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No I am not light skinned nor too dark just somewhere in the middle but this lady didnt know the difference so why bother stating "no blacks".

Too dark?

Are you sure there is no self-hatred involved?

What about another theory?

She did notice you are black... not that unlikely an assumption, unless you spotted a labrador wearing an harness at side of bed.

But she didn't mention it, because she was too afraid of your reaction. Maybe that why you didn't enjoy session that much, because at some unconscious level you know she didn't feel comfortable. (I know you say she didn't notice... but quite possibly she's a pretty good actress.)

Good theory.

A prostitute who states "no blacks" protects both parties from having an experience that is not enjoyable.

But I guess there will always be one that slips through the net, for whatever reason.  :unknown:

Offline James999

No way. That wouldnt really be fair on her. Anyways shes no longer on adultwork anymore nd if she is it must be in another area or something like that.

More likely you made it up  :hi:

Offline Wayang

Sounds like a total fabrication designed to create the situation where he can play the race card.
If it is not a fabrication the guy is behaving, as I said earlier, like a total arsehole.  The WG says no blacks so the idiot sets out to test the situation to find out how black is black.
And then apparently pays for FS but walks out.  Sounds like the NoW doing a brothel investigation "Yes, I visited the brothel but never had sex there."

Offline Sailormack

My "bawbag twitcher" is definately working  :wacko:

Offline mh

Surely the colour of your skin should have been a clue.   :crazy:

 :lol:

Superb, but I just had to quickly invent a story for my colleagues here to explain why I just spluttered my coffee out all over my monitor...

Offline henderson

If the lady rents out her body for sexual services then she is a prostitute, pure and simple, it's not a nasty word, it is the correct word.  ;)

Try saying that to a sensitive prossie's face and they'll probably cut the booking short after a 1st warning if you're lucky. That includes other related words like ho or slut etc. My guess is that in reality you never use the word "prostitute" when you're meeting with escorts.

Offline Wayang

Another stir coming up. 
Another opportunity to try and stimulate an argument over ground so well trodden it is compacted like concrete.

Offline henderson

What about another theory?

She did notice you are black... not that unlikely an assumption, unless you spotted a labrador wearing an harness at side of bed.

But she didn't mention it, because she was too afraid of your reaction. Maybe that why you didn't enjoy session that much, because at some unconscious level you know she didn't feel comfortable. (I know you say she didn't notice... but quite possibly she's a pretty good actress.)

No she asked me for my nationality before I went into the room. She also said she was spanish but she was speaking Russian to her friend next door. So misleading goes both ways.

Offline henderson

Sounds like a total fabrication designed to create the situation where he can play the race card.
If it is not a fabrication the guy is behaving, as I said earlier, like a total arsehole.  The WG says no blacks so the idiot sets out to test the situation to find out how black is black.
And then apparently pays for FS but walks out.  Sounds like the NoW doing a brothel investigation "Yes, I visited the brothel but never had sex there."

Well works both ways she claimed to be Spanish but she was speaking some eastern european language to her friend.

Offline mh

Try saying that to a sensitive prossie's face and they'll probably cut the booking short after a 1st warning if you're lucky. That includes other related words like ho or slut etc. My guess is that in reality you never use the word "prostitute" when you're meeting with escorts.

Many people on here will say "sensitive prossie" is a non sequitur.  :sarcastic:

I've called several of the girls I've met far worse things than this and they have responded most eagerly like a jockey using a whip on a horse. e.g. "you're a skanky, dirty, prostitute whore who fucks for cash", "yes I am, stick your cock in my arse now". (and to be clear I am playing the part only of the first speaker there...)

Isn't this how all punts proceed? Being polite doesn't work. "Excuse me young lady, I know I've already paid you for this, but that's no reflection on your lifestyle choices or the situation in which you have found yourself and who am I to judge anyway, but would you mind awfully licking my balls for me? Thanks ever so much."

But I guess you are talking about specifically trying to insult someone. You'd get the same result telling someone who claims to be a "facilities management operative" that he just unblocks shitty toilets. Might be the truth but you're using it as a way of denigrating them. On the other hand a fair percentage might respond "yeah, so what, it's what I do".

Offline Wayang

Well works both ways she claimed to be Spanish but she was speaking some eastern european language to her friend.

Tick tock - a well known diversion - change the subject to divert attention from the OP. 

No she asked me for my nationality before I went into the room. She also said she was spanish but she was speaking Russian to her friend next door. So misleading goes both ways.

Did you suspect that "no blacks" had nothing to do with physical appearance?

If so, what was it about her profile that gave you this impression? Did she state a particular nationality? Are you often mistaken for non-black?

I am trying to work out why you thought you could mislead her in the first place.  :unknown:

Back to your topic, I tell "escorts" my name is John Shaft when really it's Peter Parker. They fall for it every time.  :hi:

Offline jackdaw

Did you suspect that "no blacks" had nothing to do with physical appearance?

If so, what was it about her profile that gave you this impression? Did she state a particular nationality? Are you often mistaken for non-black?

I am trying to work out why you thought you could mislead her in the first place.  :unknown:

Back to your topic, I tell "escorts" my name is John Shaft when really it's Peter Parker. They fall for it every time.  :hi:

The old Spiderman costume trick, works every time. I always use that one when WG objects to seeing an 80 year old.

Offline henderson

Did you suspect that "no blacks" had nothing to do with physical appearance?

If so, what was it about her profile that gave you this impression? Did she state a particular nationality? Are you often mistaken for non-black?

I am trying to work out why you thought you could mislead her in the first place.  :unknown:

Back to your topic, I tell "escorts" my name is John Shaft when really it's Peter Parker. They fall for it every time.  :hi:

Well Indians and other south asians or some brazilians are not always too dissimilar to black people in terms of skintone.

Offline Jimmyredcab

Try saying that to a sensitive prossie's face and they'll probably cut the booking short after a 1st warning if you're lucky. That includes other related words like ho or slut etc. My guess is that in reality you never use the word "prostitute" when you're meeting with escorts.

My guess is that you are not a genuine black punter, in fact you could even be a pro$$ie.   :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Well Indians and other south asians or some brazilians are not always too dissimilar to black people in terms of skintone.

Are you often/sometimes mistaken for non-black in your everyday life?

Offline henderson

Many people on here will say "sensitive prossie" is a non sequitur.  :sarcastic:

I've called several of the girls I've met far worse things than this and they have responded most eagerly like a jockey using a whip on a horse. e.g. "you're a skanky, dirty, prostitute whore who fucks for cash", "yes I am, stick your cock in my arse now". (and to be clear I am playing the part only of the first speaker there...)

Isn't this how all punts proceed? Being polite doesn't work. "Excuse me young lady, I know I've already paid you for this, but that's no reflection on your lifestyle choices or the situation in which you have found yourself and who am I to judge anyway, but would you mind awfully licking my balls for me? Thanks ever so much."

But I guess you are talking about specifically trying to insult someone. You'd get the same result telling someone who claims to be a "facilities management operative" that he just unblocks shitty toilets. Might be the truth but you're using it as a way of denigrating them. On the other hand a fair percentage might respond "yeah, so what, it's what I do".

http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=clients+calling+you+names&rlz=1C1ASAC_enGB473GB473&sugexp=chrome,mod=18&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

Look at the title of the 2nd link. It only took 2 secs of googling to disprove your theory. Some do not want to hear of it in anyway. They see it to be degrading.

Offline henderson

My guess is that you are not a genuine black punter, in fact you could even be a pro$$ie.   :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

Me a prossie? Never. I wouldn't ever sell my body no matter how much I was paid. Accepting payment for something so intimate would disgust me. But I have no problem paying for the company of an attractive lady.

Are you often/sometimes mistaken for non-black in your everyday life?

Not everyday but maybe once in a while. But I have seen a fair number of non-blacks with darker skin tones in everyday life. So maybe that was the reason I might have thought that she wouldn't know the difference.

Offline Jimmyredcab

I have seen a fair number of non-blacks with darker skin tones in everyday life. So maybe that was the reason I might have thought that she wouldn't know the difference.

Please excuse my ignorance but what is your definition of a "black" guy, is it just West Indians or would it include all races such as Nigerians.   :unknown:

Offline Dani

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Surely is some of us pro$$ies find it degrading to be called a pro$$ie then surely we are in the wrong job.  A women who sells sex is a prostitute. Look it up in the dictionary.  Its the name of the job we do.  If the women you are saying to get offended perhaps you should look at yourself and how you talk to people. 
As for the no blacks thing that is their choice but I know if I had specified a type of person I refused to see yet they managed to trick me into seeing them and I then realised they would find themselves being ejected very quickly.  The newer girls who have not found their confidence may feel forced to go through with the booking though, please notice I said feel forced before you decide to say you didnt force her, which would lead to a really crap service.
Personally I am disgusted by your behaviour as you do not know how it has affected her or her reasons for not seeing black men.   You are the type of punter (if you are even a punter which I doubt) that all pro$$ies dread to see and normally put straight on their blacklist.  You obviously have no sense of boundaries and what will you do next to try and prove a point???  A girl says no bareback, so you try to see if she will notice you pulling the condom off?  No one has actually ever made a post that made my skin crawl but you have achieved it.

I have quite a few black customers and they all have said they would never try and see a girl who says no blacks/asians/chinese etc as they have respect for themselves and would not want to be with someone who does not want to see them.  This thread makes no sense :(

Offline softlad

But I was wondering if you guys ever felt guilty by misleading an escort?.

To answer part of the OP...
It's a healthy precaution to 'mislead' all pro$$ies to keep 'em off scent.

Mislead them on your personal details, safety first remember.  ;)

Mislead them on your occupation, don't let 'em think you're well paid or they'll never cut you loyalty discounts etc.

Mislead them on how frequent you punt, I always make out I'm new to this so they don't think I'm some dirty old man and I think they get a bit more into it...
It could be off putting to them if they think you're seeing ho's all over the shop... :cool:

Mislead them by telling them 'sure I will return' so they try a bit harder to please, when you know you just want to unload and get the fuck outta there... :scare:

Mislead them by promising you will tell her when you're going to cum as she blows you, only to 'forget' as it was so nice...
infact telling her "that was the best blowie I've ever had" usually helps them digest your donation a little easier... :D

« Last Edit: September 21, 2012, 02:02:18 PM by softlad »

Offline mh

http://www.google.co.uk/search?q=clients+calling+you+names&rlz=1C1ASAC_enGB473GB473&sugexp=chrome,mod=18&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8

Look at the title of the 2nd link. It only took 2 secs of googling to disprove your theory. Some do not want to hear of it in anyway. They see it to be degrading.

Oh that's simply hilarious! You have apparently disproved my theory with a Google Search that turned up a posting on Saafe. You have got to be kidding me!!!!!

And in said posting (1) one client called her a bastard and (2) the other called her a hooker. I can't see any circumstance in which "bastard" would be used or acceptable during sex either in jest, lust or anger. We're not talking about general insults here, we're talking about alternative terms for escort. And at the other extreme "Hooker" is so mild as to render the writer as far too delicate a flower to associate with ruffian men.

Offline henderson

Personally I am disgusted by your behaviour as you do not know how it has affected her or her reasons for not seeing black men.   You are the type of punter (if you are even a punter which I doubt) that all pro$$ies dread to see and normally put straight on their blacklist.  You obviously have no sense of boundaries and what will you do next to try and prove a point???  A girl says no bareback, so you try to see if she will notice you pulling the condom off?  No one has actually ever made a post that made my skin crawl but you have achieved it.

I have quite a few black customers and they all have said they would never try and see a girl who says no blacks/asians/chinese etc as they have respect for themselves and would not want to be with someone who does not want to see them.  This thread makes no sense :(

Girls lying about their nationality is very common on adultwork and this is a fact that all punters are familiar with. This lady told me she was spanish when in fact she was east european. I 100% bet you think that the girl lying isnt disgusting one bit. Secondly what makes you think I would even ever consider bareback with an escort girl. I've never even accepted an uncovered BJ in all my punts. To be honest one girl was even very overjoyed when I told her I want covered oral instead. I dont see how exposing yourself to preventable uncurable diseases is wise. My health is actually very important to me.

Not everyday but maybe once in a while. But I have seen a fair number of non-blacks with darker skin tones in everyday life. So maybe that was the reason I might have thought that she wouldn't know the difference.

Your features are such that once in a while you are mistaken for non-black with a dark skin tone.

Fair enough.


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