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Author Topic: Busted by the wife!!!!  (Read 2373 times)

I know everyone thinks they are being careful but I just thought that by sharing my experience, it may act as a useful reminder to everyone.

In a nutshell, my wife found texts between me and a couple of wgs trying to arrange punts. Somehow or other, I've gotten away with it by using the text spam excuse but I think it's a case of she doesn't want it to be true so that's what she believes!

I know it's my own fault for not deleting them but I had a family medical crisis which distracted me and I just hadn't gotten around to covering up my tracks. I've read threads on here saying to use a separate phone for punting but I obviously ignored them plus it would be more difficult for me to hide another phone than use my regular one.

Anyway, the moral of the story is that when you think you've been clever enough, think again and double your efforts to be super careful!

Offline newforthisyear

Find an old phone and get a giff gaff sim and don't get caught again.

I don't think she'll go so easy on you if she catches you for a second time.
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Offline Johny Stone

Or buy a sim which is much easier to hide than a phone.
Sorry for what happened  :dash:

Offline Redevil86

Red alert, no pun intended , she has fallen apon something that has shocked her and is taking a back seat at the moment as you may have a home and family and she knows this is all at risk etc, etc . She will be watching like a hawk your every move, she will probably tell har sister / close friends who will all say your guilty 100% , that's what woman do ! this will re enforce her doubts of you, she will be on your every move so how you get away for a punt God only knows, be very very carefull, a woman is a very good spy when Thay have a scent of unfaithfulness in her nostrils , do not think she has beloved you, EVER .

Offline Redevil86

Obviously meant to say,  believed you, good luck.

This is why my punting phone stays at work many miles away from wifey  :D

Check out mumsnet, you may find her talking about it on there. There's quite a few threads about guys getting caught punting on there - it's worth reading for tips on how to avoid the kind of things they'll do to catch you out.

Offline mashit1

Spare phone at work in a locked draw. Cut down on all the risks , it's the only phone I've ever put a password on , always leave my normal phone unlocked so the wife is free to look at anything on it , she knows I'm a good boy then  :wacko:

Thanks for all the advice but I know where it went wrong and it was just one of those things with the emergency and all that.  I did consider the different sim but never got around to it.

I'm very aware that things could change instantly from her but without going in to detail, this is on the back of her fucking me over financially so I think she sees it as a 'call it quits' kinda thing.

I am genuinely worried about us splitting up but also gutted that I'd started having some great punts and was enjoying every minute of it!!

So much for my 2016 wish list then. Think I need to lie low for the foreseeable future!!

Online cueball

Punting phone, the most essential item in the attached punters podging toolkit.

That's the only thing in real life I have that links me to punting, everything else lives on the internet.

you need a punting email address too if your registered on aw, here or similar sites.

 Just thought I'd give a quick update to my situation.

While I'm still aware that everything could change at the drop of a hat, I think I'm currently through the worst of it. The wife has been the best she's been for years and years and no longer being a cunt to me.  So every cloud etc.......

That leaves me with trying to think of ways to get punting again and thoughts about engineering situations to get away.

At the same time, it's probably also done me a favour in making me take a breather as I was getting a bit addicted to it all!!

Offline Redevil86

A wake up call can be a good thing , but always be one step ahead and always think the unthinkable, she may be getting close so to keep a closer watch on you, maybe not ? But always be aware of the blind side hit , as I said before, good luck , as none of us know when the shit may strike ?

Offline Lorenzo

I agree a punting phone is a essential item for punting - I do however feel in this situation its going to be difficult to get her trust back mate and whenever you pop out even for a genuine reason she will be thinking something else . I think you have two choices Take a break till the trust comes back or Break your marriage and punt the rest of your life.
Good Luck 
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Offline Lorenzo

one other thought - didnt you have a lock or security code , Finger print recognition or pattern lock on your phone.
Banning reason: Arrogant cunt

Cheers Red
I'm still very wary and open to the fact that she could change her mind at any moment but there's nothing I can do about and worrying won't help so I'm just enjoying the effort she's making while it lasts!

To answer the passcode/fingerprint question, yes I had both and I use my own algorithm based on personal info to create passwords for every site I'm registered with. Obviously she knows a lot about me and so managed to figure it out but still have to compliment her on working it out. Fair dos!!

In the meantime, I'll have to live in the memories of my previous punts and punt by proxy through all your lot's reviews and discussions on here.

Offline mr big

women are the most devious creatures you think everything is ok but its not be on your guard and if I was you stop punting for now

Offline Lorenzo

i thought theirs no way you can bypass the fingerprint verification unless someone cuts your finger off but on reviewing if you input incorrectly a few times it gives you the option to input a passcode..... NOW this has to be unique not 12345 or your Birthday star sign The key aspects of a strong password are length (the longer the better); a mix of letters (upper and lower case), numbers, and symbols; with no ties to your personal information, and no dictionary words. The good news is you don’t have to memorize awful strings of random letters numbers and symbols in order to incorporate all of these aspects into your passwords; you simply need a few skills and a bit of intelligence
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Offline MrMatrix

Just thought I'd give a quick update to my situation.

While I'm still aware that everything could change at the drop of a hat, I think I'm currently through the worst of it. The wife has been the best she's been for years and years and no longer being a cunt to me.  So every cloud etc.......

That leaves me with trying to think of ways to get punting again and thoughts about engineering situations to get away.

At the same time, it's probably also done me a favour in making me take a breather as I was getting a bit addicted to it all!!
Every punters nightmare LS. When you say the wife has been the best for years. Do you mean she's up for a shag more frequently. Or she's just stopped picking arguments with you and making you fell like shit all the time. If things are that good why not make the most of it shagging wise and put the WG's on the side for the time being. Gives you a chance to save up some funds for when it all peters out as it most likely will and it will take the pressure off you being caught out. If it keeps going well you may just think why take the risk again. long term strategy is required:unknown: best of luck mate.
In the mean time get punting phone and in my case I keep it in my car as my OH hates the pile of shit I drive.

Offline Corus Boy

Pin Codes, Passwords, Fingerpring Scans etc are all fine but in a relationship are all immediately defeated when the OH asks;

"Why don't you trust me to see your, phone, Internet Logs, Emails, Messages?"

If you are hiding something you're sunk, if you're not you're still sunk, because if the OH has even the smallest suspicion you are guilty until proven innocent.

Part of my punting ritual is to delete all call logs and txts from my phone as I'm in the lift/walking up the stairs to any meet. Then even if my punting phone is found it's explained as an old one that isn't used anymore as there will be nothing on it.

tonibell99

Part of my punting ritual is to delete all call logs and txts from my phone as I'm in the lift/walking up the stairs to any meet. Then even if my punting phone is found it's explained as an old one that isn't used anymore as there will be nothing on it.

It's worth checking for a few hours after the punt, in case you get a "thanks had a great time" message later, or in my case "you're a filthy bastard" message  :blush:

Offline schutz

Im single and I make sure I use a separate email and delete any texts, if your not happy fucking your wife then leave her, you wont have to be putting up with shit like this happening.

its not even messages, whatsapps, internet history, emails (remember trash folder as well) and calls you have to watch out for. clear your sat nav data - phone satnav has "recently visited" as well as "searched address" kept in the history.

if you have an iphone it tracks your locations.....
settings
privacy
location services
system services (at the bottom)
frequent locations
.....this should now display your frequent locations. if you have a reg WG you visit it will show multiple times!!

i need to get a punting phone. with todays tech it seems a must

Thanks for all the advice from everyone. It's all relevant and good reminders to everyone here just to review their security etc. And that was my intention in posting this anyway. I deleted all history, emails, tracking info., but the one time I didn't do that was all it took to get busted. Therein lies the lesson.
To answer one of the questions (from Mr Matrix, I think), the wife is being better in her behaviour not sex-wise. That was okay anyway but still not as good as punting girls like we are all after here.

I'm actually seeing al this as beneficial due to her behaviour change which is ridiculous really. But along with that, I'm really pissed off that it's taken something to affect her to make her be a nicer person. She hid loads of debt from me early last year and went to counselling to get help but still refused to admit she was wrong when I asked her to think about what she's done. It's been okay for her to hurt me and do nothing about it but now that she seen that I could actually be capable of hurting her, she bucks her ideas up!

Fucking hypocritical women full of double standards!!

Punting is definitely off for now and I'll see how the future goes.




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