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Author Topic: Do your mates know you punt and punt too or?  (Read 3439 times)

Offline Abzfun1

Just wondering what folk do, for me absolutely no one knows I punt, I've never told anyone about it in around 18 years of punting on and off.

Staggers etc are different as folk would abroad but not here or so they say, maybe they are like me and keep it all a secret...... :angelgirl:

Been punting with a few friends before who also partook in the hobby, our circumstances were very different back then and it's no longer spoken about.  The only people who know I still punt are you fuckers and the prossies I see, I have no idea if any of the aforementioned guys still go hooring or not.

Offline ClitTeaser

Tell nobody - full stop.

 (I) What would be the point in telling them?  You probably won't be viewed in a good light.

 (II) They have something on you should you fall out.

 (III) How do you know they won't spread it around.

 

Offline MrFox

I got into punting a few months ago, my mate / work colleague has been punting for 15 years. I got into it on my own, then through conversation I discovered he did it too. No one knows I do it except him.

Been on a few Stags and a few boys go off with a hooker or two, I have always wanted to but managed to resist, as much as you'd hope no one would say anything back home, I'm not taking the fucking chance, so many guys tell their Mrs a bit too much, and sometimes skew the facts to keep them in the clear.

The few punts I have had I make sure I have a reason for being in the area, my work takes me around a bit, only problem is the short notice so I can never plan ahead.

Gents

I generally agree with all the points made so far......

The first rule of punting club is......that you don't take about punting club!!!!

Just my opinion, but anything other than this can lead to while load of shit!!!

Offline Marmalade

I did once bump into a mate. "What are you doing here  :wacko:?" "Same fucking thing as you, ya dirty raj!"

There are one or two countries or places (very few in my opinion and far less than lazy fuckers proclaim) where a buddy to show you the ropes can be invaluable. I always do my own on-the-ground research, but in one case I can remember, even after turning up some excellent pigshit, I still hadn't hit the more sophisticated highs that I'd heard mentioned. I found a couple of ex-pats who, although a bit up themselves about it, had developed a system and even a venue where punters got a reasonably good deal and with pre-screened whores available for the asking. The whores were completely independent but realised they had a coveted reputation to maintain or they'd be off the 'list.' Other well-informed punters decried it, as with a long period of local knowledge, game, and language skills they could get the same for themselves; but for even an experienced newcomer it was largely a closed world.

A bit of a daft question to think anyone goes round bragging to non-punting mates, surely? Yet occasionally it comes up. I was getting off the plane on holiday once and a clearly clued in American guy was doing his best to get away from some other Americans, the louder variety, that he'd been travelling with. We soon struck up a bond and he confided to me that he was on holiday to 'look for some ladies' among other things. He was into both civvies and prossies and pretty expert. He only knew one place, which he introduced me to and we then found others (I had explored before). We became good mates. Bit of banter when we both got into the same prossie (he was not into same-room sharing) but overall it worked out quite well. It can be quite good cheer to have some good company to share a drink with inbetween rounds.

That was a punting buddy based on friendship. I am not really very interested in doing it the other way round. There's a difference between a friend, someone I want to hang out with, and a punting buddy (someone I might share tips with) or even a punting 'colleague' (someone I might have a laugh with in the sauna waiting room or even a LMP-style party). It's good to know the difference I think. Don't screw up someone else's boundaries. Or your own.
« Last Edit: January 16, 2016, 07:21:27 PM by Marmalade »

Nobody knows and nobody will know,punted a few times on stag weekends but that is different.

Offline mavgoose

I have an inner circle of friends. 4 of us.
They all know.
One of them has done it once.
One of them has done it a few times here and loads abroad.
One of them hasn't. Just not that kinda guy.
I do it by far the most.

I'll only talk about it if they ask.
Which they sometimes do. 

Offline Marmalade

As there's maybe several newbies joining or reading the thread that don't intend their mates or anyone else to know, maybe not a bad time to point out that when posting on UKP take care to keep it that way.

Thousands of people read these threads. We have had cases of the occasional punter leaving too much information, maybe nothing very serious, but pieced together over many threads paints a picture based on lots of small details. Your mates are maybe not going through the forum with a cyber toothcomb, but one crazy prossie might one day. Several of the most vicious prostitutes, ones that have outed people not only online but traced them to their workplace and their wife, are sufficiently competent with technology to cause serious harm and even destroy someone's life. Remember to take care of your online identity, online on UKP, on AW, and also when talking to WGs (most are nice people: some only show their true colours later, so it's a case of be good to yourselves and others by all means but don't leave yourselves open.)

Hope that doesn't sound patronising (Longstanding members probably don't need reminding; eggs available with fluffy-sucking instructions attached for others.)

Offline dougal

Definitely haven't n never will tell anyone I punt

Offline Steptoe

Just ONE friend
We have total trust
He does not punt these days (illness) but was rampant in the past
He lives 90 mins drive from me. I actually visit him anyway every 8 weeks or so BUT nominally I visit him more frequently - AND MOST IMPORTANT he provides the "cover story" for me should TOH wish to double check where I have been all day during those other days.  We prearrange the story variants.  TOH never has made such a double check - but my mate and I always make sure there is a total cover story.

Step

Offline ClitTeaser

Marmalade, excellent point regarding piecing together clues.  Anyone got any tips on this point.

 Personally I keep my punting references vague.  Never give specific dates and times.  'The other day' doesn't detract from a review's purpose.  Also keep personal descriptions of yourself to the bare minimum.  Fat / thin / young / old don't add much to reviews either.

 Any comments / advice.

Offline Marmalade

Marmalade, excellent point regarding piecing together clues.  Anyone got any tips on this point.

 Personally I keep my punting references vague.  Never give specific dates and times.  'The other day' doesn't detract from a review's purpose.  Also keep personal descriptions of yourself to the bare minimum.  Fat / thin / young / old don't add much to reviews either.

 Any comments / advice.

Careful what you (not you specifically, anyone) post in off-topic.
Don't use the same name on here as on AW or during punts.
Don't mention UKPunting to prossies.
Study the advice in https://www.puntingwiki.com

Remember to take care of your online identity, online on UKP

Good advice, hope nobody recognises me now.

I've never told anyone or even hinted.  However, after working in London for a long stint with my boss he just came out one night and said "we're going to a massage parlour tonight". Dunno why he thought it was worth outing himself.

Oddly enough he was known by name in the parlour but the whole thing weirded me out and we never talked of it again.

Offline Abzfun1

I just wondered, plenty folk tag team birds given the chance and I've heard stories of a few mates (not mine) going to one prossie and having a right good time.

That's what puts me off going to parties, not that there are many in Aberdeen but last thing I want to do is meet someone I know and most of all seeing someone I knows tadger!

There are far worse things my mates and I have got up to in our youth that I know they wouldn't tell a sole about but I still wouldn't tell even my best mate that I punt quite often.

Offline Roger De Her

Personally,  TOTAL SECRET, Amongst all friends ( some of who I suspect DO  punt),

- wife caught me out, before we married, an I "squared" with her, BUT  I do think she'd be dismayed if she saw the extent of my "straying" ( tho she's now "menopausal", and "smarter" than 99% or the population [plc director level],  we ARE a total family package,  and the missing sex is being easily supplemented...I just have to keep it under control and wraps! )

I have some "cracker" regulars,  and LUV the experimental exploration of other options - WILL remain secret unless   my hand is forced,  or something else changes!!!!

Society has yet to accept and recognise our "hobby" !!
Banning reason: Complaining about thread warning punters about criminal prossie

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A couple of mates - into the same thing now & again.  Bit like Marmalade have had convos with blokes abroad.  Or where i've happened to sit next to people on planes whilst on business trips.  After finishing up some work then a couple of G&T's sets a convo off - which goes slowly down the same slippery slope  :sarcastic:  Usually when the bloke is similar to me in various aspects.  There's a code - like the other person has mentioned that 'x' city is a fun place.  I've responded with something like 'had a look on the interweb & blah blah etc'.  Have had an hour+ quiet discussion as to where the best flesh-pots are located around the world.  Scribbled down some notes.  Have been on a bender with some cool geezers i met on one trip & went civvie pulling.  Ended up way too rat-arsed to have any reasonable chance of success.  Gave up went lap-dancing.  Then for hangover horn massage HE the next day at a parlour one of the blokes recommended  :yahoo: 

Offline solway

Tell nobody.
What goes on tour stays on tour f____n bollocks.
Just the married guys want in t keep their secret but then happy as Larry to tell big tales.No really matter a f_ _k but double standards.

It really depends on your friends, the good friends won't judge or show no respect to you.
When ever it's possible we go sauna and massage clubs and nobody has judged or fallen out over little things.
Plus it really depends on yourself

A few of my friends know i punt, but they also punt so we share tips.
However at work everyone knows who punts as in the bothy it's spoken about as the number 1 topic. I'd say at least over half the people at work punt and openly admit it to everyone.
People at work reckon i punt but i do deny it though.

Offline od13218

I have one good friend- before we were both married but after meeting our wives he confided in me (unprompted) that he had occasionally punted- hastily adding that he didn't any more! I returned the favour- also stressing that I had given up (trye at the time...!) Never mentioned since and we hardly ever see each other these days . The only reason it's ok is that I had told my wife before we were married- so he doesn't know anything she doesn't! That was over 10 yrs ago and I'd never tell anyone now.

Offline ClitTeaser

Although I stand by my principle of not telling anyone I suppose the situation is different if your friends also punt.  Having said this, I still wouldn't tell.

 The comment about having a job where many others punt is interesting.  We may all have one of those but just never know it. :-).

I don't think there is anything to be gained by sharing this private shit with friends, before you know if they'll tell their wives and girlfriends and you'll be secretly known as a dirty fucker!

Nah, I keep this to myself, and you lot too of course. :drinks:

Tell nobody - full stop.

 (I) What would be the point in telling them?  You probably won't be viewed in a good light.

 (II) They have something on you should you fall out.

 (III) How do you know they won't spread it around.


+1

my thoughts exactly , some people are too judgemental , even friends




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