Anth, I now understand what has happened to you and can only say it will be a blessing in disguise in time. I think that's messed up she tried to contact you in that way. As Hendrix said, a good prossie would be busy with other punters.
Don't gamble what you can't afford to lose, that includes your sanity. I wish you a happy punt 
That is just half of it unfortunately. As after I had took two weeks away from the forum, and the girl phoned my place of work, the local hospitals, the bloody gym I go to, asked the agencies to telephone me on the number I use to phone them, checked the internet for any deaths registered in my name! And she told me phoned up her mother worried sick wanting consoling from her mother as her good friend had went missing.....for two weeks. And she told me she was unable to sleep with worry.
I then had the overnighter with her. And I am stupidly thinking we must be best friends for life here when she told me all of this, and she must really like me here. As no way would any girl do that towards anyone else but someone they really like and care about. Then a few weeks after this......The obvious happened..... She was kicked out of her flat by her flatmate and contacted me in tears as she had nowhere to stay as her credit card was in the flat, she had no money and she faced sleeping on a park bench in winter. So she had nobody else to turn to for help but her close and only friend.
So stupid me lent her the money for the hotel and paid it onto my credit card on the understanding it would be taken off my arranged Christmas overnighter with her. On that day when seeing her she also said regular budget hotels were not good enough so wanted me to book the best hotel in Newcastle for us both. Which I did for the Christmas overnighter.
She worked for another 3 weeks after this and then 4 days before my overnighter was all planned, arranged, agreed and all sorts. She vanished. Refused to answer her phone, respond to texts, or PMs on the forum. She vanished. And she stayed vanished for weeks (so remember, when I took two weeks away from the forum, she did all that above, I was not given the same courtesy, she retired and planned with the clear intentions of never speaking to me ever again).
I later found out she chose to retire, just coincidentally was 4 days before my overnighter which she had totally forgotten about. She also allegedly totally forgot she owed me this money (So she thought the hotel let her stay there for free I guess). She just one day decided to retire, booked a train and moved down south to never come back to Newcastle again and it just happened to be 4 days before my overnighter which she completely forgot about.
So there is me losing the money I lent her, and the money for the hotel and all the food and drink for that overnighter I bought and the Christmas present I bought her and all sorts.
People elsewhere are calling me the biggest scumbag punter on the planet. When I am not, I am the biggest mug punter on the planet for falling for that classic and ever thinking this girl actually liked me. So as a result I am hardening up to prostitutes and the games they play on gullible mug punters like myself. And if it means other prostitutes don't like me as a result. Fuck'em. Better that than getting in a similar situation again with another girl. Seeing a prostitute is a business transaction for me from now on in. And I would strongly recommend every other punter who thinks he is friends with a prostitute starts thinking things through to themselves too. As I promise you, you wont be friends with a prostitute.
Am posting this here as I know the girl in question will never see it as if it was in the general board, or North East section she likely will. And I just wanted to get this off my chest. I really did think this girl was a friend of mine. And when it lasted it felt nice. And she wasn't, and I got stung for thinking that.
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