backfired on me, the whole thing was brought about because I refused to stop talking to her ex Bi friend, which angered her.
I need everyone to understand, and believe that what I have said about her being a good punt, but her comms, and her unreliability is absolutely true. I have never been anything but truthful about her at anytime.
So there you all have it, chapter and verse. It's up to everyone else how they take this information. But I felt that I had to say something so that everyone is aware of what potentially could happen to another punter, the way it is happening with me and her nasty, threatening ways.
I'm now gong to inform Admin of her threats toward me.