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Offline AnthG

I wasn't really sure of the best name for this topic. But I am curious if this has happened to others before in their punting careers and how they dealt with it if so.

Basically I have been punting for just off 5 years now, about once per month that entire time. And for my punts as soon as I come out of the room after them I have often felt like Rocky in the end of Rocky 2 when he managed to get up within the 10 seconds and Apollo didn't so he became world champion as a result.

I would have a punt, it would pick me right up, and I would immediately start looking forward to the next and the next girl to see. And I would need to force a timeline onto myself to not overspend (basically for the last three years, that was a punt once per month).

I have just came back from a punt today. And the girl was perfectly pleasant and everything else that was called from her. I also got A-Levels from her which has been my holy grail that I have rarely got in punting.

But at the end of the punt I thought to myself, you know for that money that I have just spent for that one hour. I could have bought myself an Nvidia Shield and watched 4K HEVC movies everynight for years on it.

The same goes with last months punt. Did not enjoy it at all. I rarely leave negatives. But I left that one as one.

Part of me just feels like the quality of girls doing this is at an all time low and everything is all due to this. As trying to find even just anyone to punt right now is a massive challenge as there is literally nobody it feels like that I even want to see doing this. And on the way to punts I sit on the bus and I see girls walking through town and I think to myself over and over. Friggin hell, look at her, if I could just punt with her. I did that today four separate times on the way to the punt today.

But another part of me just thinks I may just be losing the fun overall. And hence why I started the topic. Does this happen to other punters often in their punting careers, and its a thing that comes and goes, and if so how do they counter it. And do people think it is just a case that a quality girl will overcome it. Or would it be if you found the best hidden gem of a girl there was, you would still not enjoy it.

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I wasn't really sure of the best name for this topic. But I am curious if this has happened to others before in their punting careers and how they dealt with it if so.

Basically I have been punting for just off 5 years now, about once per month that entire time. And for my punts as soon as I come out of the room after them I have often felt like Rocky in the end of Rocky 2 when he managed to get up within the 10 seconds and Apollo didn't so he became world champion as a result.

I would have a punt, it would pick me right up, and I would immediately start looking forward to the next and the next girl to see. And I would need to force a timeline onto myself to not overspend (basically for the last three years, that was a punt once per month).

I have just came back from a punt today. And the girl was perfectly pleasant and everything else that was called from her. I also got A-Levels from her which has been my holy grail that I have rarely got in punting.

But at the end of the punt I thought to myself, you know for that money that I have just spent for that one hour. I could have bought myself an Nvidia Shield and watched 4K HEVC movies everynight for years on it.

The same goes with last months punt. Did not enjoy it at all. I rarely leave negatives. But I left that one as one.

Part of me just feels like the quality of girls doing this is at an all time low and everything is all due to this. As trying to find even just anyone to punt right now is a massive challenge as there is literally nobody it feels like that I even want to see doing this. And on the way to punts I sit on the bus and I see girls walking through town and I think to myself over and over. Friggin hell, look at her, if I could just punt with her. I did that today four separate times on the way to the punt today.

But another part of me just thinks I may just be losing the fun overall. And hence why I started the topic. Does this happen to other punters often in their punting careers, and its a thing that comes and goes, and if so how do they counter it. And do people think it is just a case that a quality girl will overcome it. Or would it be if you found the best hidden gem of a girl there was, you would still not enjoy it.

Its certainly happened to me, i didn't find it any fun in autumn 2010 so took 6 months off punting AND reading punting forums and returned refreshed. Due to my personal life i now haven't punted for quite a while and haven't as yet missed doing so though that will change no doubt sooner or later.

I feel like that at the moment. Started two years ago, once a week but some of the fun has disappeared for me. I've slowed down since September, which has helped - average every two weeks now and this year not even that. I think the problem is that it becomes routine to fuck different girls who are, let's face it, pretty much all the same, even the best one's. I've fucked 80 odd in two years and even with the variety it just becomes a bit dull. You come out thinking 'Why did I do that?' and can't really answer the question.

My habits have changed and I've come up with a proper bucket list of stuff I want to do. If I can't find someone who will tick something off my list, I won't punt at all. If all the WG's in the country packed it in tomorrow, I wouldn't shed a tear. 'Once a punter, always a punter' is a phrase I've heard many times and when I started I did think 'You'll never be able to stop' but right now I can understand how guys go for long periods without punting or do stop all together.

tcm

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"Part of me just feels like the quality of girls doing this is at an all time low and everything is all due to this. As trying to find even just anyone to punt right now is a massive challenge as there is literally nobody it feels like that I even want to see doing this.

Then stop , i honestly dont think the market of girls has changed but maybe you may have changed?

Offline AnthG

Then stop , i honestly dont think the market of girls has changed but maybe you may have changed?

With respect, you are not really looking at the market of girls though are you.

Offline Jimmyredcab



 i honestly dont think the market of girls has changed .

Are you serious.     :dash: :dash: :dash:

Adultwork is now infested with Romanian lowlife skanks.     :bomb: :bomb:

I very rarely punt now and don't miss it one bit.    :hi:

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"Part of me just feels like the quality of girls doing this is at an all time low and everything is all due to this. As trying to find even just anyone to punt right now is a massive challenge as there is literally nobody it feels like that I even want to see doing this.

Then stop , i honestly dont think the market of girls has changed but maybe you may have changed?

In the last year to eighteen months A/W has gone downhill in my observations, its now like wading knee high in shit to find a gem. Fortunately UKP is here for punters aware of it to help locate good WGs and avoid bad ones.

Offline frankc

Yeah its happened to me a few times, the only thing that works for me is a complete break for a few months. I go and do other things and forget about punting until the urge returns....for me its around 2 months, been like that for over 20 years

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Just take a break from punting and UKP too.

Something the latter everyone can do, well except me  :cry:

Offline cueball

Take a break anth, as said above, the lasses haven't changed. There's always been a mixture of skanks and good ones.

My punting is going to slow down too, I find it better to abstain for a few weeks, it gives me more excitement on the build up.

I've a few faces booked but next month I'll be taking my foot off the gas.

It's a way too expensive hobby not to get a buzz out of
« Last Edit: February 20, 2016, 05:41:24 PM by cueball »

Offline aniz

i have been punting for years,never felt bad  or sad about it,
Actually i feel good after punt.may be that's just me.
anyway if you don't enjoy punting you should stop.No point in doing something you don't enjoy.
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Offline AnthG

Are you serious.     :dash: :dash: :dash:

In the last year to eighteen months A/W has gone downhill in my observations, its now like wading knee high in shit to find a gem.

+1 on these two. I am not joking in saying that I feel the quality of girls is right down from what it once was.

Look at the agencies in 2012 of girls working that one day. A whole load of young, really fit girls to pick from.

https://web.archive.org/web/20120825073507/http://www.diamondsofnewcastle.com/home.php

Look at them now today. Old/past it girls to choose from, and a quatre of the selection.

http://www.diamondsofnewcastle.com/home.php

(the same applies to all of the agencies, I just used this one as they have been here the longest and can compare to old great times).

I read reviews of girls. And everyone always says in them she is "reasonably attractive" or "quite attractive" in the reviews. Which is euphemism for, she is not really that attractive and I am being pleasant.
« Last Edit: February 20, 2016, 05:46:24 PM by AnthG »

Offline pking_paul

Sorry to read this but I have realised its brain dead sluts that no longer do it for me. Give me a sexy 'real' mature any day of the week now. But as you say, they are tough to find on AW  :hi:

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Probably the time of year doesn't help...cold, damp, miserable, dark going to work, dark coming home from work, thoughts of suicide etc. Ok maybe not the last one.
Take a couple of punts off, might help.
 :drinks:

Have a holiday, have done many times in the past few years.  Probably due one soon to recharge my enthusiasm, may line this up with a holiday this year and stay switched off for a while.

Routine becomes routine and predictable, why I wont do the same people to often doing the same thing or anyone with loads of reviews any more there is no appeal there for me whatsoever.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Take a break anth, as said above, the lasses haven't changed. There's always been a mixture of skanks and good ones.


Some of the gents on here would fuck anything with a pulse, I cringe when I click on some of the reviews.   :vomit:

Sorry to read this but I have realised its brain dead sluts that no longer do it for me.

Dennis Nilsen???

My first punts, four years ago, left me on an amazing endorphin high...Just lived from punt yo punt. Fell in with a bunch of student hookers in Edinburgh, some bright young things, others mature students I.e. 30ish. All excellent and all sadly bloody graduated!
Anyway, to avoid disappointment, I punt the same three or four WGs now. I do not get the highs of the early days, but frequency is increasing; started monthly, then weekly and some weeks twice. Not as good as the early days, but good enough; bloody good, actually.
The problem's not the money, I've a good pension, but it's that I get fall prey to EAS; but I'm not looking to stop any time soon...

Offline KentAde

I have felt the same as the OP for a while, and when I have finished a punt feel like "well, that could have bought......." so have tried to cut down massively. However, I now have the fortunate pleasure of meeting civvies on Craigslist and now have them as my alternative to punting. Yes, I still 'reward' them, but don't have all the hassle of clock-watching, them not turning up, etc and still get to do technically the same as punting, ie kissing, CIM, etc....and one has just mentioned about trying anal one day!  :yahoo:
Anyway, so I think a lot of guys actually feel the same as the OP.....  :hi:




Then stop , i honestly dont think the market of girls has changed but maybe you may have changed?

Quite. When younger I liked fast cars. I've changed. There are still fast cars available but I'm more for the Armstrong Siddley type now.
There is still a broad range of product available you are just looking on the wrong shelves. Maybe you need to evaluate what you need from a punt.
Personally I'm enjoying longer sessions of edging. That does it for me now.
Have a think.!
PP

I wasn't really sure of the best name for this topic. But I am curious if this has happened to others before in their punting careers and how they dealt with it if so.

Basically I have been punting for just off 5 years now, about once per month that entire time. And for my punts as soon as I come out of the room after them I have often felt like Rocky in the end of Rocky 2 when he managed to get up within the 10 seconds and Apollo didn't so he became world champion as a result.

I would have a punt, it would pick me right up, and I would immediately start looking forward to the next and the next girl to see. And I would need to force a timeline onto myself to not overspend (basically for the last three years, that was a punt once per month).

I have just came back from a punt today. And the girl was perfectly pleasant and everything else that was called from her. I also got A-Levels from her which has been my holy grail that I have rarely got in punting.

But at the end of the punt I thought to myself, you know for that money that I have just spent for that one hour. I could have bought myself an Nvidia Shield and watched 4K HEVC movies everynight for years on it.

The same goes with last months punt. Did not enjoy it at all. I rarely leave negatives. But I left that one as one.

Part of me just feels like the quality of girls doing this is at an all time low and everything is all due to this. As trying to find even just anyone to punt right now is a massive challenge as there is literally nobody it feels like that I even want to see doing this. And on the way to punts I sit on the bus and I see girls walking through town and I think to myself over and over. Friggin hell, look at her, if I could just punt with her. I did that today four separate times on the way to the punt today.

But another part of me just thinks I may just be losing the fun overall. And hence why I started the topic. Does this happen to other punters often in their punting careers, and its a thing that comes and goes, and if so how do they counter it. And do people think it is just a case that a quality girl will overcome it. Or would it be if you found the best hidden gem of a girl there was, you would still not enjoy it.

but you cant stick your in a cock Ndvida sheild though anth..(though you will be tempted as kodi streams are fucking great for sports movies)

sounds like you need a break go out do something different for a while.  Enjoy life.

I do tend to agree with what your saying as outsider looking at your punting area. its bit like your all just shagging the same prossies in the same gaffs and it all did get a bit 'soap opera' for while
« Last Edit: February 20, 2016, 06:35:07 PM by cockneybstrd »

jcdmj12

I was enjoying it, then had a world-rocking experience with an RB outcall part timer which put everything else in the shade, and then nothing else appeared.

Luckily I've just seen Woofie35 which topped since even that :)

...but, I've totally lost the urge for 'normal' punts now, paying for 1-2 hour of sex with a woman who is pretending to be interested in me and 5 other guys that day suddenly no longer excites me.

Maybe I'll go back to it, maybe I won't, but if you're not enjoying it, stop for a while.




brain dead sluts... charming

Try a few punts yourself, you'll soon see what we mean.

sounds like you need a break go out do something different for a while.  Enjoy life.

Good advice. Considering it myself.

...but, I've totally lost the urge for 'normal' punts now, paying for 1-2 hour of sex with a woman who is pretending to be interested in me and 5 other guys that day suddenly no longer excites me.

That's where I found myself in September.

tcm

Offline Spunky34

Basically I have been punting for just off 5 years now, about once per month that entire time.

Sounds as though it may just be becoming routine for you, so it's hard to get the same feeling of excited anticipation.  You say that as soon as one punt was over you used to start looking forward to the next one - but if you're currently doing it through habit then it isn't something special at the moment.

I would recommend a complete break from everything you associate with it - so no AW, no UKP (sorry), put your punting phone at the back of a dusty cupboard so you don't see it.  You'll know if and when you want to come back to it.


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