Popular media on UKEscorting.com (free site!)

UKPunting is a free, independent and not-for-profit paid sex buyer site.


Author Topic: What makes a girl become a working girl?  (Read 10507 times)

Offline Dani

  • Service Provider
  • Posts: 2,593
I am pretty sure the main reason anyone goes into this job is money.  If not we would not charge or would just charge a nominal amount of say a tenner.  Of course it si the money.
It is not always correct to assume though that it is because we cannot earn money in any other way due to lack of education or being too lazy.  I know a few women (myself included) that have a disabled child so this job fits around carers and gives us enough money to pay for the needs of those children.  I know one woman who has been diagnosed with Progressive Multiple Sclerosis and has been told she has a couple of years at most before she is permenently wheelchair bound so is doing this work to earn as much as she can until that time comes so she can afford to pay for all the adaptions she will need done in her home.
A few women do this to help pay for childcare whilst the go onto further education as they did not gain the needed qualifications when they were younger or want a different line of work.  None of these are pure need or desperation but these people have seen prossying as a viable way to pay for what is needed in the short term.
Yes some do it just because they cannot get any other work, I have a prossie friend that actually failed the online application for a well known fast food chain with the Golden Arches as her attitude was not what they were looking for.  I also know some who actually do love sex with strangers but they did not last too long as they thought it would be all hunky guys or rich guys as per Belle Du Jour. 
I think to do this job you not only have to be a great actress you also have to have the ability to see something nice in everyone, be it a glint in their eye, they way they smile or even just the way they laugh.  You have to be able to do that to gain any enjoyment from this

If we got no pleasure out of this job at all though we would not stick with it.  We would burn out and become jaded very quickly.  So yes I would say most of us who stay around longer than a few months do get pleasure from our work but like everyone else who works we do it for the money. 

Offline yumyum3

Great post Cassie and Kristina too. Your perspectives most welcome :kissgirl:

Offline mh

I have a date with LizzieMatureBBW soon in London.
Link to this Profile Page using https://www.adultwork.com/588017 or https://www.adultwork.com/LizzieMatureBBW
"Pubic Hair: Natural" (hmmm, possibly due to her not having seen this area for many years and in fact unable to reach it with a razor)


1 review(s) found for LizzieBroadbottom linked to in above post (1 positive, 0 neutral, 0 negative)

Offline mh

Great post Cassie and Kristina too. Your perspectives most welcome :kissgirl:
+1

Offline bobdavid

+1

Yeah ... i was wondering how she can only offer Anal Play and not anal..? I mean, it's not like most people's dick's even going to be able to get close to the hole anyway, is it..?!? Unless that's the point - that you need an actual broom stick to penetrate (and that would then be classed as playing...).

Offline smiths

Yeah ... i was wondering how she can only offer Anal Play and not anal..? I mean, it's not like most people's dick's even going to be able to get close to the hole anyway, is it..?!? Unless that's the point - that you need an actual broom stick to penetrate (and that would then be classed as playing...).

Some WGs i have punted with offered Anal Play on them but didnt offer Anal penetration which is no interest to me.

Offline James999

It is not always correct to assume though that it is because we cannot earn money in any other way due to lack of education or being too lazy.

It is a logical conclusion to make, as if there was an ability to earn the money without selling her body and entering a "job" that most "normal people" regard as degrading and discusting she would do so.

I have yet to meet a Pro$$ie who gave up /or declined a WELL paid job to become a pro$$ie.

And as for education, it has been said before you don't need a degree to suck cock, and as such wasting time at Uni in their most valuable years  (18 - 21) would be a bad investment for a girl, as their body is a depreciating asset and something guys will in general be less willing to pay for as she gets older.

Can you give me an example of any pro$$ie who has either

A. Turned down well paid emplyment and continues to do so to be a pro$$ie ?

B  Has a valuable degree in something other than "Hair and beauty" or "media Studies"   :hi:

Offline bobdavid

It is a logical conclusion to make, as if there was an ability to earn the money without selling her body and entering a "job" that most "normal people" regard as degrading and discusting she would do so.

I have yet to meet a Pro$$ie who gave up /or declined a WELL paid job to become a pro$$ie.

And as for education, it has been said before you don't need a degree to suck cock, and as such wasting time at Uni in their most valuable years  (18 - 21) would be a bad investment for a girl, as their body is a depreciating asset and something guys will in general be less willing to pay for as she gets older.

Can you give me an example of any pro$$ie who has either

A. Turned down well paid emplyment and continues to do so to be a pro$$ie ?

B  Has a valuable degree in something other than "Hair and beauty" or "media Studies"   :hi:

I imagine lots of girls may have turned to prostitution because it's now a much more highly regarded profession than many others .. eg. B(w)ankers, Tax Collectors, Parking Enforcement Officers, Politicians, Doctors, Dentists, Telesales/Coldcallers and BMW drivers ... all of these are used to shafting Joe Public on a daily basis and being hated for it ... so I have a lot more respect for escorts/prostitutes than I do for any of those - and I expect normal working people would feel the same.

Offline Daffodil

I imagine lots of girls may have turned to prostitution because it's now a much more highly regarded profession than many others .. eg. B(w)ankers, Tax Collectors, Parking Enforcement Officers, Politicians, Doctors, Dentists, Telesales/Coldcallers and BMW drivers ... all of these are used to shafting Joe Public on a daily basis and being hated for it ... so I have a lot more respect for escorts/prostitutes than I do for any of those - and I expect normal working people would feel the same.

This cannot be a serious post?

Offline bobdavid

This cannot be a serious post?

<rant>Why not... I hardly ever see hordes of people picketing about prostitution and how it's bad for the country ... for bankers and their ilk, though, I have. They're a detestable bunch and I hope for the sake of this country we find a government that has enough balls to do something about it.</rant>

Offline Daffodil

<rant>Why not... I hardly ever see hordes of people picketing about prostitution and how it's bad for the country ... for bankers and their ilk, though, I have. They're a detestable bunch and I hope for the sake of this country we find a government that has enough balls to do something about it.</rant>

Bankers is one thing (although I wonder what the world would be like without banks), but you also claimed, amongst others, that pro$$ies are more highly respected than doctors and dentists. Care to explain your logic?

Offline bobdavid

Bankers is one thing (although I wonder what the world would be like without banks), but you also claimed, amongst others, that pro$$ies are more highly respected than doctors and dentists. Care to explain your logic?

This probably isn't the place to get into my thoughts on the health service ... but, yeah, I've seen the problems with the NHS first hand. Doctors work to a rule book which tells them which medicines and procedures they are allowed to give for a given set of ailments and symptoms. The ones that I have known (having work for the NHS until a few years ago) have been absolutely bastards/bitches with their underlings, the nurses ... deriding them, threatening them, undermining them ... the whole NHS is run like a private business - albeit a poorly run business. As with most of the public sector, if the NHS was treated the same as a private company, it would be sued to hell for employee rights issues.

So, yeah, I stand by my list - Doctors and Dentists. You'll note that I excluded Nurses, Midwives etc from the list - with good reason.

Offline Daffodil

This probably isn't the place to get into my thoughts on the health service ... but, yeah, I've seen the problems with the NHS first hand. Doctors work to a rule book which tells them which medicines and procedures they are allowed to give for a given set of ailments and symptoms. The ones that I have known (having work for the NHS until a few years ago) have been absolutely bastards/bitches with their underlings, the nurses ... deriding them, threatening them, undermining them ... the whole NHS is run like a private business - albeit a poorly run business. As with most of the public sector, if the NHS was treated the same as a private company, it would be sued to hell for employee rights issues.

So, yeah, I stand by my list - Doctors and Dentists. You'll note that I excluded Nurses, Midwives etc from the list - with good reason.

I wonder who you would want me to call if you suffered a cardiac arrest...a pro$$ie or a doctor?  :dash:

Offline James999

I imagine lots of girls may have turned to prostitution because it's now a much more highly regarded profession than many others .. eg. B(w)ankers, Tax Collectors, Parking Enforcement Officers, Politicians, Doctors, Dentists, Telesales/Coldcallers and BMW drivers ... all of these are used to shafting Joe Public on a daily basis and being hated for it ... so I have a lot more respect for escorts/prostitutes than I do for any of those - and I expect normal working people would feel the same.

Starting to sound like a Troll and it's only your second day  :music:

Kristina

It is a logical conclusion to make, as if there was an ability to earn the money without selling her body and entering a "job" that most "normal people" regard as degrading and discusting she would do so.

I have yet to meet a Pro$$ie who gave up /or declined a WELL paid job to become a pro$$ie.

And as for education, it has been said before you don't need a degree to suck cock, and as such wasting time at Uni in their most valuable years  (18 - 21) would be a bad investment for a girl, as their body is a depreciating asset and something guys will in general be less willing to pay for as she gets older.

Can you give me an example of any pro$$ie who has either

A. Turned down well paid emplyment and continues to do so to be a pro$$ie ?

B  Has a valuable degree in something other than "Hair and beauty" or "media Studies"   :hi:

James you hit the nail on the head - by using the term 'normal' I am certainly not normal and have never conformed to what is expected of a 'normal' person by society, over the years I have had some pretty weird and wonderful and quite whacky jobs some which conform some which don't. I don't like the ones that conform to be honest they are boring with too many small time politics which I can not be bothered with.

To answer your question if somebody said there is a job for me in normal society earning the same as what I do been a WG and with the same amount of effort and time needed to be invested I would say thank you but no thanks and stick with been a WG as I know I love what I do and right now would not want to do anything else.   

'Normal' people may view the whole industry as disgusing and degrading but I really do not care too much what others think of the industry or me as a WG they are generally people who know very little about the industry making judgements based on ignorance.
« Last Edit: August 22, 2012, 04:24:58 PM by Kristina »

Offline James999

I really do not care too much what others think of the industry or me as a WG

If that was true you would not feel the need to hide your face on your advertising  :hi:

Kristina

If that was true you would not feel the need to hide your face on your advertising  :hi:

My face pics are out there on my AW profile and many others and for the reason that I don't feel the need to hide.  My web designer has been told that I want my web site changing to show my face so no I am true to my word and upfront

Offline bobdavid

I wonder who you would want me to call if you suffered a cardiac arrest...a pro$$ie or a doctor?  :dash:

Well, ok, yeah, maybe I was being a little harsh ........... a lot of my friends work(ed) for the NHS and so I've grown quite spiteful to it I guess. There's a lot of corruption within the NHS - red tape that leads nowhere, rules and regulations that stop doctors doing what's right, etc ... I guess I should've laid the blame more on the NHS Managers.

Oh... stop calling me a troll. What the hell is a troll anyway..? Is that like an internet saboteur or something..? I'm not. I might not think through all my comments clearly before I post them - but I'm not a troll.

Offline Ali Katt

Well, ok, yeah, maybe I was being a little harsh ........... a lot of my friends work(ed) for the NHS and so I've grown quite spiteful to it I guess. There's a lot of corruption within the NHS - red tape that leads nowhere, rules and regulations that stop doctors doing what's right, etc ... I guess I should've laid the blame more on the NHS Managers.

Oh... stop calling me a troll. What the hell is a troll anyway..? Is that like an internet saboteur or something..? I'm not. I might not think through all my comments clearly before I post them - but I'm not a troll.
To be honest there can be corruption in any sector were big money is involved. Regarding a doctor, nurse or dentist, they would have all had to train for many years to get to that position, obviously the quality and aptitude of that professional can vary. You can get an 18 year old woman, no qualifications, never had a job in her life, already has a couple of little brats and she earns 1k a week spreading her legs. Bit of a difference. I think to say prostitutes are regarded as being a more respected "profession" is ridiculous, regardless of looks or the quality of service provided.

i had a serious conversation about this with a girl recently who simply said she was going to do this job for 5 to 7 years ,which would make her 34 ish then she thinks she will have to retire as her body etc wont be able to cope ,now she works a 3 day week giving her 18 one hour bookings which means she earns £2520 so after travel food and a hotel she clears £2000 a week meanwhile she is training in another field and shortly going into cam and dom work .
by the end of the year she hopes to clear £2500 a week  or £112000 a year with 2 long holidays   so £787000 to retire on at an old age of 34 .
so although she says and appears to like cock i do think the money is the main draw .....

Offline James999

My face pics are out there on my AW profile

Fair call, but I doubt anyone would recogniose you as the amount of Photoshop is pretty extreme  :scare:

Offline smiths

<rant>Why not... I hardly ever see hordes of people picketing about prostitution and how it's bad for the country ... for bankers and their ilk, though, I have. They're a detestable bunch and I hope for the sake of this country we find a government that has enough balls to do something about it.</rant>

Prostitution is perceived by many as being absolutely disgusting with junkie WGs and raincoat wearing perverted guys buying sex on street corners, thats the image which is media led with femi-nazis like Julie Bindel keeping it like that as much as they can. A great pity but thats the truth of it. You must of noticed the negative media bias.

In 2008/9 Harriet Harman attempted to criminalise all punters for buying sex with ANY WG, fortunately she couldnt get that through so had to settle for with Coerced WGs whether we as punters know the WG is being Coerced or not. Although the coalition hasnt yet proceeded with new laws they might.

At its heart the belief of the so called law makers and shapers is they can shag around if they wish but the ordinary man on the street shouldnt be doing so with WGs as it destroys the family unit and gives men an option to get sex without needing a partner which leads to commitments like marriage, mortgages and kids to pay for, all of which suits all governments just fine as the guy is then stuck obeying the rules society lays down and will pay his tax like a good boy.
« Last Edit: August 22, 2012, 05:27:29 PM by smiths »

Offline yumyum3

Quote
so £787000 to retire on at an old age of 34 .
so although she says and appears to like cock i do think the money is the main draw .....

And who can blame her: clever girl. As softlad said yesterday: I would if I could  :hi:

Quote
At its heart the belief of the so called law makers and shapers is they can shag around if they wish but the ordinary man on the street shouldnt be doing so with WGs as it destroys the family unit and gives men an option to get sex without needing a partner which leads to commitments like marriage, mortgages and kids to pay for, all of which suits all governments just fine as the guy is then stuck obeying the rules society lays down and will pay his tax like a good boy.

Now there's a fucking good post smiths and no mistake  :drinks:

Offline smiths

i had a serious conversation about this with a girl recently who simply said she was going to do this job for 5 to 7 years ,which would make her 34 ish then she thinks she will have to retire as her body etc wont be able to cope ,now she works a 3 day week giving her 18 one hour bookings which means she earns £2520 so after travel food and a hotel she clears £2000 a week meanwhile she is training in another field and shortly going into cam and dom work .
by the end of the year she hopes to clear £2500 a week  or £112000 a year with 2 long holidays   so £787000 to retire on at an old age of 34 .
so although she says and appears to like cock i do think the money is the main draw .....

And laughing all the way to the bank, good for her. If a WG can just step into being a WG earn the money she wants and get out great, she has had enough brains to bypass years of training and make good money straight away, knowing sex sells.

Offline smiths

And who can blame her: clever girl. As softlad said yesterday: I would if I could  :hi:

Now there's a fucking good post smiths and no mistake  :drinks:

Thanks mate. Its the main reason prostitution wont be legalised or even decriminalised in my view, more likely be further criminalised.

The thing is though there is a world if not a universe of difference between what laws are passed and what actual action the police take, that is and i believe will be the punters big advantage even if it was completely criminalised. The police havent the staff, resources and in some areas the will to close down brothels which are obvious, the street scene continues despite the police knowing the where, when, why and sometimes who, so passing and enforcing laws around prostitution are two completely different things. I cant see any government allocating vast extra resources to find and nick punters wholemeal. This distinction between what the law says but how its applied on the ground in reality really is a good thing with prostitution, shades of grey instead of just black and white. ;) :drinks:


Latest videos on UKEscorting.com (free site!)

Latest images on UKEscorting.com (free site!)