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Online haystacks79

If i knew before hand no problem not too sure what i would do if i found out after the fact  :unknown:

Agreed - there's a difference between knowing what you're getting into, and finding out that you don't know the person.

Offline Sarahs Back

I have to disagree with you. If the girl has her boyfriend/pimp in the next room that is her business, as long as he keeps out of sight I really can't see a problem, maybe you like to regard the girl as a potential girlfriend in which case the illusion would be shattered.
the first time I agree with you

Offline ParisB

 i wasnt implying that you were that sort at all  i was simply giving my point of view replying to your post that you posted initially,  I was giving the other point of view that  as an escort  if someone asked me those question or made it a condition of seeing me when they rang or after an appointment  then  i wouldn't want to see them regardless off if i worked on my own or not.   Its not about lying its about protecting myself from  being robbed or attacked in the future.   And I'm definatly not a liar, or someone who says that they do xxx service and then don't offer it  I have no need to   

as i said if you were to ask a girl on the phone if she was on her own or if someone was going to be their at the appointment ,  its highly unlikely she is going to say that she is on her own .    She dosnt know you, your just a voice on the end of her phone, one of probably many people that she has spoken to that day.    She dosnt know if your a decent genuine client or one that wants to rob and rape her therefore she will most likely err on the side of caution and not see you,  same goes for some one asking that when they arrive   it would make me personally feel very uncomfortable  if a client was asking me such questions 
 
 and  if for example someone came to see me and thought i had someone hidden away somewhere and made it clear that they wouldnt see me again unless they were sure that i worked on my own ect, What do i do , do  i let them go and look around my home /working flat  check out the bedrooms and the living room where i have all my personal stuff ect.   How would i or any other escort know what their intentions might be  they may be innocent they may not,  i tend to err on the side of caution that they want to know because they want to rob /attack me at some point.
    They may not doing anything the,n but come back on another visit satisfied that the escort is on here own and attack /rob ect or even send friends to do it 
   
 

obviously if you see someone in a hotel room unless he can fit into the suitcase or the wardrobe she is going to be on her own  but if its in a private flat unless you walk around and open every door  You won't  have  any way of knowing  if she says she is on her own or not   
and i wouldnt lie to them about being on my own or not - if they asked me on the phone i would ask them to call back and then i would simply not want to see because wanting to know if I'm on my own /or not is something that i consider to be a red flag  /warning and most escort would probably feel the same way




Firstly, i resent any accusation that i am this type of punter you describe. Ofcourse she would lie to me as she wants my business and money. This is


one of my issues i have with this. I see this as blatantly lying to me to gain my money. If she can lie about that what else will she be untruthful about ie, her list of services etc. The girls i've seen have been in their own flats or hotels so no one else has been on the premesis or in the room. Surely it's common courtesy to be told that someone else is in the same house. I certainly don't ask those questions on the phone or in person, nor do i snoop around every room to make sure. I'm not that paranoid. I am however paying a hefty sum which i've worked very hard for and don't want it to be wasted on a bad experience. Thus, i suggest the reasoning behind not telling punters that you have a partner/whoever in the same house is solely done to gain my business on a false pretence, ie that it's just the two of us. Why not be upfront and forthcoming? oh that's right, because you know it would affect how some men would feel about it, ultimately costing you business, so you mention nothing. Ignorance is not bliss in this scenario imo.

Edit: imagine this: a young guy brings you home and his parents also live there. you don't hear them, the doors are closed. still cool with you? didn't think so

Offline ParisB

Firstly, i resent any accusation that i am this type of punter you describe. Ofcourse she would lie to me as she wants my business and money. This is one of my issues i have with this. I see this as blatantly lying to me to gain my money. If she can lie about that what else will she be untruthful about ie, her list of services etc. The girls i've seen have been in their own flats or hotels so no one else has been on the premesis or in the room. Surely it's common courtesy to be told that someone else is in the same house. I certainly don't ask those questions on the phone or in person, nor do i snoop around every room to make sure. I'm not that paranoid. I am however paying a hefty sum which i've worked very hard for and don't want it to be wasted on a bad experience. Thus, i suggest the reasoning behind not telling punters that you have a partner/whoever in the same house is solely done to gain my business on a false pretence, ie that it's just the two of us. Why not be upfront and forthcoming? oh that's right, because you know it would affect how some men would feel about it, ultimately costing you business, so you mention nothing. Ignorance is not bliss in this scenario imo.

 I'm sorry but i havnt dated a guy that lives at home with his parents for a long  time    :D  but if i did  why on earth would his parents  being there bother me unless they want to have a gang bang or i want to shag the guy in living room and dear mum and dad are watching X Factor
and if he's  that bloody  young i would probably expect that he
a-   lives with his parents
b - lives in a flat share with friends 
 
And the reason that no escort with any common sense would tell any tom dick harry or potential attacker that rings them up asking for details  that they work on their own is because of the risk of being robbed.and attacked.    Its make no difference if she is on her own or not  she isn't going to tell someone on the phone that she dosnt know that she is on her own.
   and if by that means she/I looses one potential customer by refusing to tell them if she is on her own or not,  then so be it , its better than being dead or being robbed 


Edit: imagine this: a young guy brings you home and his parents also live there. you don't hear them, the doors are closed. still cool with you? didn't think so

Offline ParisB

lol James my dogs have pedicures and baths every week  without fail he might smell but its a nice doggy smell

The stink of a dog is worse than the smell after a pro$$ie has washed herself down with wet wipes  :vomit:

Offline James999

lol James my dogs have pedicures and baths every week  without fail he might smell but its a nice doggy smell

Obviously not a dog lover then, as it's not good to wash them weekly, and they shouldn't need "pedicures" if they have proper excercise  :hi:

Online Jimmyredcab

lol James my dogs have pedicures and baths every week  without fail he might smell but its a nice doggy smell

Only a dog lover would know what a nice doggy smell is.   :unknown:

Offline ParisB

my dogs get plenty of exercise but as a large breed of dog its not advisable to walk them for hours and hour  at a time , but they do need ( 1 in particular ) his nail clipped regularly  as  has he has a problem with them growing to one side  and the other one needs to be washed every week because he has doggy excema so has to be washed in a special shampoo to help his skin


Obviously not a dog lover then, as it's not good to wash them weekly, and they shouldn't need "pedicures" if they have proper excercise  :hi:

Offline James999

The reason he has a "Problem with his skin" is because you keep washing him to try and stop him stinking  :dash:

Lets just hope you're better at sucking cock than animal welfare  :hi:

You don't appear to be a very experienced punter, I learnt many years ago that all prostitutes lie from the minute they get up in the morning, that is something you will have to learn to live with.  ;)

I've been punting for 6 years so i have plenty of experience ranging from the RLD of Amsterdam to LMP, to Indies as well as HOD. I'll think about that but i don't agree they lie about everything. I know they create a fake persona etc but that doesn't mean they lie about their services.

I always said i understand that safety comes first for the girls and i don't dispute this at all. However, what about our safety? Are we not entitled to our own safety checks? IE; who else is in this house with me who could be a potential threat? If i knew there was another man in the house at the back of my mind i couldn't relax 100%, these characters are already shady enough i have no reason to trust them. I would always think he would burst in mid fuck with a knife and then what? you're fucked.

Paris, you implied it shouldn't matter if the doors are closed because you won't know who's there unless you snoop around looking at every room. The reason i came with my example is that most girls won't accept outcalls to young guys who live with their parents, they see this as weird. It wouldn't matter to them if you saw them or not, just the thought of knowing you were having sex with other people in the same house is offputting for both parties. Sex should be intimite, you shouldn't have to think about other people in the equation. Anyway i wasn't sure if you were accusing me or not so sorry if i was defensive, this is purely an interesting debate for me as it hasn't really affected me yet but i hope it doesn't. So, there would be no point in asking you if you have a man in your house because as you've said a girl wouldn't tell you and she'll block you as a tw. I already knew this, hence why i don't ask those questions but i still believe in theory i should be able to as a security question of my own. Though i do understand in reality why i shouldn't and can't do this.

Online Jimmyredcab

I would always think he would burst in mid fuck with a knife and then what? you're fucked.

If I had your outlook on life I would never leave the house let alone punt.

The bottom line is that you have no "right" to know if her minder is in the next room, that is her business.

In over 25 years of punting I have never had a problem with a pimp and I have walked out hundreds of times, the last thing they want is the police turning up.

Online Jimmyredcab



The reason i came with my example is that most girls won't accept outcalls to young guys who live with their parents, they see this as weird.

It is, can you imagine saying "Mum, I have booked a pro$$ie for 8pm tonight"

Offline ParisB

 He has eczema on his chest  he had this before i got him, its why his owners didn't want him anymore as its often passed on to pups and they were using him as a stud dog.    Nothing to do with me washing him to much, it very common in the breed of dog that i have,  i  can only get it from the vets under prescription for him.  When i take him to the vets if its clears up i don't get it,  and when i flares back up i take him back up and they check him and give him more   

The reason he has a "Problem with his skin" is because you keep washing him to try and stop him stinking  :dash:

Lets just hope you're better at sucking cock than animal welfare  :hi:

Offline James999

In over 25 years of punting I have never had a problem with a pimp and I have walked out hundreds of times,

Coughs...........................  :hi:

Online Jimmyredcab

Coughs...........................  :hi:

What exactly does that mean ???????????????????????

Before the internet I used local brothels and had to rely on the maid's description, most times they lied ---------- Ulrika is 19 and from Sweden, today is her first day working -------------------------- yeah right.  :dash:

I would take one look and walk away.

If I had your outlook on life I would never leave the house let alone punt.

The bottom line is that you have no "right" to know if her minder is in the next room, that is her business.

In over 25 years of punting I have never had a problem with a pimp and I have walked out hundreds of times, the last thing they want is the police turning up.

Paranoia is the highest form of awareness. I'm glad you haven't had a problem with a pimp and i tend to agree that they're just about money but there's no guarentees in punting, these people aren't upstanding members of society. Ok, you say i have no right to know if someone else is in the same house, i couldn't disagree more. If i have an outcall and my friend(s) are in the other room, by your logic the girl doesn't have a right to know i have my own minders in my house. It's my business right? Or does this right exist for her and not for me?

But my worry is as I said before. He may want your money. But the realisation half way through of, 'no we don't need the money this bad', is always a possibility.

This I agree with, unfortunately.


hooray your learning ..... :drinks:

Online Jimmyredcab

If i have an outcall and my friend(s) are in the other room, by your logic the girl doesn't have a right to know i have my own minders in my house. It's my business right? Or does this right exist for her and not for me?

If a girl visits you while your friends are in the next room that is none of her business, however you should ask them to keep quiet while she is there.

Offline mofukker

If a girl visits you while your friends are in the next room that is none of her business, however you should ask them to keep quiet while she is there.

no jimmy that when we take bets on how long he can last , and watch from a hidden camera

Offline Sarahs Back

If a girl visits you while your friends are in the next room that is none of her business, however you should ask them to keep quiet while she is there.

ok so this happened to me last week.... I turned up and there was another guy standing there both 20 somethings..... I thought id been set up...... and nearly ran out

but he explained that it was his flat mate and he would stay down stairs...... so I stayed.... but he should have either warned me or the other guy should have been out of site cos that freaked me out and he nearly lost out

Offline Matium

I don't know if a girl would be comfortable with the idea of other men at the site.

What if you punt with one guy while his two mates are in the other room and then when you're busy with him, they burst into the room, there you are, a naked girl surrounded by three guys, they can beat you up, rape you and will certainly rob you of your money.

It might not happen, they might just spend their time talking or listening to music while you're with the guy but then again it might happen the way I've described it.

Most WGs are physically fit and can defend themselves against one guy, especially if he's overweight and middle aged but against two or three guys, you'll certainly be overpowered.

I think most WGs will be uncomfortable with the idea of other men being in the next room and I would guess that most would simply turn around and walk out as they wouldn't want to take the risk.

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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ok so this happened to me last week.... I turned up and there was another guy standing there both 20 somethings..... I thought id been set up...... and nearly ran out

but he explained that it was his flat mate and he would stay down stairs...... so I stayed.... but he should have either warned me or the other guy should have been out of site cos that freaked me out and he nearly lost out

Your braver than me Sarah, I would of walked straight away. How the hell could you be sure he would stay in the next room ?? I agree with JRC if he was there and you didn't see him and he was quite etc fair enough you wouldn't know. Did you not find it intimidating being greeted by the two of them?  As for other men being in the WGs place same apples if you don't see/hear them which is highly unlikely does it really matter ?

Offline Sarahs Back

I never live my life by "what ifs" if I did then I wouldnt leave my home..... as a girl got murdered about 3 mins from where I live and all she did was walk home from the pub
I was more scared of the guy I once lived with!! than ever doing this.......but i guess the danger is all part of the buzz..... as I said before I may have had a few hairy moments but nothing bad has happened to me whilst doing this...... but doesnt stop me from having a little pot of  :cry:  to make me feel safe....
yes you can all analyse me now.....

but just the same for the guys ...... dont spend your life being worried about what could happen..... if it was gonna be a set up..... she would never have told you that a guy would be there..... he would have just jumped out

Offline Sarahs Back

Your braver than me Sarah, I would of walked straight away. How the hell could you be sure he would stay in the next room ?? I agree with JRC if he was there and you didn't see him and he was quite etc fair enough you wouldn't know. Did you not find it intimidating being greeted by the two of them?  As for other men being in the WGs place same apples if you don't see/hear them which is highly unlikely does it really matter ?

to be honest its body language and also he explained in a way that sounded reasonable and the fact the other guy had an apron on, oven gloves and slippers and was cooking that made me think yeah its ok......


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