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Author Topic: A guide on how to cure erection problems in punting  (Read 29736 times)

Thankyou Ben. Definitely going to give this a go and I will let you know.

Hi all,

Wanted to give some positive news on this whole 'not enough sensitivity / difficult or impossible to cum' thing.

Had a punt today - vanilla stuff, which is really all I'm into - but am pleased to report success. I managed to have a really awesome climax during penetrative sex, and in fairly standard missionary position. This is something I've struggled to achieve for a while, as anyone who has read my previous posts on this thread will know.

What's made the difference? In order of priority:

1. Wank ban - exactly one month has passed since I started this ban, and I think it has paid off.
2. Not worrying too much about the ending, but just enjoying the situation for what it is, whatever happens.
3. A generally healthy lifestyle, plus I take daily supplements of zinc and l-tyrosine. Obviously I cannot claim, let alone prove, that these have made a difference, but for the sake of completion, it's best that I mention them.
4. 25mg sildenafil an hour prior to punt. This is a low dose and taking it may be more psychological than physical, but worth it in my opinion. I did once try a higher dose but found this had a negative effect on sensitivity, the exact opposite of what I was trying to achieve.

So, anyway, I thought it would be encouraging to report some good results from all this, and hopefully it's onwards, upwards and better from here.

That Sir, is great news.

The update is welcomed, my own ban ends this Friday and am therafter hoping for a similar result!!

Offline MrMatrix

Well done Rockhead great news. I've just passed the 4 week ban and I'm going nuts. Tried for a punt recently and she doesn't do FK despite her profile saying she does, so I walked. I hope to have another shot later this week. Well done Rockhead, brilliant news :thumbsup:

Offline uutarn

Its about 3 weeks for me for the wank ban (well i did once but that was with a fleshlight (does that count?)

Fucked yesterday and although i didn't cum from penetration, it was very very close, and when i used my hand i came pretty much instantaneously.

So although i haven't achieved what i want, i can definitely see improvement.

 :drinks:

Congrats Rockhead, great result. I think I'll copy some of your suggestions.    Bm

Offline MrMatrix

Its about 3 weeks for me for the wank ban (well i did once but that was with a fleshlight (does that count?)
Fucked yesterday and although i didn't cum from penetration, it was very very close, and when i used my hand i came pretty much instantaneously.
So although i haven't achieved what i want, i can definitely see improvement.
uutarn, youre not suppose to use the fleshlight I would say it does count. I think having a shag is legit excuse for any sort of wank TBH. So it looks like you're improving. Me, despite walking out on a SP this week (cos she didn't FK, which is a deal breaker for me) I still havent unloaded for over 4 weeks  :hi:

Offline uutarn

uutarn, youre not suppose to use the fleshlight I would say it does count. I think having a shag is legit excuse for any sort of wank TBH. So it looks like you're improving. Me, despite walking out on a SP this week (cos she didn't FK, which is a deal breaker for me) I still havent unloaded for over 4 weeks  :hi:
I don't think i could go that long mate, hats off to ya!  :hi:

Offline nervous1

Try not to beat yourself up (no pun intended) about this - I'm sure that experience is more common than you realise. At least you did cum. On my last two punts I didn't climax at all, despite the most recent one being with the hottest woman I've ever had sex with. I guess I could have had a go at finishing myself off, but I didn't want to because wanking is something I can do free at home (and anyway I'm on a wank ban, lol).

I left that punt feeling part-destroyed, but it wasn't long before I began to see it differently and wrote a glowing review of the girl in question (Hot Kim x). I didn't cum, no, but I did get naked with an amazing woman, played with her massive tits and tiny clit, and had great OWO. She then rode me like an animal, before I flipped her onto her back and fucked her - hard. I kept going until I couldn't. It certainly wasn't the ending I wanted, and I'm prepared for the same again next time, but what I'm trying to do is take the many positives from the situation, and not dwell on the negative.

I reckon the only answer is to keep up the good work on the wank ban, healthy lifestyle etc - and when it comes to shagging WGs, to see it as fun and practice for even more fun ahead.  ;)


Thanks for words of encouragement.  After throwing my toys out the pram it became obvious to me that I don't have the willpower to last that long without a punt.  Unfortunately, I've slipped back into bad habits so it's back to wankers rehab for me.

I like the glass half  full approach but I would personally rather resort to finishing myself off if I have to then leave with a bursting sack.  Interesting that some of my most frustrating punts have been with the best looking too.  I wonder how much of that is psychological because I shot my load after a few minutes pounding an overweight WG a few months back.

If you've had great OWO then I would say you are nearly there because I've been feeling very little last few punts.

Hi all,

Wanted to give some positive news on this whole 'not enough sensitivity / difficult or impossible to cum' thing.

Had a punt today - vanilla stuff, which is really all I'm into - but am pleased to report success. I managed to have a really awesome climax during penetrative sex, and in fairly standard missionary position. This is something I've struggled to achieve for a while, as anyone who has read my previous posts on this thread will know.

What's made the difference? In order of priority:

1. Wank ban - exactly one month has passed since I started this ban, and I think it has paid off.
2. Not worrying too much about the ending, but just enjoying the situation for what it is, whatever happens.
3. A generally healthy lifestyle, plus I take daily supplements of zinc and l-tyrosine. Obviously I cannot claim, let alone prove, that these have made a difference, but for the sake of completion, it's best that I mention them.
4. 25mg sildenafil an hour prior to punt. This is a low dose and taking it may be more psychological than physical, but worth it in my opinion. I did once try a higher dose but found this had a negative effect on sensitivity, the exact opposite of what I was trying to achieve.

So, anyway, I thought it would be encouraging to report some good results from all this, and hopefully it's onwards, upwards and better from here.

You are officially now the man on this thread, congrats!

Offline GreyDave

 :hi: rockhead seems to have same thing going on as myself  :( I use 25mg and top up but find now I can pump away until I am well and truly Knackered the little fella goes down and after maybe 20-30-mins I am up and on again with the finishing cum shot often wanked out :( I do the walk-ups and the time thing is often the stopper for me but even with indy girls this is happening more and more Oh well at least the walk girls are cheap ;)  55 age is a bastard as John Beechaman said "I wished I`d had more sex"
« Last Edit: September 19, 2016, 02:39:47 PM by GreyDave »

You are officially now the man on this thread, congrats!

Thanks everyone - I hope it offered some encouragement, if nothing else. I may not be punting again until around October 10, mostly due to funds and a very sick car, but I'm certainly more confident about it and having fun planning what I'm gonna be doing next.

Offline MrMatrix

I don't think i could go that long mate, hats off to ya!  :hi:
Guys great news. Did a punt today and unloaded in cow girl. Indeed I thought her BJ was that good I thought she was going to finish me there and then. and I've never had any one do that before.
So last week went for a punt but ended up walking, got home and after over 5 weeks chocked one out- so annoyed with myself having gone so long. Then to day went to see Ava (body of a goddess I kid you not-see review) and it just all happened so naturally despite no FK. So a wank 5 days ago made no difference but a 5 week wanking ban has made a difference. Just hope its not a one off. This is the first time since February that I've not had to chock one out whilst with a WG. Will continue abstaining till next punt which will be next week.Blimey I feel fired up. :music:
Hopefully there will be more of us having success stories to share.
Still cant believe it  :yahoo:

Offline quakeroat

I probably suffered a bit from IRON GRIP syndrome when I started punting. Years of masturbating a certain way and no sex, certainly affected my sensitivity and ability to maintain an erection and climaxing with a rubber when it came to sex.

Thanks to all your posts and taking my own porn and masturbation ban for almost 2 months increased my sensitivity the to point where I was cumming after only 1 or 2 minutes after sex, which obviously has positives and negatives. I'm trying to find a balance of masturbating a couple of days before a punt, which allows me to perform decently in the bedroom, and not cum too quickly. But it is a tough balance and if I do masturbate a bit too roughly pre-punt, it can affect my ability to cum on the day.   

Guys great news. Did a punt today and unloaded in cow girl.
Still cant believe it  :yahoo:

There ya go! Great result. Pleased to hear this working out for you and for others. I reckon the long wank ban did enhance your sensitivity, and the fact that you had one wank a few days ago didn't make any difference. As I've no punts due I've reverted to the pleasures of the hand, but I'm doing it a lot differently - just a very light touch, and using just two fingers, and it has been working with no problem at all. That said, I'll impose another ban for a week or 10 days before I do my next punt.

I probably suffered a bit from IRON GRIP syndrome when I started punting. Years of masturbating a certain way and no sex, certainly affected my sensitivity and ability to maintain an erection and climaxing with a rubber when it came to sex.

Yes, this is the cardinal sin in my opinion - and of course it's totally understandable. No-one is going to tell you to masturbate in a certain way (well, not before this thread was established anyway) and years and years of doing things a certain way engenders habits that are hard to break, and leads to unrealistic expectations.

Offline MrMatrix

I probably suffered a bit from IRON GRIP syndrome when I started punting. Years of masturbating a certain way and no sex, certainly affected my sensitivity and ability to maintain an erection and climaxing with a rubber when it came to sex.

Thanks to all your posts and taking my own porn and masturbation ban for almost 2 months increased my sensitivity the to point where I was cumming after only 1 or 2 minutes after sex, which obviously has positives and negatives. I'm trying to find a balance of masturbating a couple of days before a punt, which allows me to perform decently in the bedroom, and not cum too quickly. But it is a tough balance and if I do masturbate a bit too roughly pre-punt, it can affect my ability to cum on the day.   
In my case 30 years of iron grip in my case - staying up was never the problem, but unloading has been for years. Never helps when the OH says "haven't you finished yet" and thats 20 years ago-
Any ways its good that we can support one another on this forum with these ideas as we are all pretty much in the same boat. I'll let you know next week if it was a one off or not.  :hi:

Offline quakeroat

Any ways its good that we can support one another on this forum with these ideas as we are all pretty much in the same boat. I'll let you know next week if it was a one off or not.  :hi:

I didn't realise this was a problem for so many blokes until stumbling upon this thread. It's a big relief to know I'm not the only one out there with this issue. Let us know how you get on MrMatrix  :thumbsup:

Offline nervous1

I've been doing all the wrong things for a while now.  Even watched some porn last week after discovering Ava Coxx.  Was bursting for a punt at the weekend so went ahead with one being willing to finish myself off and definitely taking the blue pill this time after my last disastrous punt.

OWO was still not that great but better than normal and made me want penetration that bit more.  Lasted about 2 minutes in doggy  :)  I always knew two pops was too much to ask but had some enjoyable sex without any pressure on me but my poor level of fitness is what let me down.  Finished myself off while she tongued my balls.  I think if I went long enough I could have gone about round 2 properly as there was enough sensitivity.

As Rockhead said, don't underestimate how much of this is in the head.  I had the eye of the tiger and was simply determined.  The main thing that is going for me is that I never use more than two fingers (even during punt).  I was also lucky that she never used her hand once which was a first for me and always something that usually guarantees floppiness so that's going to be a request from now on - no handjobs!  Even with the unfortunate return of personal hand relief the last while and slight porn relapse there is obviously some improvement in regards to sensitivity.  I may have perhaps 'flatlined' or something after that 3 weeks of abstinence.  Viagra also a must for me.

Offline MrMatrix

I didn't realise this was a problem for so many blokes until stumbling upon this thread. It's a big relief to know I'm not the only one out there with this issue. Let us know how you get on MrMatrix  :thumbsup:
Was it too good to believe. So today 2 days after last punt I'm thinking I can do it again. Nice punt, nice girl, But the auto trigger didn't kick in. Arrrrh after the other day I thought I was on a roll. No, back to having a wank whilst she was on all fours straddling me with her tits in my mouth and a finger in her cunt and my right hand helping me out. O well back to the drawing board. sigh, crest fallen..... :dash:
I've had worse wanks TBH. :unknown:

Fantastic info gents.

1. Wank ban in place after i don't know how many years!!

At least 2.5 weeks before opening the flood gates. :unknown:

Offline MrMatrix

yes I'm staying with the ban for a while. Only exception is if I'm on a punt and I think I can be forgiven that.  :hi:

As well as playing tontober, I'm doing stoptober. As I've already quit smoking I can't do that, so no porn, no wanking and no alcohol. I'll see how I get on. The stop is already in place.

All in preparation for Newvember......

tcm

The best of luck TCM, you don't do anything by halves do you!

Totally inspired by the content of this thread, I recognise all these symptoms (and the causes). Currently at day 10 of a total porn and wanking ban and have promised myself a punt as reward on 5th November - hope theres some karma in that!

Ps - sure its mentioned elsewhere but nofap.com is worth a quick visit if you feel yourself weakening and need a diversion (some of its a bit holier than thou and some BS, but there are some useful threads).

The best of luck TCM, you don't do anything by halves do you!

Never ever. If I'm doing anything, I do it big time.

tcm

Totally inspired by the content of this thread, I recognise all these symptoms (and the causes). Currently at day 10 of a total porn and wanking ban and have promised myself a punt as reward on 5th November - hope theres some karma in that!

Ps - sure its mentioned elsewhere but nofap.com is worth a quick visit if you feel yourself weakening and need a diversion (some of its a bit holier than thou and some BS, but there are some useful threads).

Always good to see a fellow cast member from Father Ted on here! Hopefully you'll be fine for the big Five-Aside Priests Over-75 match, Father Sensini - sadly we can't field Father Jack anymore due to rigor mortis and decomposition.

On a serious note, yes, that nofap site is worth a look. There are various ways of going about this - you might choose to avoid wanking altogether, or you might choose to allow yourself some stimulation but stopping short of orgasm, with or without porn / visual stimulation. Whatever you do, I recommend the lightest of touches - it's the 'death grip' scenario that is the real killer, and I think it takes time - sometimes quite a long time - to deprogramme the brain and re-engage sensitivity where it counts.

Some say a 'reboot' can take a total of 90 days. That sounds scary but it feels fairly accurate in my experience. Everyone's different though. The Nofap site has a worthwhile glossary of terms, and this section - about the Reboot process - is a lengthy but interesting read: https://www.nofap.com/rebooting/


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