Britishdesibeauty / Safia - Derby

[j122]

First negative in 2yrs of punting knew my luck couldn't last forever just a shame it was with this girl as have heard good things from trusted members.

Contact was made initially through UKP, so Safia was knew I was a member of here and expressed interest in making an outcall booking.  Coms started off well and I was asked if I'd mind changing my usual outcall hotel for one in Derby. I asked where abouts and that was where the first one was read & not replied to, I sent a follow up one the day after & got a reply for city centre and after putting forward a couple of suggestions found a suitable one and booked in. I sent another email to finalise the time and also confirm what services were OK. This was another that was read and no reply, gave it a day & sent another email, but hasn't logged on AW since though has on here.

So the main reason for the negative is that I'm out of pocket for booking away from my usual hotel, if I'd of stuck with my usual I'd of probably sorted out a plan B as it would've been easier, but being it being in a different place I'd lost the urge of going through the palaver. 


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[RedKettle]

Sorry you had a bad experience - she is a nightmare to book, in my experience.  I remember being binned for some rubbish excuse, which I think mentioned in my review.

I gave a positive as the eventual meet was good and she is a very fit bird.  However I have never gone back which I think is partly knowing the issues around getting a booking and no real wow factor for me (there clearly is for others). 

The fact I have never gone back might mean that my positive should have been a neutral - I recall I said at the time I was not sure on the grade.

Better luck with the next punt.

[Timmy2]

Not done herself any favours J
Off my hotlist now
Sorry you had this experience and out of pocket

[Safiaxo]

Apologise for not turning up I just checked my aw I wasn't ignoring you or anything I completely forgot and mistakes happen I offered you fees off and this can be up to the hotel amount to make it up. Once again I'm really really sorry.
Being understanding could help sometimes. This really stresses me out.
I won't be seeing anyone new now this is an important year for me (for those that know me) and I have a million and one things to do so I'm really swamped and I forget bookings, and make mistakes, once again I'm sorry. 😩😩xxx

[sanjman]

Damn, that's really poor form!!  I've seen safia a few times and know how notoriously bad her organisation skills are. 

To the stage where I never book her in advance, only same day (so pot luck if she's working) and even then probably text multiple times to recheck if she's still free and will be on time.

Right up to the point I'm about to leave home but won't leave the drive way until I hear back that she's definitely still on!

Sad, I know!

[Timmy2]

Someone needs to have words with her...... she has damaged her reputation 
Raddy
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didn't see she had replied

[Knny]

Is she really worth seeing over the likes of mia and Maya in Derby?

[CoolTiger]

Feel for you J122, as I have constantly recommended on here about Safia being the best Indian WG that I know of at the moment.

Wish she could organise herself properly. Having seen her numerous times, I've recommended her highly to numerous members on here, including yourself, so I do feel partly
responsible when this happens.

I know she has offered you the cost of hotel off your next punt, but in meantime this has buggered up your weekend.

[CoolTiger]

Damn, that's really poor form!!  I've seen safia a few times and know how notoriously bad her organisation skills are. 

To the stage where I never book her in advance, only same day (so pot luck if she's working) and even then probably text multiple times to recheck if she's still free and will be on time.

Right up to the point I'm about to leave home but won't leave the drive way until I hear back that she's definitely still on!

Sad, I know!

Sanj and imran1234 were the ones who recommended safia to me a few years ago, and what a recommendation she turned out to be.


Above applies to any booking that I make, especially if it involves travelling to Derby or Nottingham.

[CoolTiger]

Apologise for not turning up I just checked my aw I wasn't ignoring you or anything I completely forgot and mistakes happen I offered you fees off and this can be up to the hotel amount to make it up. Once again I'm really really sorry.
Being understanding could help sometimes. This really stresses me out.
I won't be seeing anyone new now this is an important year for me (for those that know me) and I have a million and one things to do so I'm really swamped and I forget bookings, and make mistakes, once again I'm sorry. 😩😩xxx

Good to see you come here and give your side of the story, but as Raddy says, you need to sort yourself out.

I am aware of how many new punters try to get hold of you (I had x2 PM's last week asking for Safia's number) so this decision may be the best given your circumstances.

I would suggest that you post the same on your AW profile.

[CoolTiger]

Is she really worth seeing over the likes of mia and Maya in Derby?

I won't be seeing anyone new now this is an important year for me (for those that know me) and I have a million and one things to do so I'm really swamped and I forget bookings, and make mistakes, once again I'm sorry. 😩😩xxx

Does this answer your query?
 

[j122]

Apologise for not turning up I just checked my aw I wasn't ignoring you or anything I completely forgot and mistakes happen I offered you fees off and this can be up to the hotel amount to make it up. Once again I'm really really sorry.

Thanks for the reply Safia.

She did send me this message on AW about 30mins before posting here.

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didn't see she had replied

Might be a delay on Safia's posts as I'm pretty sure it wasn't there at 10:04 when it says it was posted.

but in meantime this has buggered up your weekend.

& I'd abstained from wanking for a week so had stored up a hefty load for her!

[leicesterdude]

Being understanding could help sometimes. This really stresses me out.

Your not the only one love.

Let's not be candid here. There's absolutely no mistake in checking an email and ignoring it. If you've gone to the trouble to set up shop. Get a presence on the Internet.  Get bookings in. And confirming them. Getting the punter to change his hotel for your convenience, you know how to check and reply to emails, and there's no mistake about it.

And the most foolish thing you can do is come on here and mug people off even more with even more tripe.

Goodluck with your (busy) year.

Thanks to the op. You've saved me some cash. 

[Owwhatanight]

Your not the only one love.

Let's not be candid here. There's absolutely no mistake in checking an email and ignoring it. If you've gone to the trouble to set up shop. Get a presence on the Internet.  Get bookings in. And confirming them. Getting the punter to change his hotel for your convenience, you know how to check and reply to emails, and there's no mistake about it.

And the most foolish thing you can do is come on here and mug people off even more with even more tripe.

Goodluck with your (busy) year.

Thanks to the op. You've saved me some cash. 

I am sure you are turning into Diehard dude  

[leicesterdude]

Lol I don't get the reference. 

Probably haven't read enough posts on here!

 

[Corsaire]

I think leicesterdude is completely correct. I notice she comes on and starts to apologise but by the end has blamed everyone else for so many emails and not being understanding. How understanding was she when it mattered?

[jasonleics41]

I am sure you are turning into Diehard dude  

+1 

[jasonleics41]

Thanks for the review, this is another I had on my hot list and I now won't be bothering.

[leicesterdude]

I am sure you are turning into Diehard dude  

Lol. Now I've read a few of his posts. I'm convinced me and him should  be drinking buddies

[CoolTiger]

Lol. Now I've read a few of his posts. I'm convinced me and him should  be drinking buddies

Steady on LD, we don't want to lose you to the dark side!! 

[Timmy2]

+1000

[Diehard]

Apologise for not turning up I just checked my aw I wasn't ignoring you or anything I completely forgot and mistakes happen I offered you fees off and this can be up to the hotel amount to make it up. Once again I'm really really sorry.
Being understanding could help sometimes. This really stresses me out.
I won't be seeing anyone new now this is an important year for me (for those that know me) and I have a million and one things to do so I'm really swamped and I forget bookings, and make mistakes, once again I'm sorry. 😩😩xxx

What sort of bollocks are you talking about! An apology won't do. Have you compensated the guy for his lost money with the hotel. If you cannot manage your own diary go and become a hairdresser, don't waste punters valuable time. Sadly you are typical of most english escorts under 30. Perhaps there needs to be an app that manages hookers diaries!

[dubs]

What sort of bollocks are you talking about! An apology won't do. Have you compensated the guy for his lost money with the hotel. If you cannot manage your own diary go and become a hairdresser, don't waste punters valuable time. Sadly you are typical of most english escorts under 30. Perhaps there needs to be an app that manages hookers diaries!

There is. Its called adultwork.

[CoolTiger]

What sort of bollocks are you talking about! An apology won't do. Have you compensated the guy for his lost money with the hotel. If you cannot manage your own diary go and become a hairdresser, don't waste punters valuable time. Sadly you are typical of most english escorts under 30. Perhaps there needs to be an app that manages hookers diaries!

Now that's the sort of reply we all expect from DH 

Not the best example You do realise that hairdressers HAVE to have diaries booking in their customers weeks ahead 

[Timmy2]

Me and Mrs Raddy are booked in . But unfortunately I haven't had to book an hotel room 
Raddy

[Diehard]

Now that's the sort of reply we all expect from DH 

Not the best example You do realise that hairdressers HAVE to have diaries booking in their customers weeks ahead 

Not when I see the hairdresser, they fit me in if just turn up, one minute haircut don't require a diary and to be fair the same applies to my fucking ability 😄

[Timmy2]

Ha ha ....nice one DH 

[CoolTiger]

Not when I see the hairdresser, they fit me in if just turn up, one minute haircut don't require a diary and to be fair the same applies to my fucking ability 😄

Didn't realise you were a baldy 

[Diehard]

Didn't realise you were a baldy 

I am tango man! Sadly that why my application to be Milk Tray man got rejected I think.

[CoolTiger]

I am tango man! Sadly that why my application to be Milk Tray man got rejected I think.

Try the Hamlet Cigar one 

[Diehard]

Try the Hamlet Cigar one 

I haven't got a comb over mate, I'm like Jason statham! See now u know why girls love me so!!!! 

[Safiaxo]

What sort of bollocks are you talking about! An apology won't do. Have you compensated the guy for his lost money with the hotel. If you cannot manage your own diary go and become a hairdresser, don't waste punters valuable time. Sadly you are typical of most english escorts under 30. Perhaps there needs to be an app that manages hookers diaries!

I can't believe how incredibly rude you are. I've not once put any of you down. If any of you met me you'd know I'm actually the nicest person.
In relation to compensating him, I did message him last night after the review offering to pay to hotel fee because I felt terrible.

[Safiaxo]

I could easily of just kept my head up and ignored it but I'm trying to make it right. Whether he wants the botel fees off the booking or whether he wants a full refund for the hotel. I'm happy to do either to make it okay. X

[_Bender_]

I haven't got a comb over mate, I'm like Jason statham! See now u know why girls love me so!!!! 

Ha haa like that.

Back to the OP, I've seen Safia a few times and always had an excellent time, the only reason I've not been back, and it's been said before, she's dam hard to get hold of, and I think she only works when showing "available"

All my past bookings with her have been same day incalls, even a last minute one which maybe better?

[CoolTiger]

I haven't got a comb over mate, I'm like Jason statham! See now u know why girls love me so!!!! 

How come you never reciprocate then?   

[Diehard]

How come you never reciprocate then?   

Because if it's a love hate relationship and they love me then ...............

[leicesterdude]

I can't believe how incredibly rude you are. I've not once put any of you down. If any of you met me you'd know I'm actually the nicest person.
In relation to compensating him, I did message him last night after the review offering to pay to hotel fee because I felt terrible.

I don't want to drone on. But since you are, I feel compelled too.

My definition of incredibly rude is different to yours. Mine, is a service provider who agrees and confirms a booking. And makes the poor guy book and waste a hotel room where he doesn't want to. Then ignores him completely thereafter for no good reason at all. And hence totally fucks up his weekend and his plans.

Your only attempting to grovel now because this is out and it's very transparent. The fact that you waited for this review to go up before actually replying to him proves that.

And so does all the comments on her about you not being able to even organise a tit wank, let alone bookings more than an hour in advance.

I'll keep my eyes peeled for your third profile.

[Owwhatanight]

Not when I see the hairdresser, they fit me in if just turn up, one minute haircut don't require a diary and to be fair the same applies to my fucking ability 😄

It's good to see you still have your Sence of humour DieHard  we have missed you lately 

[Picti]

I can't believe how incredibly rude you are. I've not once put any of you down. If any of you met me you'd know I'm actually the nicest person.
In relation to compensating him, I did message him last night after the review offering to pay to hotel fee because I felt terrible.

Hello Safia. We've never met but I'm a nice man. I also think that J122 is probably a nice man, he certainly tried very hard to accommodate your preferences when arranging the meeting. I've no reason to doubt that you're nice, just as other guys also testify to your beauty and the quality of your service. Your reliability however is very much under question and it seems to be a chronic and enduring problem. As such it's reasonable to expect you to address it proactively rather in retrospect (with a self serving rationale) and not only when someone posts a review.

We respect that you have a life beyond escorting and other demands on your time, but so do we. By your actions you seem to infer that you and what you're doing are more important than anyone else; on a business level that's nonsensical and on a personal level it's offensive. So we simply ask that you organise yourself better and properly manage your escorting time in the context of your other demands, and that you show appropriate recognition and consideration of other people's circumstances and the efforts they make to meet you rather than wasting their time. I hope I put that nicely.

[leicesterdude]

Nailed it. +1

[CoolTiger]

Hello Safia. We've never met but I'm a nice man. I also think that J122 is probably a nice man, he certainly tried very hard to accommodate your preferences when arranging the meeting. I've no reason to doubt that you're nice, just as other guys also testify to your beauty and the quality of your service. Your reliability however is very much under question and it seems to be a chronic and enduring problem. As such it's reasonable to expect you to address it proactively rather in retrospect (with a self serving rationale) and not only when someone posts a review.

We respect that you have a life beyond escorting and other demands on your time, but so do we. By your actions you seem to infer that you and what you're doing are more important than anyone else; on a business level that's nonsensical and on a personal level it's offensive. So we simply ask that you organise yourself better and properly manage your escorting time in the context of your other demands, and that you show appropriate recognition and consideration of other people's circumstances and the efforts they make to meet you rather than wasting their time. I hope I put that nicely.

P, you've got yourself a job lined up with the Plain English Campaign 

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[Picti]

Apparently I'm a very talented oralist

[j122]

We've sorted something out, so looking good again. 

[Safiaxo]

Hello Safia. We've never met but I'm a nice man. I also think that J122 is probably a nice man, he certainly tried very hard to accommodate your preferences when arranging the meeting. I've no reason to doubt that you're nice, just as other guys also testify to your beauty and the quality of your service. Your reliability however is very much under question and it seems to be a chronic and enduring problem. As such it's reasonable to expect you to address it proactively rather in retrospect (with a self serving rationale) and not only when someone posts a review.

We respect that you have a life beyond escorting and other demands on your time, but so do we. By your actions you seem to infer that you and what you're doing are more important than anyone else; on a business level that's nonsensical and on a personal level it's offensive. So we simply ask that you organise yourself better and properly manage your escorting time in the context of your other demands, and that you show appropriate recognition and consideration of other people's circumstances and the efforts they make to meet you rather than wasting their time. I hope I put that nicely.

I agree with everything you say.

[CoolTiger]

We've sorted something out, so looking good again. 

 

[Picti]

We've sorted something out, so looking good again. 

Great. Hope that she over compensates and comprehensively ruins you.

[CoolTiger]

Great. Hope that she over compensates and comprehensively ruins you.

You do have a way with words!!!

I bet every punter now wishes they were J122 

[Picti]

I agree with everything you say.

Thank you. Good luck with the other things you alluded to, and please give J122 an experience he can gloat about for some time.

[j122]

Great. Hope that she over compensates and comprehensively ruins you.

fingers crossed 

[Picti]

You do have a way with words!!!

I bet every punter now wishes they were J122 

Oh I'm sending him bogus directions and going instead