Welcome to UKP. Share your pain about AW.
I am not excusing this shit, but Adult Work has been like this forever. It is nothing new. So I (gently) don't agree with the words 'these days'. All days! Look at the first 100 posts on this site from years ago ... many describe the same shit.
So that is why UKP exists. Look on AW. Find a girl. But then, put her number in the search here. If no results, move on, plenty of fish in the sea. If you really want to take one for the team, that is fine, but if you do it too often, you will feel ripped off. There are thousands of good girls reviewed here. No need to TOFTT too often. (Though we like it if you do it sometimes and post a review).