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Offline AnthG

Edit - interesting - quoting the funny tags doesn't work! I ended up with an empty quote and post.

You can I believe use code tags to get past it.

Code: [Select]
[img]URL of the Photo[/img]
*Edit* Yes that works ^ So just do that Sarah.

Offline Sarahs Back


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nope still cant do it.... :wacko:

Do you have the url of the image? PM me if you prefer not to post it here.

Offline Sarahs Back



at last I think I have done it....
so this is St. Pancras Renaissance London Hotel.......

Offline AnthG

nope still cant do it.... :wacko:
No problems. So where exactly is it going wrong.

Do you have the URL for the photo? If not as Haystacks suggested you can upload the photo to an image hosting site like Imageshack or Photobucket.

If you have the URL it really is just a case of putting it inside the image tag code.

Or a further option is just page the URL into the page. Highlight it all (Hold down the left mouse button and drag it along till the URL is highlighted and then just push this button.





Offline Sarahs Back

No problems. So where exactly is it going wrong.

Do you have the URL for the photo? If not as Haystacks suggested you can upload the photo to an image hosting site like Imageshack or Photobucket.

If you have the URL it really is just a case of putting it inside the image tag code.

Or a further option is just page the URL into the page. Highlight it all (Hold down the left mouse button and drag it along till the URL is highlighted and then just push this button.


oh bless.... thank you guys x

Offline Suroya

Quote
I didn't post a link did I.

Thank You

Offline mh



at last I think I have done it....
so this is St. Pancras Renaissance London Hotel.......

I see they gave you the shit under the stairs room, there. The Harry Potter Privet Drive Suite...  :)

Offline Matium

For the WGs:

What made you become a WG?


Offline AnthG

For the WGs:

What made you become a WG?
If you are going to ask this, I will ask my "did you all have an unusual up upbringing, or extremely bad thing that happened in your childhood" that I was holding back from :)

Offline Sarahs Back

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What made you become a WG?
a bit personal but I dont mind sharing this with you

It was a fantasy of mine age 15 onwards.... I wanted to be chosen, the one that guys spoke about to their mates in the pub! and not laughed at
but as I thought it meant having to become a crack whore with a pimp so it just stayed a thought im my head
I was a goody two shoes for many years I had kids, I didnt drink or take drugs and I hated porn or anything to do with sex, and really hated SEX!
my friends were well to do types and I did craft groups at the school... can you believe
BUt!!! something happened in my life and all that changed, and I went a bit wonky..... at age 30 I become a swinger with a guy
soon after I started stripping..... it was about a month before I realise what the words Private Dance meant :unknown: I was just dancing for the guy! the poor things didn't have the heart to tell me, but when I was told.... I got quite turned on by it..... so jumped at the chance
then a year later started doing the gangbangs..... (what I was born to do)
split up with the swinger ex found it hard going to swingers clubs as a single female (and no I dont need someone to go with lol before anyone asks)
so I started internet dating but as I only wanted the shag and not the bulshit that comes with dating a guy... believe it or not the men dont like it when we turn the tables and do one night stands then dont want to keep in touch!.....  so I was getting annoyed with it
..... my friend suggested Adultwork and being an escort and been doing this about 7 years now....

BUT.......

if you want to analyse me to find out why I need to be this way

Dad was an alcoholic, and beat the shit out of mum and not the best of dads and left the country when 7 (yes that magic age)
I then age 19 went out with my father figure, who was an alcoholic, controlling and abusive..... and left him only to walk straight into the next abusive alcoholic drug addict controlling "C U Next Tuesday" 
I was ugly at school and bullied.... then was told I was ugly by those controlling freaks so much so that I believed them.....

so there you go! stereotype 100%

Offline Ali Katt

Thanks for sharing Sarah  :thumbsup: An interesting and open read. I'm with you on the whole casual relationship thing; I prefer sex without the fallout you get with relationships.

With regards to schoolyard kids calling you (or anyone else) ugly; the tables soon turn when people hit adult hood. Many people who were considered attractive when I went to school with are now fat and fugly, they just look after their kids and have shitty jobs. Time's a healer.

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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Well as for me a few similarities to Sarah. I was 33 met a bloke,  he convinced me to try the swinging scene.  I honestly up to this point in my life knew nothing of the scene, have a very straight forward attitude about sex as in you only did it with people you love etc. and I wasn't keen at all. We never did the clubs just the sites in other words he would do all the emailing, arranging etc  they would come to our house and basically we would have a threesome(MMF usually sometimes couples). I was surprised by how much I enjoyed the experience as in having sex with strangers until that point my sex life was very ordinary I suppose. Although when we were with another couple I really hated seeing him have sex with the other women which caused numerous rows so we decided to stop and just see males. Again because of my sheltered sex life  I couldn't understand the attraction for him of watching me with other men and he was straight I really didn't get it. :angelgirl:

He then "came across " adult work, in hindsight I think he had known about it and probably using it himself for some time, pointed it out to me  and basically "sold it to me " on the basis that it was basically doing the same as what we were doing now but I could get paid for having sex with other men instead. He took some pictures , we created a profile and of course being completely brand new  to AW and escorting I was bombarded with emails. I replied to every single one :rolleyes:, which took ages as I had to google most of the terminology as I didn't have a clue :angelgirl:. Lucky for me my very first appointment was an outcall to an apartment in Otley and he said he was a fireman, maybe he was maybe he wasn't but anyway he was around my age and physically attractive JACKPOT !! :lol:

As time went on things changed A LOT for one they weren't all good looking firemen  :( I began to get regular clients and build up a rapport with a few of them as you do. The guy I was with at the time hadn't factored this in to his scheme of things  and began to become very insecure. As for me I was being paid to have sex with some nice men  (ok not all nice but the majority)who paid me compliments (something he never did ) and were nice to me in general. I soon realised I was with this bloke out of habit and security rather than love or anything else and my clients had shown me that not all men are the same there are actually some nice ones (I'd never been good at picking men when I was younger in fact still not that great now :)).

Anyway after about 2 years or so, I eventually removed my blinkers I decided to leave, we as a couple had not had sex for about a year or so I knew he was seeing escorts but  he never admitted it. Then the final nail in the coffin was when faced with hard facts he blatantly lied to my face. This came about because I received an email  on AW from a WG asking if I knew who L****0**8 as she had received an email from him and my user name had flagged up as an alias. He was wanting to make an appointment with her and she had asked him why my name had come up on his profile and he had told her he had bought his laptop off me so that must be why. Obviously :P it was the same IP address but she contacted me as she was concerned he had somehow hacked into my profile.  So busted  :D

Anyway as I said I left and after a few difficult months him making false bookings etc, leaving neg feedback etc (the ones that say removed on my feedback now) with the view of if I get a bad reputation I won't be able to work so will have to go back to him etc. I never went back to him and have never looked back. I am happier now than I have ever been, I am single and will remain so for the foreseeable future, I do what I want when I want and with who I want. My family, including my children (19 and 21) and friends all know what I do hence being able to put face pics on my profile. I would of rather not told them but that was one of the threats to go back to him that he would tell them what I did for a living so I told them first difficult time but fine now :). The only thing I dislike about being a WG is it can sometimes be a rather lonely existence I work alone and  even though everyone knows it's not something we talk about as in my girls don't say how was work Mum. I have decided to get a part-time job in the new year, no degree here so just a secretary/receptionist more for the social side than the money in fact I will probably lose money by doing it but my head will benefit ;)

So Analysis

In short : Met a controlling man who thought he was in control of me and he was at the beginning. Eventually saw him for what he was through meeting men on the paid sex scene which I was introduced to be him. Through this job I have completely changed for the better as in confidence about myself, standing up for myself, having an opinion, and not thinking I'm ugly etc. So even through at the start I was not in control of my life, he was without all of that I truly believe  I would not be the person I am today and I like me 1000% more now than I did then. So would I change anything NO not at all, any regrets NONE.  :)

PS : Sorry didn't mean it to be that long

Thanks to both Sarah's for sharing their stories.

It's good to hear that escorting has empowered you not only to regain control of your lives but that it has also put things into perspective and given you the confidence needed to ditch controlling and abusive partners. I suppose empowerment is one of the lesser known positives that is never talked about because most peoples perception of prostitution is always 'pimps', 'drugs' and 'exploited women'. Of course these things sadly exist but sometimes the good experiences need to be shared as well, you never know who it might help.

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Offline Matium

Both Sarah and Sarah Jayne deserve a hug!

{{{{{{hug}}}}}}

For the WGs:

What made you become a WG?

i was working for xxxpanded on the sex lines & because of the ppp rules couldnt chat about anything taboo, so my reg suggested adultwork where we could have free rein to chat about anything with no limits, while on aw got asked if i fancied escorting, told my ex at the time i was going to try it whether he liked it or not, i like fucking strangers to me with bipolar it gives an amazing buzz, one of my shrinks tried to say it was an effect of that & felt it was safer me doing that than the condition deteriorating & going up propositioning guys for sex



Offline yumyum3

Thanks so much two Sarah's and RB. Didn't mind the long posts as they were compelling, intriguing and very human. I found myself turned on too with your honesty about sex and knowing what you want from it. Live long and prosper  :)

Thanks so much two Sarah's and RB. Didn't mind the long posts as they were compelling, intriguing and very human. I found myself turned on too with your honesty about sex and knowing what you want from it. Live long and prosper  :)

+1

Offline Matium

For the WGs:

What was your very first booking like?

Were you confident, shy, nervous, embarrassed, terrified?

Offline Sarahs Back

well as I was a swinger doing orgies and stripping in front of crowds of guys, then gangbangs, and internet dating where I met strangers in the woods...... nervous is not something I do!
my first paid for sex was actually at a swingers club (Oasis)..... a guy called Ross, we were just talking about a girl that went in the toilet with a guy and he said she was making money ..... I said wow what a turn on, so he offered and off we went into the dirty toilets.....
I only charged him £10 for a blow job OWO and CIM because it was just about the act of being paid and not about who much I thought it was worth....
I bet he couldnt believe his luck!

Offline sarahjayneleeds

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For the WGs:

What was your very first booking like?

Were you confident, shy, nervous, embarrassed, terrified?

As I said in the above post of how it all began mine was an outcall locally to a  fireman. Well he told me he was!  :rolleyes: Could of been though I suppose he was around 30, OK looking and quite a decent body.

The day of the appointment I had spent most of it saying shall I go or not an basically working myself up into a right tiz. :) Up to this point in my life I had only had sex with other men whilst my then partner was there so the thought of flying solo so to speak terrified me. What if he was ugly?, what if he smelt?, what if there's more than one of them there?, what if I know him? etc... the list was endless.

Anyway my then partner drove me to the appointment it was a newish block of apartments not far away with a communal carpark so he said he would stay in the carpark and wait. He told me to call him when I got in just to let him know the bloke was OK which I did. I suppose in some ways it helped knowing that he was close by should I need him. I got in and out of the car three times before I actually managed to ring the bell  :lol:.

I was absolutely  terrified walking up the stairs to flat, he was waiting at the door and as I said above OK looking and about my age etc.... I remember thinking thank God he looks normal  :D although I'm not sure what I expected him to look like maybe dressed in a flasher mac or something  :rolleyes:

The appointment itself was clumsy I had no idea what the hell I was suppose to do apart from the obvious  ;) it was basically a hour of clumsy fumbling and dis-organisation we made it to the bedroom eventually... when it came to the point of actually having intercourse we had to stop because I had left my handbag in the lounge and that's where the condoms were :rolleyes: . Anyway we eventually got round to the point of me being there and it turned out it was the first time he had ever booked an Escort  so neither of us knew what we were doing  :). Trust me if this guy had been an experienced punter  and written a field report on me I would of never worked again  :lol: and quite possibly I did put him off booking any others in the future. :)

Turned out I was there for 2 hours in all (1 hour booking)  but only 2 missed calls from my ex  :( he said well there's only one way out of the building so I knew  you were alright Tosser !!!. When I had left I was on a massive high I had made half a weeks wages for a few hours work, the guy had paid me compliments during the appointment,OK mainly about my body not my performance  :rolleyes: and I didn't feel seedy, dirty or anything like I thought I would quite the opposite really. So the very next day I took another appointment and the rest as they say is history  :lol:


first time was kind of disastrous, he broke down about a mile from my old place on a dark back road, was so nervous when i went to pick him up he said i ran over his foot, by time he got in the car the nervous excitement was building & i drove like a maniac back to mine with him gripping on for grim death

had to help him up the stairs got to bedroom we didnt know what to say to each other after about 5 mins of giggling like hyenas we tentantively kissed then things ran smoothly

even now with regs have saw loads of times i still get the nervous excitement


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