i wasnt implying that you were that sort at all i was simply giving my point of view replying to your post that you posted initially, I was giving the other point of view that as an escort if someone asked me those question or made it a condition of seeing me when they rang or after an appointment then i wouldn't want to see them regardless off if i worked on my own or not. Its not about lying its about protecting myself from being robbed or attacked in the future. And I'm definatly not a liar, or someone who says that they do xxx service and then don't offer it I have no need to
as i said if you were to ask a girl on the phone if she was on her own or if someone was going to be their at the appointment , its highly unlikely she is going to say that she is on her own . She dosnt know you, your just a voice on the end of her phone, one of probably many people that she has spoken to that day. She dosnt know if your a decent genuine client or one that wants to rob and rape her therefore she will most likely err on the side of caution and not see you, same goes for some one asking that when they arrive it would make me personally feel very uncomfortable if a client was asking me such questions
and if for example someone came to see me and thought i had someone hidden away somewhere and made it clear that they wouldnt see me again unless they were sure that i worked on my own ect, What do i do , do i let them go and look around my home /working flat check out the bedrooms and the living room where i have all my personal stuff ect. How would i or any other escort know what their intentions might be they may be innocent they may not, i tend to err on the side of caution that they want to know because they want to rob /attack me at some point.
They may not doing anything the,n but come back on another visit satisfied that the escort is on here own and attack /rob ect or even send friends to do it
obviously if you see someone in a hotel room unless he can fit into the suitcase or the wardrobe she is going to be on her own but if its in a private flat unless you walk around and open every door You won't have any way of knowing if she says she is on her own or not
and i wouldnt lie to them about being on my own or not - if they asked me on the phone i would ask them to call back and then i would simply not want to see because wanting to know if I'm on my own /or not is something that i consider to be a red flag /warning and most escort would probably feel the same way
Firstly, i resent any accusation that i am this type of punter you describe. Ofcourse she would lie to me as she wants my business and money. This is
one of my issues i have with this. I see this as blatantly lying to me to gain my money. If she can lie about that what else will she be untruthful about ie, her list of services etc. The girls i've seen have been in their own flats or hotels so no one else has been on the premesis or in the room. Surely it's common courtesy to be told that someone else is in the same house. I certainly don't ask those questions on the phone or in person, nor do i snoop around every room to make sure. I'm not that paranoid. I am however paying a hefty sum which i've worked very hard for and don't want it to be wasted on a bad experience. Thus, i suggest the reasoning behind not telling punters that you have a partner/whoever in the same house is solely done to gain my business on a false pretence, ie that it's just the two of us. Why not be upfront and forthcoming? oh that's right, because you know it would affect how some men would feel about it, ultimately costing you business, so you mention nothing. Ignorance is not bliss in this scenario imo.
Edit: imagine this: a young guy brings you home and his parents also live there. you don't hear them, the doors are closed. still cool with you? didn't think so