I'm usually pretty vanilla but I thought I'd try and push the boundaries by trying a bit of BDSM, in a dom role. Nothing too heavy or painful, just the main principles.
Now, I wouldn't know where to start. I've seen 50 shades and all that, but preferably I would have liked to find a partner/prossie to help me find my way. Perhaps teaching me the basics e.g. how to tie someone up, mental & physical domination, and so on.
Not sure if I'm in the right direction, but I see so many people in here who seem to be engaged in this - how the hell did they learn all this stuff?
Any suggestions/comments would be greatly appreciated