I'm new here. Been reading around the forum this morning and am happy to see that everyone seems really cool and there's a very friendly atmosphere here. Not actually like I assumed this sort of forum would be like!
Anyway, I've recently been interested in the idea of punting. I'm 22 from south East England in Between Brighton and London.
My sex life thus far has been pretty crappy. I suffer a little with anxiety in everyday life, and it's spilled into my sex life.
I've only had sex with a few girls whereas i'm sure most of my friends are in the hundreds, lol.
I've also ruined lots of other opportunities with other girls due to what I believe in performance anxiety related erectile disfunction. (although on one of them occasions I can blame a drug that I was on that night!) Some I couldn't get hard with despite being very attracted to them,and some I just rejected out of fear of embarrassing myself!
Part of it is maybe a bit of concern over the size of my flacid penis (although I think it's OK when hard)
Also a fear of not getting hard (based on a few experiences in the past)
I seem to be OK with girls that I kind of know and where i'm able to do what I want to them, but the idea of a hooker kind of frightens me, and I fear that I wouldn't be able to get hard which I imagine being mortifying.
I was further put off my stories my friends told me who occasionally punted when they told me they weren't allowed to do lots of things (fingering, kissing etc), but they're kind of the bits that turn me on!
I don't think I really get 'turned on' when a girl just plays with my flacid penis like other guys seem too.
I'm trying to kind of 'teach'/train myself to get hard with just touching, though.
I've also recently tried to stop watching porn. I think I was actually addicted now that I think about it. (like 4 times per day for a while!)
HOPEFULLY this alone will help me out a fair bit.
Things like viagra haven't had any effect with me in the past. Possibly because i've been scammed and bought bunk gear, although, more likely that no pills will work if you're suffering some sort of anxiety attack!
I just wondered if anyone has any advice.
Also, were most of you already fairly experienced with 'regular' girls when you started punting?
Maybe i'm kind of jumping in at the deep end, but I feel as though I want more experience with girls, and I can't rely on my (lack of) good looks to pull girls in bars and get practice! That only really leaves me WG's!