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Author Topic: Busted by the wife!!!!  (Read 2374 times)

Online Redevil86

Good luck m8 , it's most on here's worst nightmare, there are worse things in life that can happen but most end with a funeral.

Offline Gigiddy

Red gives a lot of wisdom
Unless you have been through an acrimonious divorce you will not be able to believe the  depths and the lies a spurned woman will go through.
it is unbelievable how their friends will pour scorn and spew bile about you without any supporting evidence
 I would be very wary if she is being lovey dovey, she could be accessing or trying to access your bank account  or creating new accounts to transfer all you money into before she chucks you.
She could be arranging alternative accommodation for her and the family.
You could come home one day and everything is gone I know people this has happened to.
As Red said  don't trust her one inch

I am sure being a nice fella you will say oh she wouldn't be like that....

Believe me she can be evil incarnate it is part of her primordial urge to make sure she and any children survive.

Watch your back



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Offline MrMatrix

Red gives a lot of wisdom
Unless you have been through an acrimonious divorce you will not be able to believe the  depths and the lies a spurned woman will go through.
it is unbelievable how their friends will pour scorn and spew bile about you without any supporting evidence
 I would be very wary if she is being lovey dovey, she could be accessing or trying to access your bank account  or creating new accounts to transfer all you money into before she chucks you.
She could be arranging alternative accommodation for her and the family.
You could come home one day and everything is gone I know people this has happened to.
As Red said  don't trust her one inch

I am sure being a nice fella you will say oh she wouldn't be like that....

Believe me she can be evil incarnate it is part of her primordial urge to make sure she and any children survive.

Watch your back



I
they can lie bareface and believe it. You are not the only person on this site that this problem resonates with. No one save a fellow punter will be on your side if it gets out. No one knows what happens behind closed doors and no one will ask the one fucking obvious question "Why did he feel the need to punt in the first place". Derr the answers obvious.   :dash: :dash:

Red gives a lot of wisdom
Unless you have been through an acrimonious divorce you will not be able to believe the  depths and the lies a spurned woman will go through.
it is unbelievable how their friends will pour scorn and spew bile about you without any supporting evidence
 I would be very wary if she is being lovey dovey, she could be accessing or trying to access your bank account  or creating new accounts to transfer all you money into before she chucks you.
She could be arranging alternative accommodation for her and the family.
You could come home one day and everything is gone I know people this has happened to.
As Red said  don't trust her one inch

I am sure being a nice fella you will say oh she wouldn't be like that....

Believe me she can be evil incarnate it is part of her primordial urge to make sure she and any children survive.

Watch your back



I

I am very wary and as prepared as possible that it could all change in an instant but do believe she is being genuine

To answer your points directly:-
I have been through an acrimonious divorce. This is wife no. 2 and I thought I'd got it right second time around.

As tragic as it sounds, she doesn't really have any friends to influence her. Plus, I don't think she would be prepared to share her suspicions because of the shame/stigma attached!

We don't have a joint bank account so there's no danger of her taking any of my money. Saying that, neither of us have fuck all anyway to be honest!!

There's no family to lose; it's just the two of us. The kids/step kids are all grown up and live elsewhere.

I am worried about the possibility of her ransacking the house and getting home one day to an empty shell or the locks having been changed so that's my only concern really.

Only time will tell but I sincerely hope we can be best friends and lovers like we were a long time ago!!

Online Redevil86

Hopefully, she had a wake up call when she saw your phone, and has given you the benifit of  doubt, but she will be woundering how that stuff gets on your phone if you haven't been checking those type of sites . Keep your enemies close Thay say, she maybe doing that or not, but that works both ways, easier to keep an eye on her if you keep her close, but do delete u k punting after you post, I walked in the house only last week with my phone and wallet in hand, stood in kitchen talking to the o h with daughters back and forth, only when upstairs I realised I had my punting phone In between said items ! If I'd have put them on the worktop !!!!! Who knows , so easy to slip up.

Offline MrMatrix

I am very wary and as prepared as possible that it could all change in an instant but do believe she is being genuine


Only time will tell but I sincerely hope we can be best friends and lovers like we were a long time ago!!
If you want to be lovers you need to sit down the pair of you and talk or get counselling before WG's take over your life. Create quality time together. Even I'm thinking this year I may stop punting  on the chance I can get back with the OH. Its complex, but none of us here really want a separation. If you mean what you say then you need to think outside the box - yea literally. Best of luck LS

Offline Gigiddy

 Thats a relief mate, as long as you aren't going puppy eyed into the on coming traffic.

Some women will accept extramarital sex as a given.Especially with WG where it is assumed there is no love/connectivity.
Ineed a recent Sunday Times article likened the "new Awakening of career women to extra martial affairs" to women having their nails or hair done. It is seen as just another type of physical workout...AND THE CAN GIVE ALL SORTS OF SHIT FOR IT!
 Many do in Europe...we have strange hypocritical Victorian ways in the UK

All THE BEST
Banning reason: Frivolous reporting

Hopefully, she had a wake up call when she saw your phone, and has given you the benifit of  doubt, but she will be woundering how that stuff gets on your phone if you haven't been checking those type of sites . Keep your enemies close Thay say, she maybe doing that or not, but that works both ways, easier to keep an eye on her if you keep her close, but do delete u k punting after you post, I walked in the house only last week with my phone and wallet in hand, stood in kitchen talking to the o h with daughters back and forth, only when upstairs I realised I had my punting phone In between said items ! If I'd have put them on the worktop !!!!! Who knows , so easy to slip up.

And that's my point exactly Red. I posted this to begin with just to serve as a reminder to everyone to be super careful as it only takes one little slip up and you'll knacker everything. If you can get careless, anyone can!


Thanks to everyone for contributing excellent advice and if it helps just one punter avoid getting found out, it will all have been worth it.

Cheers boys! :cool:

Online Redevil86

Totally agree, this hobby has to be all time consuming, you may only punt 4 times a year or less , but have to be aware of punting 24 / 7 all year around as your punting phone, blue pill stash and anything else you may use are hidden away 100% of the time and if you use your day phone , well you just can't switch off.




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