Now that would be interesting. I have no interest in joining UKE, but perhaps a UKP who is also a UKE can do the honours.
We also have a few WG's on here that keep to rules. Be interested in their perspective
I don't really worry about it too much as its just another part of the job. I try to let them down gently but if that doesn't work (it rarely does) then I block all communication with them as it does get draining if you keep them hanging on and any contact is encouraging the behaviour.
It happens sometimes especially if someone is feeling rather lonely that they get an emotional attachment to a woman who is giving them the attention they need.
However it is never love no matter how much the man insists it is as they don't know the real me. They know the fantasy they are paying for. Whilst a lot of me comes over in a booking they still don't know me. To be in love with someone you have to have seen them at their worst and still feel the same way but clients only see us at our best.
I do feel some of the replies on saafe are cruel and very ungrateful but I noticed the worst replies came from the younger girls who in real life wouldn't think about dating older men or men who were not classically attractive. I think me being older I understand life a bit more so know that infatuation can make you feel/believe you stand a chance if someone is being so nice to you.
No point putting it ok UKE as it will all be bollocks in reply as it will upset their purses if they told the truth.
I have learned to spot the signs early so now in post sex chat I tend to make it clear that nothing more is on the cards and that I never mix business with my home life. I prefer to do this as then they can get themselves on check before they go too far.
However I think some who posted on saafe need to realise that it is just another part of the job they need to learn to deal with long before it gets to that stage.
If a guy starts booking more and more often or emails or texts more and more then you know he is getting attached and you need to let him know it will never happen. If explaining doesn't work then tell him you won't see him so often and stick to it. Tell him you are too busy too keep answering his emails/texts as you have other clients to deal with. Then and only then if it doesn't work block all contact. There is no point getting upset or angry about it as you should have made it clear before it got to that stage they are only angry about the loss of money
Just before Xmas I had to block all contact from a monthly six hour client as he didn't get it and it got to the point where if I kept contact open I would just be encouraging his fantasy which is a cruel thing to do just to keep the money coming in.