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Offline jaydeh44

So I've finally (after a very long time!) built up the courage to book my first punt. I'm booked for an outcall tomorrow evening. I have no idea what to expect and I'm quite nervous and I have a few questions. I'm aware that 99% of the escorts out there are probably fine and lovely people so I hope my questions don't offend anyone - I'm just concerned about that 1%.

I've read around that it's quite legal to do this in the UK, but is there anything I need to be aware of that IS illegal (baring in mind shes visiting me at my hotel, its not a brothel or something)?
Any safety concerns I might need to be aware of (in terms of physical safety, stealing things, etc)?
What is the general etiquette of a meet - what happens after I answer the door? (do I hand over the money, do I leave it on the side, does the money exchange hands immediately, etc).
Whats the general conversation like? I don't want to spend 20 minutes talking about football but equally don't want to be rude (in the same way I wouldnt be rude to the checkout lady at ASDA).
Bring my own condoms, or use hers?
Finally: OWO. What sort of risks are attached to this? Seems like most people say the risks are very very small, with HIV risk being pretty much nil. Does anyone know of anyone catching anything this way and would you say the risk is worth it? Obviously any very small risk is still a risk...

Getting very... VERY nervous  :dash:

Offline Nagilum

Look at the punting wiki at the bottom of the page. Have a read of 'New to Punting'. These are common worries and addressed in that article.

To make it easy.

https://www.puntingwiki.com/wiki/New_to_Punting
« Last Edit: January 11, 2016, 10:58:53 PM by Nagilum »

Offline Nagilum

When done ask your questions if any remain.

Offline jaydeh44

These are the questions Ive had after reading that, which is why I've acknowledged that for the most part it isn't illegal - and at there is a "small" risk of infection from OWO.
My questions are in context to my punt, I can see what isn't legal, brothels etc - but in my situation is there anything illegal that I might need be cautious of. The only thing that springs to mind is that she must be over 18 but I just want to double check.
Likewise, OWO carrying a "small" risk - I'm trying to find something somewhere that might be a bit more informative than "small". Anything between 0.01% and 10% could be "small" in my opinion.
And that wiki doesn't much answer my questions about etiquette.

Offline Nagilum

You are not at risk doing from HIV doing OWO. You are however susceptible to Herpes and some would argue the clap..

You need to do some reading and go to POZ. You need facts which they have on the site. Google until your heart content.

Now with what you propose there is no risk of legal complications.

Some tips.

Take only the right amount of money, no more.
Take a cheap watch
Don't take your expensive phone

If you must, leave things out of sight.

Now have fun :)
« Last Edit: January 11, 2016, 11:44:03 PM by Nagilum »

jcdmj12

These are the questions Ive had after reading that, which is why I've acknowledged that for the most part it isn't illegal - and at there is a "small" risk of infection from OWO.
My questions are in context to my punt, I can see what isn't legal, brothels etc - but in my situation is there anything illegal that I might need be cautious of. The only thing that springs to mind is that she must be over 18 but I just want to double check.
Likewise, OWO carrying a "small" risk - I'm trying to find something somewhere that might be a bit more informative than "small". Anything between 0.01% and 10% could be "small" in my opinion.
And that wiki doesn't much answer my questions about etiquette.

Yes, you can catch an STI (gonorrhoea) from OWO, but you probably won't.  Looking for specific percentages is pointless because they are all estimates, which is why they vary. If it worries you that much, I suggest going OW to start off with; the last thing you want is to ruin the punt because you're fretting about the OWO risk.   I started off OW only, then decided I preferred OWO.  If I had a partner I was barebacking regularly, I'd go back to OW (or maybe even stop altogether).

Just go and get it out of the way, man.  The worst that's likely to happen is you have an uninspiring experience, but you may well enjoy it.    And yes, don't take an expensive phone or leave a wallet with ID / cards in out of your site.  Most prossies won't touch it, but you don't want to tempt people unnecessarily.
« Last Edit: January 11, 2016, 11:42:26 PM by jcdmj12 »

I think you are over analysing the situation, probably due to your nerves.

Nothing in this game is entirely risk free, but only you can decide if it's worth the risk;
as others have said, go the OW route rather than spoil the experience.

I'm sure we've all been in your shoes!  Enjoy yourself, after all, you're a long time dead!

Oh and.... Don't forget to give us a review!   :hi:

Offline Nagilum

I think you are over analysing the situation, probably due to your nerves.

Nothing in this game is entirely risk free, but only you can decide if it's worth the risk;
as others have said, go the OW route rather than spoil the experience.

I'm sure we've all been in your shoes!  Enjoy yourself, after all, you're a long time dead!

Oh and.... Don't forget to give us a review!   :hi:

When I was born, I emerged with a condom strapped on. I looked at the nurse and my first words were "get on with it".  So yes only in my infancy was I concerned.

True story  :D

It's a bit like RO; if you stop to think how many blokes have been there before you, begining to over analyse, you would probably not do it.

I love it and as long as I can see she is clean... I'm in there slerping like a St Bernard!

You only live once!

 :hi:

Offline Nagilum

It's a bit like RO; if you stop to think how many blokes have been there before you, begining to over analyse, you would probably not do it.

I love it and as long as I can see she is clean... I'm in there slerping like a St Bernard!

You only live once!

 :hi:

+1

I remember the first time I swore to never FK, DFK or do RO. Well... 2 minutes later that went out the window!

Offline Dani

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As for payment confirm services before handing over the cash. If she says she has to pop out to pay/see/talk to her driver once she has the money tell her that's fine but you will go with her or tell her to go but leave the money in your room (a small few will do a runner with your money and leave a handbag full of crap in the room to convince you she is coming back)
As for talking chat about anything you want but once services are confirmed, small chit chat for a few mins is fine but after five mins tell her you want to move things on as some will just keep chatting if they know you are nervous to waste time

As for payment confirm services before handing over the cash. If she says she has to pop out to pay/see/talk to her driver once she has the money tell her that's fine but you will go with her or tell her to go but leave the money in your room (a small few will do a runner with your money and leave a handbag full of crap in the room to convince you she is coming back)
As for talking chat about anything you want but once services are confirmed, small chit chat for a few mins is fine but after five mins tell her you want to move things on as some will just keep chatting if they know you are nervous to waste time

+ 1  You've had a lot of good advice here Jaydeh44, let us know how you get on.

Best of luck  :hi:

Offline jaydeh44

Thanks guys; this is the kind of stuff I was looking for! I'll let you know how it goes!

Offline LL

I'm aware that 99% of the escorts out there are probably fine and lovely people so I hope my questions don't offend anyone - I'm just concerned about that 1%.

Being an escort doesn't make her more likely to be a lovely person. She is a person after all. How many strangers do you meet in your daily life who come across as lovely people? Take that ratio but then weight it slightly towards "bad" as unfortunately the paid sex industry does attract some desperate people and others looking to scam.

Offline nasar

should go with an incall as your first punt or have an outcall at a cheap hotel. as it could backfire on you nosy neighbours etc
Banning reason: Previously banned

Good luck, enjoy yourself and GO FOR IT!

tcm

Online cueball

Op

Once your happy thats she's pukka and you''ve followed all the good advice above....

Don't over think it anymore, get your kit off, get her kit off, get stuck in, let your dick do the thinking once the head is happy.

Report back to us with your thoughts, good or bad

You've done well for an newbie poster on ukp, welcome

Well OP... How did your first punt go?

Offline Marmalade

Fuck off. Same question posted back in November in the East Midlands section. Chances of him coming back with a genuine report are probably somewhat less than minus 99 trillion.

In the movies, a group of older men will encourage a younger frat boy on his first trip to a prostitute and it's all very good fun as he pops his punting cherry. That rarely happens in reality because punting is a necessarily secretive business and furthermore connected with a degree of culturally-induced shame. In other words, when planning a first punt, the least natural thing to do is go on some social punting website and chat about it. Much more likely to come on here afterwards, with a feeling of having 'got away with it.'

It's a question that naturally arouses a sympathetic response though, so a good number, even if overused, for any unimaginative troll.

Queue fake review. Or maybe he'll turn up on the Scottish section in a couple of months looking for 'suggestions'.

Offline uutarn

In other words, when planning a first punt, the least natural thing to do is go on some social punting website and chat about it.
Weird, because thats exactly what i did... maybe i'm a freak though :unknown:.

Asked some questions, got some advice, punted, then come straight on here and reviewed.

Online cueball

Well, I notice the op hasn't come back on to give his thoughts....

I think marmalade is onto something in the past above

Offline LL

Well OP... How did your first punt go?
He had to cancel as he woke up this morning with jizz-filled pants.

Offline Sonny Crockett

So I've finally (after a very long time!) built up the courage to book my first punt. I'm booked for an outcall tomorrow evening. I have no idea what to expect and I'm quite nervous and I have a few questions. I'm aware that 99% of the escorts out there are probably fine and lovely people so I hope my questions don't offend anyone - I'm just concerned about that 1%.

I've read around that it's quite legal to do this in the UK, but is there anything I need to be aware of that IS illegal (baring in mind shes visiting me at my hotel, its not a brothel or something)?
Any safety concerns I might need to be aware of (in terms of physical safety, stealing things, etc)?
What is the general etiquette of a meet - what happens after I answer the door? (do I hand over the money, do I leave it on the side, does the money exchange hands immediately, etc).
Whats the general conversation like? I don't want to spend 20 minutes talking about football but equally don't want to be rude (in the same way I wouldnt be rude to the checkout lady at ASDA).
Bring my own condoms, or use hers?
Finally: OWO. What sort of risks are attached to this? Seems like most people say the risks are very very small, with HIV risk being pretty much nil. Does anyone know of anyone catching anything this way and would you say the risk is worth it? Obviously any very small risk is still a risk...

Getting very... VERY nervous  :dash:

I hope your first punt went well??
Banning reason: Troll

He had to cancel as he woke up this morning with jizz-filled pants.

 :D

And had to pack his bag for college.

tcm

Offline Sonny Crockett

I started punting just to have sex with women. That was the main motivation for me. I looked forward to it. It started with parlours, before I gradually went on to Adultwork independents.
Banning reason: Troll


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