At the bottom of every reverse auction I always end with "Please do not bid if you are offering BB on your profile".
Recently however in response to an auction I had a lass make a bid, she wrote quite a long text with the bid (which was a very good price) offering to see me with along with her female slave. She went on to say how she would love me to cum inside her at the end of the evening so that she could go home after the date and masturbate with my cum dribbling out of her.
Since she had written quite a long text with her bid I sent her a mail politely declining;
Thanks for bidding on my reverse auction. Yours might just be the sexiest, most erotic offer I have ever received on AW. I am very turned on by what you have written on your profile, I love group sex and I can't tell you how much I'd love send you home filled with something to remember me by, but I'm afraid I do not see escorts who offer BB on their profile. Even though I can see you are being careful, I am a married guy and I don't feel I have the right to take that chance on my wife's behalf. Accordingly, I'm going to have to pass on your offer.
I thought that would be the end of it but she wasn't easily taking no for an answer;
Thanks you for your reply and yes I fully understand and respect your decision on that, however this is a misconception by most guys, that because I offer unproteced sex that it is sort of compulsory...! When in fact 95% of my meetings are protected with condom.
My service is " an option " it is not compulsory " and unlike most girls who offer proteced sex only I am tested regular and probably much cleaner than some of my counterparts.
I also only offer my special service to guys on reverse auctions so I can read feedback and choose whom I wish to meet, So I read all your feedback and profile before I made my decision to bid.
So we can still meet for fun Ivor and we can play safe no problem...
and if it helps I also am very happily married with 4 children and I dont take risks for the sake of them either, this is a fun and fantasy thing for me as much as it is you guys..
Still trying to be firm but polite .....
Thanks for your reply. I understand and appreciate everything you've said but still I think the choice of whether to take that risk is not fairly mine to make.
Still she didn't give up ....
you have me confused now lol...
If we meet and have protected sex then the risk is only the same as if you choose "any other girl" on AW is it not?? xx
We dont have to do unprotected sex is what I am saying Ivor...
Take no for an answer woman .....
I guess in truth it is my ignorance about STDs that makes me cautious. Rightly or wrongly I feel safer seeing a girl who does not offer BB on her profile.
As horny as your suggestion is, I am going to decline.
That finally did the trick but bloody hell, this is a married woman with 4 children! Reading my feedback (which btw is pretty bloody excellent, based on feedback alone I'd choose me every time) was enough for her to decide it would be safe to do BB.
Anyway, that was the last time I tried to write a nice "thanks but no thanks" kind of mail, from that day on I just delete unwanted bids.