If I had wanted to book a hotel i would have done that. if I had wanted to go to a park I would have done that. If you have an answer to my question please post and if not I do not require suggestions, it is not a punt with a working lady but a possible blind date with a lady who has not made up her mind and a hotel would be too blatant. I shall start with a drink, take her by car towards her home and stop in a secluded spot if I can find one, thanks.
And dear mods, if my question is out of order please delete the thread, so sorry.
PS and she is not overweight.