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Offline Wayang

You have confirmed what I suspected  ---------------- you are simply a wind up merchant.
Tick-Tock     :rolleyes:

+1 - which of many aliases is he/she using?

Anyone who persists with the myth that WGs usually and regularly enjoy sex with punters is seriously deluded.

Offline mh

And laughing all the way to the bank, good for her. If a WG can just step into being a WG earn the money she wants and get out great, she has had enough brains to bypass years of training and make good money straight away, knowing sex sells.

The numbers being described don't allow for any tax being paid so she had just better not spend large amounts of it or HMRC will be calling to take half away and put her in clink.

You have confirmed what I suspected  ---------------- you are simply a wind up merchant.
Tick-Tock     :rolleyes:

Do you mean you do not believe me that I have a date with Lizzie? Wait for the FR early in September.

+1 - which of many aliases is he/she using?

Anyone who persists with the myth that WGs usually and regularly enjoy sex with punters is seriously deluded.

I cannot say usually and regularly with punters. I can only speak for my own experiences and the great times I have had. If your experiences are different do not generalise from them.

I am not sure what you mean by aliases? We all use an 'alias' when we post these stories. I am sure Wayang is not your real name?

Offline Jimmyredcab

The numbers being described don't allow for any tax being paid so she had just better not spend large amounts of it or HMRC will be calling to take half away and put her in clink.

Most pro$$ie spending can't be traced, clothes, shoes, holidays etc ----- of course it would be unwise to buy property or expensive cars while on benefits.  :P

i had a serious conversation about this with a girl recently who simply said she was going to do this job for 5 to 7 years ,which would make her 34 ish then she thinks she will have to retire as her body etc wont be able to cope ,now she works a 3 day week giving her 18 one hour bookings which means she earns £2520 so after travel food and a hotel she clears £2000 a week meanwhile she is training in another field and shortly going into cam and dom work .
by the end of the year she hopes to clear £2500 a week  or £112000 a year with 2 long holidays   so £787000 to retire on at an old age of 34 .
so although she says and appears to like cock i do think the money is the main draw .....

I suggest she is being a tad optimistic,  its really hard to meet even modest targets in the sex industry, once your value as new girl on the block has passed, 18 clients in 3 days??? I know parlours with 7 girls on shift, who have days when 10 clients walk through the door, to be shared among 7 girls.  If a girl is organised and can pace herself she might be lucky and make early retirement money, I have met one girl who bought herself a stables business, and others who have property, but the majority never rise above the rented flat in a difficult area of town, no credit on their phone. As a general rule, if you can make a success of yourself in one area of life, you can do it in another. But that is not actually something that applies to the average sex worker.

Offline adindas

I am pretty sure the main reason anyone goes into this job is money.  If not we would not charge or would just charge a nominal amount of say a tenner.  Of course it is the money. ......

If we got no pleasure out of this job at all though we would not stick with it.  We would burn out and become jaded very quickly. ...

Good to know this naked truth lady

I suggest she is being a tad optimistic,  its really hard to meet even modest targets in the sex industry, once your value as new girl on the block has passed, 18 clients in 3 days??? I know parlours with 7 girls on shift, who have days when 10 clients walk through the door, to be shared among 7 girls.  If a girl is organised and can pace herself she might be lucky and make early retirement money, I have met one girl who bought herself a stables business, and others who have property, but the majority never rise above the rented flat in a difficult area of town, no credit on their phone. As a general rule, if you can make a success of yourself in one area of life, you can do it in another. But that is not actually something that applies to the average sex worker.

i would agree she is optimistic but she is very hard to book and is firm on her 3 day policy which to her starts at 8am and finishes at 11pm and at her rate even seeing 6 a day means a lot of ££££££££££££££  .
she is also clever in another bussiness which keeps hmrc away and she doesn't sign on ,got to hand it to her

well lost my racing license so not going to be a racing driver  :cry:

was in a well paid job, would i go back not unless several of them dropped dead or i wouldnt be in control of my actions  :diablo:

fucking for money just makes me more hyper which i enjoy

Offline SuffrageforNuffrage

There are many girls out there who would never become a prossie (not for a reasonable price anyway), so what is it that flicks that switch in a girls head that lets them justify to themselves that its OK to exchange sex for money?

Being skint? - must be more than that
Peer pressure? - I guess is your friend is a WG and you see their money, it justifies and validates the career
Enjoying sex/promiscuity? - and if you enjoy it you may as well get paid for it
Mental/Physical/Sexual abuse? - I know it can be a factor
Acromonious Divorce? - of parents or their own relationships
All of the above  ;)
Other ?


'Being skint?'  Everyone that works, does so to avoid being skint.  Almost everyone works because they have to earn a living, WG being no different.

I would guess the reasons that 'make' a girl become a WG are as varied and diverse as that of any other job.  My experience when meeting/interacting with other WG's  is that they are as varied a group of people from as many different walk of life, classes, back grounds etc as people at uni, working in Tesco, the punters on this board and so on.

What makes a punter become a punter and flicks a switch that makes them justify to themselves it is ok to exchange money for sex?

There's nothing to justify about being a WG any more than there is to being a punter. 


I became a WG because:

* I am self employed, self sufficient and independent as a result.

* Able to chose hours that fit my timetable, can be changed any time I wish and offer maximum flexibility.

* It's exciting, offers adventure, spontaneity, variety.

* Is, at times, extremely rewarding, liberating, empowering and thrilling.

* Suits my personality.

Tony Montana


'Being skint?'  Everyone that works, does so to avoid being skint.  Almost everyone works because they have to earn a living, WG being no different.

I would guess the reasons that 'make' a girl become a WG are as varied and diverse as that of any other job.  My experience when meeting/interacting with other WG's  is that they are as varied a group of people from as many different walk of life, classes, back grounds etc as people at uni, working in Tesco, the punters on this board and so on.

What makes a punter become a punter and flicks a switch that makes them justify to themselves it is ok to exchange money for sex?

There's nothing to justify about being a WG any more than there is to being a punter. 


I became a WG because:

* I am self employed, self sufficient and independent as a result.

* Able to chose hours that fit my timetable, can be changed any time I wish and offer maximum flexibility.

* It's exciting, offers adventure, spontaneity, variety.

* Is, at times, extremely rewarding, liberating, empowering and thrilling.

* Suits my personality.

Thanks - you seem you have understood the question I was originally asking.

The point is that being a WG has a massive effect on your life.  There is  leading a double life of secrets & lies, lack of relationships, the risk of physical harm, or being outed to family and friends.  But the main thing is the social stigma of a "prostitute", I think some girls simply would NEVER become a WG.

It's true what you say about punters but I only have to lead that double life for a hour a month and I can justify it to myself because I get no sex at home so it is my only option.  A girl can get some money in a different job.

Offline adindas

When you imagine it from a man's point of view, being paid for sex, do you picture the fat, unhygienic, old women who would turn up? Would you still enjoy that?

No I do not. This one of the main reason I am punting because I could select the one who turn me on.

Offline enzio




What makes a punter become a punter and flicks a switch that makes them justify to themselves it is ok to exchange money for sex?



Such a good point and a bloody good question.  To me it was when I was desperate enough to try punting and realised the social stigma and stereotypes attached with punting were complete bollocks.  Then it was easy.

Offline adindas

While there might be some extreme case which are the exception, I will will say, "the easiest way to make large sum of money with the least effort in short time".
On the top of it
- The dole and/or
- Tax free income



Offline mattylondon

There are many girls out there who would never become a prossie (not for a reasonable price anyway), so what is it that flicks that switch in a girls head that lets them justify to themselves that its OK to exchange sex for money?

Being skint? - must be more than that
Peer pressure? - I guess is your friend is a WG and you see their money, it justifies and validates the career
Enjoying sex/promiscuity? - and if you enjoy it you may as well get paid for it
Mental/Physical/Sexual abuse? - I know it can be a factor
Acromonious Divorce? - of parents or their own relationships
All of the above  ;)
Other ?
Usually when  they've hit what people call 'rock bottom'. My experience through post punt chats reveals many reasons. Sudden unemployment, physical or mental abuse from a partner or family (often been in some form of social care, so more abuse), drug addiction, left with nothing as the result of a failed relationship.

I've never met one single woman who was, deep down, happy to be a prossie. Even a naturally promiscuous woman. It's a myth. There's always another compelling reason.

I've read 'Cassie' here talking about the 'flexible hours' whoring brings, or having a child in care. I've never read so much bollocks in my whole life. The justifications some of these women use are incredible. Why don't you just be honest and say that you're a slut anyway, as a result of swing or such like and enjoy the easy tax free income. Don't bring your family into this as a self justification, when that has fuck all to do with it. There are women in far worse positions that you who wouldn't stoop to whoring to survive because they still have their dignity. You left yours at the door when you decided to become a prossie. 

I know of one woman who has a child requiring constant medical care, another with Down syndrome and a couple with families who hold down two jobs. I even know an ex prossie who has two children and who also has two different jobs now, as she's quit (after initially going back), as a result of my help. It be done. It's about gaining back your human dignity, having determination and being the recipient of decent advice. It wouldn't even occur to the woman I know who has a son with DS to to take up whoring? It wouldn't come into your average woman's head and there is only a certain type of woman where that would. 'Cassie's' words of wisdom my testicle. I seem to remember it was for sexual related reasons, so if you're going to come on here as some kind of whoring sage, at least post up the real and accompanying reasons, which we both know.
« Last Edit: August 25, 2012, 11:01:59 AM by mattylondon »

Offline mattylondon

Such a good point and a bloody good question.  To me it was when I was desperate enough to try punting and realised the social stigma and stereotypes attached with punting were complete bollocks.  Then it was easy.
A punter isn't a prossie and a prossie isn't a punter. The two things aren't the same by a long shot, so the comparison and attempt to deflect this onto punters by this prossie is nonsense.

Men 'pay for sex' in many ways, whether that be through paying whores, the wag or general trophy wife. Anything that pertains to a financial advantage for the woman, with a man who isn't of similar looks could be perceived as such and even when he is good looking. A guy who gets some tart drunk in a nightclub by paying for loads of drinks in the hope of a quick fuck, is often paying for it!

Prostituting yourself for sex with any type of man, is a completely different ball game. This constant desire by some prossies to compare a prostitute with a punter amuses me.  :rolleyes:

I should also add a lack of basis education is another reason for women choosing whoring.

Offline enzio

A punter isn't a prossie and a prossie isn't a punter. The two things aren't the same by a long shot, so the comparison and attempt to deflect this onto punters by this prossie is nonsense.

Men 'pay for sex' in many ways, whether that be through paying whores, the wag or general trophy wife. Anything that pertains to a financial advantage for the woman, with a man who isn't of similar looks could be perceived as such and even when he is good looking. A guy who gets some tart drunk in a nightclub by paying for loads of drinks in the hope of a quick fuck, is often paying for it!

So what then would you say when the woman is the major breadwinner in the family?  What about men who are kept by women?  What difference who is paying who or what label is attached to whom (whether that be "slut" or "dirty slimey git who pays women for sex")?  You may aver that the stigma is worse for a woman who is being paid by a man for sexual services (whether that be because she is sleeping with him because he has bought her a load of drinks or because she is a WG (either way she is going to be considered a "slut")) but there is also a stigma attached to a man paying a woman for sex.  That stigma may be a lot less if he has bought her a load of drinks compared with him paying her upfront for sex but the stigma is there nonetheless.  Ultimately, I think the op is asking "what flicks the switch for women so that they decide that they are going to accept money for sex and face the Stigma of being a whore" as opposed to, for instance, working in Tesco's  and facing far less Stigma (albeit, earning far less money).  The same can be said for punters - what flicks the switch for us to decide that we are going to go and pay women for sex thereby facing the Stigma of being a punter as opposed to trying to pull/ get into a relationship/ having affairs with non WG's etc all of which carry  less Stigma for us but have different consequences.  Its a difficult question for many punters on here to answer as we have we overcome the Stigma and don't really care about it any more.  There was a time, for instance, when I felt disgusted by the thought of paying a woman for sex.  Now its a big turn on for me.
« Last Edit: August 25, 2012, 05:58:24 PM by enzio »

Offline GlasgowGirl

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Usually when  they've hit what people call 'rock bottom'. My experience through post punt chats reveals many reasons. Sudden unemployment, physical or mental abuse from a partner or family (often been in some form of social care, so more abuse), drug addiction, left with nothing as the result of a failed relationship.

I've never met one single woman who was, deep down, happy to be a prossie. Even a naturally promiscuous woman. It's a myth. There's always another compelling reason.

I've read 'Cassie' here talking about the 'flexible hours' whoring brings, or having a child in care. I've never read so much bollocks in my whole life. The justifications some of these women use are incredible. Why don't you just be honest and say that you're a slut anyway, as a result of swing or such like and enjoy the easy tax free income. Don't bring your family into this as a self justification, when that has fuck all to do with it. There are women in far worse positions that you who wouldn't stoop to whoring to survive because they still have their dignity. You left yours at the door when you decided to become a prossie 

I know of one woman who has a child requiring constant medical care, another with Down syndrome and a couple with families who hold down two jobs. I even know an ex prossie who has two children and who also has two different jobs now, as she's quit (after initially going back), as a result of my help. It be done. It's about gaining back your human dignity, having determination and being the recipient of decent advice. It wouldn't even occur to the woman I know who has a son with DS to to take up whoring? It wouldn't come into your average woman's head and there is only a certain type of woman where that would. 'Cassie's' words of wisdom my testicle. I seem to remember it was for sexual related reasons, so if you're going to come on here as some kind of whoring sage, at least post up the real and accompanying reasons, which we both know.

Wow.

You seem really fucked up. Apparently you are now some kind of 'helper' of prossies, advocating that they "gain back their dignity" . You sound like one of these radfem abolitionists!

Why on earth would you pay to have sex with women you so clearly despise? or intensely pity?   :scare: , I seem to recall you referring to your punting in the past tense in a few posts recently so perhaps you have now changed your views and all prostitution is now bad, all all prossies despicable untouchables. Either way your experiences seem to have royally fucked you up, never mind the prossies you talk of  :unknown:
« Last Edit: August 25, 2012, 06:13:51 PM by GlasgowGirl »

Wow.

You seem really fucked up. Apparently you are now some kind of 'helper' of prossies, advocating that they "gain back their dignity" . You sound like one of these radfem abolitionists!

Why on earth would you pay to have sex with women you so clearly despise? or intensely pity?   :scare: , I seem to recall you referring to your punting in the past tense in a few posts recently so perhaps you have now changed your views and all prostitution is now bad, all all prossies despicable untouchables. Either way your experiences seem to have royally fucked you up, never mind the prossies you talk of  :unknown:

Well argued. Mathew, you can't take the moral highground and then go and pay these women for sex and think you are better than them. Ok, so the woman selling sex has lost all dignity, but you (the bloke paying to have sex and eat a vagina that's been fucked by several guys a day) have lots of dignity? Ridiculous.

And if prostitues generating a large tax-free income bothers you so much, maybe stop fucking funding them! You could take that money and donate it to a Downs charity, as opposed to funding the lives of people you so evidently despise.
« Last Edit: August 25, 2012, 09:20:19 PM by jesus_jones »

Wow.

You seem really fucked up. Apparently you are now some kind of 'helper' of prossies, advocating that they "gain back their dignity" . You sound like one of these radfem abolitionists!

Why on earth would you pay to have sex with women you so clearly despise? or intensely pity?   :scare: , I seem to recall you referring to your punting in the past tense in a few posts recently so perhaps you have now changed your views and all prostitution is now bad, all all prossies despicable untouchables. Either way your experiences seem to have royally fucked you up, never mind the prossies you talk of  :unknown:

well said.

Offline mattylondon

well said.
The point I was trying to make about that particular prossie, which is lost on you, is that I know who she is and remember her previously posting that she decided to start renting her hole out through swinging, with her cuckold husband. Her family ' situation' not being the prime driver at all, so lets have a bit of honesty, ok.  :sarcastic:

As for Enzio; I respect him, so I'll answer via pm. Of course, you know fuck all about my circumstances or of whom I speak re the other SPs I've been involved with. The other two are on ignore, for different reasons. One is a trolling little cunny, who I cant take seriously. The other, no offense, is a mouthy jock, who's knowledge of punting matters appears to be, judging from previous posts, gained through her chats in this mysterious GUM clinic!

There is no great mystery. I respect the good prossies, as providers of sexual services, but not as people, in general everyday life. If they offends anybody, tough shit. I don't hate or despise any at all. Sorry, I don't see any contradiction and I'll reiterate...there is no justification to become a whore in the UK. At least Rangersbird was honest about her reasoning and I respect that.  ;)
« Last Edit: August 26, 2012, 08:23:07 AM by mattylondon »

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I respect them as providers of sexual services, but not as people, in general everyday life. Sorry, I don't see any contradiction and I'll reiterate...there is no justification to become a whore in the UK. At least Rangersbird was honest about her reasoning and I respect that.  ;)

You seem a tad bitter and resentful. Would you like a hug?

Offline mattylondon

You seem a tad bitter and resentful. Would you like a hug?
I'd much rather you be useful and suck my cock instead hunny. I'll reserve the hugs and kisses for women I respect. You singularly lack the wit to try and be sarcastic with me! Nice try though! :sarcastic:

Post up your profile via PM and lets see if we can sort something out. I don't recall your nick, so I'll have to aquatint myself with your previous posts and let you know. I have no reason to be resentful of prossies; just being honest. If it suits you to believe that, you take comfort in that. I really couldn't care less what you think. :hi:
« Last Edit: August 26, 2012, 08:36:41 AM by mattylondon »

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I'd much rather you be useful and suck my cock instead hunny. I'll reserve the hugs and kisses for women I respect. You singularly lack the wit to try and be sarcastic with me! Nice try though! :sarcastic:

Post up your profile via PM and lets see if we can sort something out. I don't recall your nick, so I'll have to aquatint myself with your previous posts and let you know. I have no reason to be resentful of prossies; just being honest. If it suits you to believe that, you take comfort in that.

No sarcasm intended my dear, you just seemed a bit angry/pessismistic/down on life, and I hate to see a soul in turmoil. People generally don't turn to the internet to vent unless there's something going wrong in their life. So Matty, what is wrong with you? No protestations, and I promise I won't judge. With regards to the cocksucking, afraid you missed your chance treacle. This is the last of four days I'm working before I leave the country for a month. Maybe in the future.... although I'm not sure you'd want to pay my rates, and I don't do discounts :P

I really couldn't care less what you think. :hi:

Likewise honeybun ;)

Offline mattylondon

No sarcasm intended my dear, you just seemed a bit angry/pessismistic/down on life, and I hate to see a soul in turmoil. People generally don't turn to the internet to vent unless there's something going wrong in their life. So Matty, what is wrong with you? No protestations, and I promise I won't judge. With regards to the cocksucking, afraid you missed your chance treacle. This is the last of four days I'm working before I leave the country for a month. Maybe in the future.... although I'm not sure you'd want to pay my rates, and I don't do discounts :P

Likewise honeybun ;)
Ah bless. Addressing me as "my dear", in a somewhat feeble effort to patronise shows that you have a serious weed up your arse. What's the matter honey? No punters today? Phone a little dusty? Perhaps you need to put some more effort into that, than your posts on here! You amuse me. No more from me to you, as you don't represent that much of a challenge. I hope you cheer up and find some cock to suck later! At least that will save some of us from your dreary posts.  :rolleyes:


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