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Author Topic: Other men at a punt  (Read 5969 times)

How do you guys feel about this? has this ever happened to you? I've seen other men at a punt but that's always been at LMP so to be expected. I was reading on saafe that a punter left after seeing the girls husband. I can't say i blame him. What i took issue with is how some said it should be none of our business if someone is there and not to tell us. I disagree, I think we should be told and then it's up to us to decide. Ofcourse they're entitled to their security over anything else, i support that entirely. However, seeing another guy would kinda put me off and god forbid we were going at it; me thinking we're alone and then i hear noises indicating we're not, that would freak me out and i would be thinking i've been set up here. Other girls in the premises i could care less about though. I've never seen another guy on a 121 and hope i never do to be honest.

Offline Joe Blob

It doesn't bother me in the slightest. Back in the streetgirl days, None of the girls had phones then, so if you knew their address, you called round on spec, and if a bloke answered, just asked if the girl was in. I even got to know a few of the blokes over the years.


Offline mofukker

1st off fuck SAAFE
its completely biased always gonna take the escorts side even if she gives a man a disease or steals his cash
and ive seen other punters  at a punt its not a problem dont see why it should be unless there is  violence which there never has been

Offline Matium

How do you guys feel about this? has this ever happened to you? I've seen other men at a punt but that's always been at LMP so to be expected. I was reading on saafe that a punter left after seeing the girls husband.

Looking at the girl concerned made me queasy.

 :vomit:

http://84.244.135.41/f/1681328_1.jpg


Offline Matium

However, seeing another guy would kinda put me off and god forbid we were going at it; me thinking we're alone and then i hear noises indicating we're not, that would freak me out and i would be thinking i've been set up here. Other girls in the premises i could care less about though. I've never seen another guy on a 121 and hope i never do to be honest.

Having another girl about is ok because it leaves open the possibility of expanding the session into a threesome.

However, I would just turn around and walk out if I saw a guy because there'll always be the fear of being robbed or beaten up by a pimp.

Offline SteveNova

I don't see it as a problem myself, but everyone's reaction will be different I guess - and if it's a completely unknown venue it's obviously wise to be cautious.  I unexpectedly met a fellow UKP punter recently after a visit, which was great, but of course it was a place that I had been to on a regular basis.   I try to avoid SAAFE as I don't think it's representative of WGs, other than the few who post on there.  I'd rather get my impression of WGs from the ones that I meet.
« Last Edit: October 04, 2012, 12:17:02 PM by SteveNova »

Online James999

Looking at the girl concerned made me queasy.

 :vomit:

http://84.244.135.41/f/1681328_1.jpg

After seeing her picture perhaps she uses the husband as an excuse for her latest walkout, she clearly is not pleasing to the eye, and the fat blotchy legs  :vomit:

Tony Montana

I wouldn't be comfortable with it.  You hear stories of punters being hassled for more money or threatened etc.


Offline Dani

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After reading the horror stories of men being robbed etc I would never have a man in my apartment if I had a booking just so the punter felt comfortable and was able to relax.  I do however normally have a female friend around unless it is a client I have met a few times before.  I always let them know that there is someone else in the property beforehand so they can make a choice as to if they want the booking or not.
Although if someone asks on the phone within the first few questions if I am alone in the flat I always tell them I have male security as that question alone makes me feel uncomfortable as it is not something that is normally asked and I then refuse the booking anyway

Having another girl about is ok because it leaves open the possibility of expanding the session into a threesome.

However, I would just turn around and walk out if I saw a guy because there'll always be the fear of being robbed or beaten up by a pimp.

+1

I agree that if a guy is asking are you alone on the phone that would be off putting. I never ask this but it doesn't mean i'd be happy with seeing a man at the premesis.  But i'd probably get blamed for not asking on the phone and wasting their time if i left.. Luckily this hasn't been a problem for me yet but it's interesting to hear other opinions.

Offline haystacks79

I assumed right from the start that there would be someone else on the premises when I was visiting, due to the place I was going. Never seen him, but have heard him a few times. I've been aware of other punters around a couple of times as well, but never seen them either.

Have seen some of the other girls around on a couple of occasions as well, but only ever those that I've already seen for a booking (don't know if that's through planning or just the way it's worked out). Oh and the cleaner vacuuming outside on one occasion :)

I think I actually prefer the idea that there's someone else around, it seems safer for both of us somehow, but not sure that I can explain why. I'll have to think about that some more, as I'd not really considered it much before!

Offline Jimmyredcab

1st off fuck SAAFE
its completely biased always gonna take the escorts side even if she gives a man a disease or steals his cash


Not too different to auto-censored then.    :rolleyes:

Offline AnthG

How do you guys feel about this?

I truly hate the idea of Boyfriends / Husbands being in the flat at the same time. To the level where I will feel cheated/conned for lack of better words if he were there and I was not told in advance.

I would also feel very intimidated with one in there as I do not go for a quick bit of a sex. I go for the full on GFE type bookings and I would worry the guy would get jealous and burst into the room.

It has never happened yet that one has been in the flat (I hope). But I remember I started this topic as a new girl in the region hinted her boyfriend would be in the flat at the same time.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=3721

To be honest I truly hate being told during the booking she even just has a boyfriend. I want to think I stand a chance with her as part of my GFE. And I certainly do not want to know anything about him. I remember one escort who I have seen and chatting with would often tell me all about hers and his trials and tribulations he was going through on so many different issues and I really did not want to know nothing about him.

Offline Ali Katt

I agree with you to some extent Anth. I saw one young lady who had her boyfriend in the spare room of the flat while we were fucking, I didn't see him during the punt and only heard him once when he coughed and that was before any sex took place.

I also don't mind male "maids" in parlours. I only have a problem with WGs who insist on punters meeting the hubby before any sex takes place - a pre-vetting process if you will. I simply don't bother with these WGs.

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I would also feel very intimidated with one in there as I do not go for a quick bit of a sex. I go for the full on GFE type bookings and I would worry the guy would get jealous and burst into the room.
I tend to book shorter bookings, an hour or less, 30 mins is the standard for me. I've never feared anyone bursting in; if they did it would be an obvious scam and probably when you had your trousers round your ankles before sex takes place and that's any sex.

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And I certainly do not want to know anything about him. I remember one escort who I have seen and chatting with would often tell me all about hers and his trials and tribulations he was going through on so many different issues and I really did not want to know nothing about him.
I agree with this wholeheartedly. I don't want to be a part of the WGs private life and don't want her to be apart of mine. I use fake names, fake occupation and fake location - so any private questions WGs ask are answered with a bollocks reply. Most of what a WG says can be equally constructed the boyfriend thing to avoid punters asking them out for example; I doubt many WG can keep being a WG secret for long, but who knows?
« Last Edit: October 04, 2012, 08:13:04 PM by Ali Katt »

Offline mofukker

Not too different to auto-censored then.    :rolleyes:

exacatamundo ,also have you considered putting the positive/negative  reviews on another part of the ukp  site like prossienet do? one without comments ,  kind of like a feld reports for ukp?

Offline Joe Blob

exacatamundo ,also have you considered putting the positive/negative  reviews on another part of the ukp  site like prossienet do? one without comments ,  kind of like a feld reports for ukp?

I think that's a good idea. A report should be a report and nothing else; if people want to comment, it should be done in Service Providers.

Offline Ali Katt

I think that's a good idea. A report should be a report and nothing else; if people want to comment, it should be done in Service Providers.
I disagree. Being able to comment is really useful. I've read many field reports on auto-censored and seen WGs off the back of those glowing reviews only to find a mediocre shag; I would have loved to question their reports, or add my feedback without writing a report.

Offline Sarahs Back

I truly hate the idea of Boyfriends / Husbands being in the flat at the same time. To the level where I will feel cheated/conned for lack of better words if he were there and I was not told in advance.

I would also feel very intimidated with one in there as I do not go for a quick bit of a sex. I go for the full on GFE type bookings and I would worry the guy would get jealous and burst into the room.

It has never happened yet that one has been in the flat (I hope). But I remember I started this topic as a new girl in the region hinted her boyfriend would be in the flat at the same time.

she might of hinted just as a safety thing...
my heckles go up if a guy asks me if I have a driver with me or is a man gonna be in the flat...... this to me, means it could be a set up so I always answer with "dont worry we wont be disturbed" 
if he tells me he wont book me if a man is anywhere near..... needless to say I tell him .... its a no go for me......
i tend not to have boyfriends so cant go on about them.... but I am guilty of talking about exs  :blush:
i have a friend who is a working girl and she has a boyfriend.....(he always goes out though) but I know she always talks about him, but as they were swingers and they use to own a swingers club then I spose that's OK because it might have been of interest....... or is it?

Offline Matium

I think that's a good idea. A report should be a report and nothing else; if people want to comment, it should be done in Service Providers.

Comments should be on the same page as the Field Report.

Makes it more convenient and means people don't have to hunt all over the place for the relevant information.

Offline Ali Katt

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tend not to have boyfriends so cant go on about them.... but I am guilty of talking about exs  :blush:
i have a friend who is a working girl and she has a boyfriend.....(he always goes out though) but I know she always talks about him, but as they were swingers and they use to own a swingers club then I spose that's OK because it might have been of interest....... or is it?
TBH I can't think of anything more boring or a turn-off as a WG talking about her exes or current boyfriend\partner\pimp. I think on a punt the WG should focus her attentions on the punter and if the WG is talking about her relationships, then she isn't. As mentioned I don't care about a WG's private life past or present; I'm there to fuck, not have a conversation and a bitch about useless partners.

Imagine if when a punter walked in he kept talking about his girlfriend and how she can't satisfy him and how she's a bore. If I was a WG I would want to turn his voice off.

I think most punters aren't into swinging and most punters into group sex are interested in multiple women not MMF, but I could be wrong. So, if a WG has a male partner who is a swinger, I couldn't care less, I don't know about anyone else on here.

Offline haystacks79

To be honest I truly hate being told during the booking she even just has a boyfriend. I want to think I stand a chance with her as part of my GFE. And I certainly do not want to know anything about him. I remember one escort who I have seen and chatting with would often tell me all about hers and his trials and tribulations he was going through on so many different issues and I really did not want to know nothing about him.

I'm obviously in the minority here - it doesn't bother me at all. I've not been looking for a relationship, so don't worry about their relationship status, but I do need some chat to relax me, and if they talk about their partners as a part of that, I'm fine with that.

Offline k

TBH I can't think of anything more boring or a turn-off as a WG talking about her exes or current boyfriend\partner\pimp. I think on a punt the WG should focus her attentions on the punter and if the WG is talking about her relationships, then she isn't. As mentioned I don't care about a WG's private life past or present; I'm there to fuck, not have a conversation and a bitch about useless partners.

Talk such as this can however be indicative of what she says about "you" when she is with other punters, some of which could come close to identifying who "you" are.  This is a breach of discretion and a warning to clam up when talking about different things.  One WG I used to see regularly told me about a guy she'd met who was in the same profession as one that I deal with a lot - what she didn't know was the comparatively small number of people engaged in this particular profession that would match the description of that person.

Offline SteveNova

I'm obviously in the minority here - it doesn't bother me at all. I've not been looking for a relationship, so don't worry about their relationship status, but I do need some chat to relax me, and if they talk about their partners as a part of that, I'm fine with that.

Yes, a good attitude includes friendliness, and a chat during the session is all part of the experience.

Offline k

Regarding the original question: I would not be happy if another man was present, unless this had been by prior agreement.  I have been shown into wg's premises by men before (not uncommon with "oriental" girls), and that doesn't present a problem unless something about their demeanour is unsettling. 

Offline ParisB

 
i think what she did wrong was that she openly let the client see her husband /partner  and  I would agree would be off putting for most guys going to visit someone  and seeing the husband or partner in the living room while your upstairs shagging the misses  It might be ok  for some clients but i would imagine that the most would not be comfortable with it

but on the other hand  if the client heard someone moving around downstairs who's to say if its another girl, husband her friend or her dog.  My dog Hooker is 12stone plus  and if he was in my living room moving around you would definatly think its a another person in the house but unless you went into the living room you wouldn't know for sure
     
 Also  some houses creak and make noises and you often  cant  tell exactly where the noise is coming from -  it might sound like someone is downstairs but it could be the next door neighbours 

  and no escort in her right mind is going to tell you what security she has in place before you book,  in fact any guy asking about that is most likely going to get refused any booking and probably thought of as a potential robber /attacker



 

How do you guys feel about this? has this ever happened to you? I've seen other men at a punt but that's always been at LMP so to be expected. I was reading on saafe that a punter left after seeing the girls husband. I can't say i blame him. What i took issue with is how some said it should be none of our business if someone is there and not to tell us. I disagree, I think we should be told and then it's up to us to decide. Ofcourse they're entitled to their security over anything else, i support that entirely. However, seeing another guy would kinda put me off and god forbid we were going at it; me thinking we're alone and then i hear noises indicating we're not, that would freak me out and i would be thinking i've been set up here. Other girls in the premises i could care less about though. I've never seen another guy on a 121 and hope i never do to be honest.


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