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The fantasy of visiting an independant girl is that you should be dealing with her and her alone. I wouldn't mind hearing a dog, it's hard not to notice them. I don't want to know anyone's security proceedures, i just want a 121 punt with no distractions. It should be my business to know who else is in the same house. Witholding this information i see as lying and if i were to find out i would not be back. Keep the man outside in a car. If you must have a man in the house with you at all times then tell the customer so he can make his own mind up whether he is comfortable with this scenario.

Offline Jimmyredcab

The fantasy of visiting an independant girl is that you should be dealing with her and her alone. I wouldn't mind hearing a dog, it's hard not to notice them. I don't want to know anyone's security proceedures, i just want a 121 punt with no distractions. It should be my business to know who else is in the same house. Witholding this information i see as lying and if i were to find out i would not be back. Keep the man outside in a car. If you must have a man in the house with you at all times then tell the customer so he can make his own mind up whether he is comfortable with this scenario.

I have to disagree with you. If the girl has her boyfriend/pimp in the next room that is her business, as long as he keeps out of sight I really can't see a problem, maybe you like to regard the girl as a potential girlfriend in which case the illusion would be shattered.

Offline AnthG

If you must have a man in the house with you at all times then tell the customer so he can make his own mind up whether he is comfortable with this scenario.
I agree with this. The best option I would say is for her to say it before getting the money and ask the punter is it ok in advance of receiving any payment.

I can remember I have had a booking where the independent rents the flat from someone for use of this work and she had said during the booking he wanted to come inside the flat but is waiting until I left so not to disturb us and my reaction was I do not care he can come in.

However if she told me her boyfriend was on the scene. I would want to leave.

It is not just the case of the illusion (although to admit it is a little bit for me) but also as boyfriends are so unpredictable. For all I know this could be the first time he has stayed in the flat with her on finding out she does this type of work and then after 1hr in of the 2hr booking realizes he cannot take having someone having sex with his girlfriend in the other room and snaps. It is all very possible.

Offline James999

Often the guy who hangs around is her boyfriend / pimp, and he wants to make sure she hands the cash over to him. A few times I have paid the girl and she has said "I have to give this to my boyfriend so he can go shopping"  the reality is perhaps as soon as they have some cash he's off to get some gear  :hi:

Offline Jimmyredcab



However if she told me her boyfriend was on the scene. I would want to leave.

Prostitutes are experts at telling lies, very few would admit that their minder/husband/pimp is on the premises, as long as you behave yourself there is zero chance that he will appear, why would he want to jeopardize his source of income.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Often the guy who hangs around is her boyfriend / pimp, and he wants to make sure she hands the cash over to him. A few times I have paid the girl and she has said "I have to give this to my boyfriend so he can go shopping"  the reality is perhaps as soon as they have some cash he's off to get some gear  :hi:

I don't believe you, as usual you have to go way over the top.  :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Offline James999

But then you don't believe a girl under £150 an hour can be any good  :sarcastic:

Offline Jimmyredcab

But then you don't believe a girl under £150 an hour can be any good  :sarcastic:

Not at all but you shouldn't expect a Cheryl Cole lookalike for £70 an hour, that was the rate 20 years ago.  :rolleyes:

Offline ParisB

but that just its a fantasy in your head , its an illusion,   So i can see if someone really believes the fantasy then they would have a problem with seeing another person there.
    However in real life,  the escort may very well have someone else sat in the front room for her own security ,taking phone calls for her ect  She may tell you she is on her own just to keep you happy,and pander to your fantasy and illusion,   but in reality she is not on her own, but you not going to know that unless you see that other person. I doubt very much  that the majority of escorts are really going to tell someone asking on the phone that they on on their own.  In fact anyone who asks that is normally marked out as a weirdo, potential robber in most cases not to be seen for appointments.  Even more so if they were to ask that when arriving its quite a threading thing to ask a woman - is she on her own - no matter what you intentions are or reasons for asking )
 
   So how do you know if someone is there are not when you arrive,  do you demand to go and look in every room to make sure she is on her own so that it dosnt ruin your fantasy and illusion.  I keep all the doors in my working flat shut, the spare room is locked and the living room door is always shut and so is the door to the kitchen.
 Unless you go and look in each  room in the house,  you would have no idea if the girl is on her own or  even if she says she is on her own  you won't know unless you have a look personally  or you happen to see whoever else is there as you come in.

  I take my biggest dog to work with me sometime, when he moves around you can hear him,  even if I'm upstairs you can hear him moving around, so its likely that you  would think that its a person downstairs, do you then demand to go and see who is downstairs
anyone who said wanted to do that in my flat would be risking their limbs if they opened my living room door as my dog would probably bite them 



The fantasy of visiting an independant girl is that you should be dealing with her and her alone. I wouldn't mind hearing a dog, it's hard not to notice them. I don't want to know anyone's security proceedures, i just want a 121 punt with no distractions. It should be my business to know who else is in the same house. Witholding this information i see as lying and if i were to find out i would not be back. Keep the man outside in a car. If you must have a man in the house with you at all times then tell the customer so he can make his own mind up whether he is comfortable with this scenario.

Offline Jimmyredcab

but that just its a fantasy in your head , its an illusion,   So i can see if someone really believes the fantasy then they would have a problem with seeing another person there.
    However in real life,  the escort may very well have someone else sat in the front room for her own security ,taking phone calls for her ect  She may tell you she is on her own just to keep you happy,and pander to your fantasy and illusion.

Most prostitutes will tell you what they think you want to hear, that will rarely be the truth.  ;)

but that just its a fantasy in your head , its an illusion,   So i can see if someone really believes the fantasy then they would have a problem with seeing another person there.
    However in real life,  the escort may very well have someone else sat in the front room for her own security ,taking phone calls for her ect  She may tell you she is on her own just to keep you happy,and pander to your fantasy and illusion,   but in reality she is not on her own, but you not going to know that unless you see that other person. I doubt very much  that the majority of escorts are really going to tell someone asking on the phone that they on on their own.  In fact anyone who asks that is normally marked out as a weirdo, potential robber in most cases not to be seen for appointments.  Even more so if they were to ask that when arriving its quite a threading thing to ask a woman - is she on her own - no matter what you intentions are or reasons for asking )
 
   So how do you know if someone is there are not when you arrive,  do you demand to go and look in every room to make sure she is on her own so that it dosnt ruin your fantasy and illusion.  I keep all the doors in my working flat shut, the spare room is locked and the living room door is always shut and so is the door to the kitchen.
 Unless you go and look in each  room in the house,  you would have no idea if the girl is on her own or  even if she says she is on her own  you won't know unless you have a look personally  or you happen to see whoever else is there as you come in.

  I take my biggest dog to work with me sometime, when he moves around you can hear him,  even if I'm upstairs you can hear him moving around, so its likely that you  would think that its a person downstairs, do you then demand to go and see who is downstairs
anyone who said wanted to do that in my flat would be risking their limbs if they opened my living room door as my dog would probably bite them

Firstly, i resent any accusation that i am this type of punter you describe. Ofcourse she would lie to me as she wants my business and money. This is one of my issues i have with this. I see this as blatantly lying to me to gain my money. If she can lie about that what else will she be untruthful about ie, her list of services etc. The girls i've seen have been in their own flats or hotels so no one else has been on the premesis or in the room. Surely it's common courtesy to be told that someone else is in the same house. I certainly don't ask those questions on the phone or in person, nor do i snoop around every room to make sure. I'm not that paranoid. I am however paying a hefty sum which i've worked very hard for and don't want it to be wasted on a bad experience. Thus, i suggest the reasoning behind not telling punters that you have a partner/whoever in the same house is solely done to gain my business on a false pretence, ie that it's just the two of us. Why not be upfront and forthcoming? oh that's right, because you know it would affect how some men would feel about it, ultimately costing you business, so you mention nothing. Ignorance is not bliss in this scenario imo.

Edit: imagine this: a young guy brings you home and his parents also live there. you don't hear them, the doors are closed. still cool with you? didn't think so
« Last Edit: October 07, 2012, 05:29:55 PM by Thepacifist »

Offline Jimmyredcab

Firstly, i resent any accusation that i am this type of punter you describe. Ofcourse she would lie to me as she wants my business and money. This is one of my issues i have with this. I see this as blatantly lying to me to gain my money. If she can lie about that what else will she be untruthful about ie, her list of services etc.

You don't appear to be a very experienced punter, I learnt many years ago that all prostitutes lie from the minute they get up in the morning, that is something you will have to learn to live with.  ;)

Offline Jimmyredcab



Edit: imagine this: a young guy brings you home and his parents also live there. you don't hear them, the doors are closed. still cool with you? didn't think so

That is a totally different scenario, the parents may object to you being there, when you visit a prostitute you are a paying client ----- her pimp/boyfriend/minder wants you to return, he wants your money.

Offline James999

  I take my biggest dog to work with me sometime,

The stink of a dog is worse than the smell after a pro$$ie has washed herself down with wet wipes  :vomit:

I'm obviously in the minority here - it doesn't bother me at all. I've not been looking for a relationship, so don't worry about their relationship status, but I do need some chat to relax me, and if they talk about their partners as a part of that, I'm fine with that.


Same here

Offline AnthG

her pimp/boyfriend/minder wants you to return, he wants your money.

But my worry is as I said before. He may want your money. But the realisation half way through of, 'no we don't need the money this bad', is always a possibility.

I learnt many years ago that all prostitutes lie from the minute they get up in the morning, that is something you will have to learn to live with.  ;)

This I agree with, unfortunately.

Offline Jimmyredcab

But my worry is as I said before. He may want your money. But the realisation half way through of, 'no we don't need the money this bad', is always a possibility.

A pimps mind doesn't work like that.

What decent self respecting man would let their girlfriend suck off every Tom, Dick and Abdul.

Offline Jimmyredcab



This I agree with, unfortunately.

You are learning, there is hope for you yet.  :thumbsup:

Offline James999

What decent self respecting man would let their girlfriend suck off every Tom, Dick and Abdul.

The sort that doesn't care about her only the money she can provide him with, often these guys are out spending the money the pro$$ie has earnt on other pro$$ies, Kind of ironic really  :hi:

What is amusing is the pro$$ies that state "he loves me so lets me do this" overlooking the point that as soon as they are unable to generate the income the guy is gone as fast as spunk on a pro$$ies eye  :coolgirl:

Offline Jimmyredcab



What is amusing is the pro$$ies that state "he loves me so lets me do this"

I bet he loves her more than when she was stacking shelves at £6-08 an hour.   :D

Offline James999

I bet he loves her more than when she was stacking shelves at £6-08 an hour.   :D

I doubt he knew her then, these "Boyfriends / pimps / hangers on" have a habit of appearing when the girl starts to generate some cash  :hi:

Offline AnthG


What decent self respecting man would let their girlfriend suck off every Tom, Dick and Abdul.
I am not sure but it would actually be a curious poll asking people if you had a girlfriend/wife, and you found out right out of the blue one day that she did this, and she refused to give it up. Would you immediately leave or not? Its probably a poll best suited for auto-censored though.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I am not sure but it would actually be a curious poll asking people if you had a girlfriend/wife, and you found out right out of the blue one day that she did this, and she refused to give it up.

If she really loves you then she would give it up and get a real job, quite simple really.

If i knew before hand no problem not too sure what i would do if i found out after the fact  :unknown:

Offline AnthG

If she really loves you then she would give it up and get a real job, quite simple really.
I agree, completely with this.

Plus thinking about it further. If you did not pressure her to quit. This would probably be in the back of her mind constantly.

I bet he loves her more than when she was stacking shelves at £6-08 an hour.   :D


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