So you asked her then? Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Will you continue to punt with her?
No, at the very start of the booking she asked what I was doing for the rest of the day. I said I was doing nothing
I asked her then straight afterwards what she was doing. Trying to allow me to do what you suggested about the Pizza. But going out with her boyfriend was the response. So immediately knew I was beating a dead horse.
Given her declaration that she is skint and doing this for the money, your original plan of social escorting may appeal to her. Or is she doing this behind the bf's back and could potentially be a bit awkward if she is seen out and about with another chap?
I know, she really was going to town about how skint she was and the sheer lack of bookings and such. And I really was lying there saying should I offer the social escorting thing to her or shouldn't I. And I just remembered Daffodils posts saying I would look pathetic to her if I did so held back begrudgingly. But still gave her my email address.
Chatting with hot females is worse than doing the driving hazard perception tests. You get split seconds to make a decision and you often on reflection when you get home say I wish I did that, this and the other.
But regards to her she is so much a pessimist (which actually I like in a person). She told me the last booking a week ago she wont join adultwork as she is worried about people knowing her address so wont do incalls.
Today I put emphasis on just doing the outcalls and she wont do that as she is worried about safety.
It was this how I managed to suggest taking my emails as I had said she had saw me 4 times now and she will know by now if I am a dodgy one or not. So she could just email me about bookings direct (this was from Softlads suggestion in another topic to do which was brilliant).