Can't put my finger on it, so interested in what others think, but this has become the forum I now go to first.
I'm guessing the other one is the one with a similar name that is a bit of a "net" - I first went on there must be 20 years ago when I saw an article about it in a newspaper. It doesn't seem to have moved forward and the site is a bit cumbersome to navigate.
As for the "local" one I'm based near Manchester, and it has been a useful resource, but the owner's agenda and psychotic interference spoils it.
This one can be a little OTT in its language describing our lady friends, but it's an honest, straight forward site, and it's easy to navigate, and people have a sense of humour. Admin only seem to interfere when they think something has gone off track, not when they decide they want to flex their muscles.
Well done to all.