My best thing is to have the good lady suck mister happy clean but not often that happens.
Sometimes the lady tenderly wipes me and talks to mister happy as if he was me, quite nice.
Sometimes she hands me the wipes.
Always I am very sensitive after spurting, and do not like to be stroked but to be held is OK, to snog is OK, and to chat is fine but I never talk with my mouth full! I have never been asked to lick out the lady after a spurt, that is strictly for the porno fantasists.